Riding Crop

C and I had been dating for a couple months and she commented on the riding crop I had in my bedroom closet. She had been an avid horse person and thought we'd be talking about riding. I explained that it was actually for sex fun. She's like, "Ohhhhh" and got a little smile, heheh. We used it that night. She likes lighter taps on her nipples and clit - not so much for getting smacked hard. It's the type with the ~2" wide double leather popper with no rod to the end, so great to get that popping sound without hitting hard. She'll also use it on my balls and gives them a little crisper pop. Great fun blindfolded because the sensation is more of a surprising slap.

Prefer the dressage whip.

its about stimulating the senses...and it does take alot unless your nerve endings are dead

Riding Corp and other impact items are as safe as the knowledge and trust imparted by the operator. One whom is skilled and practiced can send a bottom into orbit. Scarlessly and without a mark or control to place an imprint for a specific length of time. Knowledge is strength wether a Top or bottom or what ever relationship dynamic there is. Riding crops span a wide gap of available styles or genure.

N1S has some very good advice. A surprising thing is how a simple neckerchief can leave a triangular scar. Gota trust the person you are with.

I can enjoy it if the person using it really knows what they are doing. Crops can cause unbearable pain if not used carefully. In sensitive area they can even cause lasting damage if one isn't very careful. I don't let just anyone use one on me, I have to be able to trust that they know how to use them. I've seen women who bear lasting scars from them. One woman we know has an ass with stripe marks that will never go away. A coach whip and a cane can also be very dangerous. For me it's about eroticism, not pain. Certainly not drawing blood.

Riding crops excite me period! As with anything the person using it needs to work up in intensity, especially when used on areas other than the ass.

Depends on where and how hard

What ladies enjoy the the sting of a riding crop on your sensitive areas.