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For those into the BDSM LifeStyle
Who is into erotic electrastim?
I’ve been experimenting with a tens machine for erotic stimulation, with some amazing results. I haven’t seen any discussion here about this, who else is into this?
by Bird69too21replies2,604viewsCattle Prod
So while browsing FB Marketplace I (the male half) came across an add for a rechargeable cattle/livestock prod about 3' long. Well my mind immediately went to "social distancing"…
by RusticMagic7replies1,608viewsBDSM CANING
Has anyone used a Delrin cane. My femdom has a 1/4” one that hurts like hell. Definitely keeps me in line.
4replies922viewsCouples in Medical Play
We are and have always enjoyed medical play with couples and singles. Anyone else interested. And what’s the biggest turn on. For me it’s the snap of the rubber gloves I know soon…
by JaJuFun16replies2,897viewslanguage
Hi fellow Swingers and Kinksters I'm curious what people think about the word 'slut?' For the women do you identify with the word? Is it something you like to be called a slut? Wh…
by igruv214replies2,521viewsWhat to do to keep occupied during this trying time
We bought a steel vulva Spreader from extreme restraints and a few steel butt plugs.
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Candles
Going to be ordering some candles. Aside from size, they all seem to be low temp. Anything else specific to look for? Thinking of doing some restrained/blindfolded sensation play…
8replies1,193viewsBehavior Modification
I’m just curious if anyone on here has any experience with behavior modification. I do not but would love to learn more about it. I’m not really talking about “call me sir” kind o…
by Bull4utoo30replies2,486viewsIdeas on hiding a rack of paddles, crops, etc. in plain sight on a wall?
We have a sort of incognito sex room going in our house. 1/3 of the room is actually our son's play area. On his side is an IKEA chair and desk, rack of bins with Lego's, pokemon…
14replies1,247viewsSwing clubs vs BDSM Clubs
Wife and I are full-fledged swingers, and have been now for over 18 years. Full-swap, usually with other couples, the occasional threesome. We also play as singles at certain club…
10replies2,230viewsBedroom conversion - furniture
Empty nesters, finally, so now looking to convert an unused bedroom into an adult playroom. What should be 'standard' furniture? Room is appro 12x12. Door and inwall closet on sam…
13replies1,931viewsWife enjoys caning!
When we first got our cane in the mail, we opened it up, I bent her over, and began testing it out. I think I started ever so slightly too hard because she wasn't a fan. She was o…
2replies1,050viewsBlindfolds?
We would like to be some really functional yet super comfortable blindfolds. We've tried sleep masks, scarves/bandannas, but would like something purpose built and would greatly a…
24replies2,988viewsGood comfortable set of cuffs?
While I have a set of Peerless to show others what NOT to use, we're used to using SportSheets cuffs. But those are 10+ year old. We would like to get a set of cuffs equal to or g…
6replies725viewsFavorite paddle?
Looking for a good thuddy paddle for us to use on each other. Etsy seems to have 75 pages worth of them. Any suggestions on specific sellers, models, sizes/shapes, etc. would be m…
11replies1,080viewsNeed a good quality flogger
Today after work, I was using a riding crop and my hand on my wife. After really mind blowing sex, she asked me to buy us a flogger to spank her with. All the ones I see are prett…
38replies2,791viewsWho else has been slammed here on the forum?
I have minions? Woohoo! Also, it's easy to avoid varying points of view if you block those who disagree with you, as the OP has.
14replies1,859viewsCollar Wearing
If a Dom gives the Sub permission to take off or put on a collar for a particular reason when the two are apart is that wrong? Should a collar ONLY be put on by or taken off by th…
by cpl4newfun36replies1,290viewsFisting
My wife enjoys using her toys on me. Vibes, even strap-on. Lately we have been discussing her fisting me. Has anyone tried this? What's the best lube? Any tips?
