We have met many couples on SLS into BDSM. Many won't bring it up, unless you do, or hint at it in your pics.
Help Finding BDSM
I noticed your profile mentions noting about BDSM or even "kink" as preferences, you might want to edit your profile to be sure it shows your interest. Also as indicated below join fet life (free) and look for munches in your area. They are all over the country so surely there will be one nearby you.
Join fetlife and attend munches!
Please give me some ways,avenues,and advice on how to meet people in the BDSM lifestyle. I want to meet people and get involve in this lifestyle. It has always been a fantasy of mine. Please help me.