by cpl4xx4replies1,740views- 31replies5,327views
Learning to be a good Dom
Hello, My wife is interested in some aspects of BDSM and being a sub. I think I'm a natural Dom (based on work and personal experiences); however, I haven't really had the desire…
8replies1,397viewsBDSM without humiliation
Hello, My wife and I are interested in light BDSM, but do not like humiliation (bossy is good). Humiliation seems to be a big part of most of the BDSM that I have observed. What a…
55replies7,503viewsNew to BDSM
We are starting to explore BDSM as a part of our adult erotic fun. Do we start with role playing much as we have. I’m the slave girl and my husband the master sells me to our frie…
by JaJuFun12replies2,081viewsSocal Dom sub couples for comparing
We have had a tough time finding other D/s couples, either male or female dom, to compare notes, share stories, share subs, etc. Seems like it should be so easy, but sometimes we…
by CalDomSubCpl5replies998viewsMeeting swingers for BDSM
We wish to offerour own feelings on the topic of BDSM and Swinging, because there is bad information on top of bad information on both subjects, and if we know anything for certai…
by VoicePlayers5replies1,327viewsSo my wife invited our boy toy over for tonight.
Make sure he has you look her in the eyes as he slides into her. I like the woman in all fours and the husband sitting in front of her that way I watch his expression as I slid in…
by Bob202011replies1,409viewsMedical play
Any couple interested in medical play. Having a guy watch his wife examined. Either in a real medical setting or watching a play doctor fine a full physical as you watch her being…
by Bob202013replies1,266viewsNew interest in LIGHT SPANKING - BDSM clubs too far?
After a recent trip to Desire, wife has developed an interest in spanking, both giving and receiving. The spanking she enjoys can be hard but sensual and erotic, and definitely no…
2replies785viewsWatching wife spanked
I can't tell you how much I found husbands enjoy watching his wife spanked. It is also exciting to see the wife respond to being prepared to spanked. I like to have her stand legs…
by Bob2020116replies5,142viewsHelp Finding BDSM
Please give me some ways,avenues,and advice on how to meet people in the BDSM lifestyle. I want to meet people and get involve in this lifestyle. It has always been a fantasy of m…
by funjust3replies1,028views- 62replies8,384views
Anal and DP Willing Couples
Hi--we're looking for secure, experienced couples that are anal and DP willing near Tampa....we also enjoy small groups. Seems hard to find couples and anal/dp couples at that...s…
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Paddle Construction
Okay not knowing a lot about this activity and in reality neither of us having a real desire to participate in it this may seem odd but here goes. I (the male half) have quite a b…
by RusticMagic10replies1,518viewsBDSM - Oakland Couple - Dungeon Play?
Anyone know of any dungeons in S.E. Michigan? We’ve done Tabu in Lansing. Fun, but looking for something more couples friendly. Any suggestions? Message us.
by Jupiter17970replies526viewsBDSM - Oakland Couple - Dungeon Play?
Anyone know of any dungeons in S.E. Michigan? We’ve done Tabu in Lansing. Fun, but looking for something more couples friendly. Any suggestions? Message us.
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Bdsm gangbang-NE LA
Surely there are some people out here in Monroe/rusron area who is down for some Role playing??? My gf big fantasy is tied, choked, gagged, blindfolded. Toyed with . Forced roleyp…
2replies1,951viewsHot wife experience w/ hub blindfolded only to listen
I’ve never experienced but always wanted to die the couples that like to spice things up a little more. Probably more for cuckold couples but can apply to all I’ve always wanted t…
by CTDom12319replies4,479viewsStrip Search
Has anyone strip searched a female or male play partner. Making them remove their clothes than bend over and give them a rubber glove cavity check
by JaJuFun2replies965views2 profiles
Not new to lifestyle. I have another profile as a unicorn. Am trying out a kink search with my new account. I started it in January then just reactivate d it. Old friends have fig…
3replies867viewsLooking for a Mistress in Eastern PA Jersey Del
Out of the the scene for too long and make friends and find a play partner or more
by phillysubway0replies730views- 0replies847views
Poly, swinging AND kinky
Anyone else identify as poly, still swings, and is kinky? We are both hyper-sexual as well. Lots of affection, love, and crazy sexual adventures! We're only a couple years into th…
8replies2,145viewsAnybody in TriCities TN looking for BDSM partner/dom/sub?
I need to give and receive a good whipping and open to explore possibilities.
4replies658viewsDD/LG?
Anyone here would like to meet new open minded friends with similar age gaps such as my dom and I? We enjoy meeting new friends. We don't mind what age in general. I personally wo…
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