We have been pretty much keeping it to the Dom putting on the collar or taking it off, just wondered how others approached it as well. Thank you everyone who replied - this is a work in progress and we are working on things such as the col…
If a Dom gives the Sub permission to take off or put on a collar for a particular reason when the two are apart is that wrong? Should a collar ONLY be put on by or taken off by the Dom?
Ok, so, we get many people who look at our profile and never contact us. Even in public at parties, people wont approach us. Here is what we want to know. With complete, bone crushing honesty - is it him, is it her, is it both. Are we fat,…
Thanks for the feedback everyone, it is an interesting Lifestyle. We have many pro's and con's that we see with this. We can go either way and be happy, we just wanted to put the question out there to see who had what experiences. We are l…
We have been in the lifestyle for over 12 years now and have made many friends along the way. We recently have become very good friends with another couple who brought up the idea of going out on individual dates. Both of us are married co…
I don't need data for personal experience. I HAVE witnessed condom strict couples say - "We ONLY use a condom when playing, we are ddfree and plan to stay that way." But engage in activities that turn into exchange of bodily fluids, cum, a…
Oh, and I really need to add, one of the people that was very persistent with condom use is a good friend of mine who is a nurse. She insist on always using a condom no matter what with anyone other than her husband. A couple months ago sh…
In response to North Cal couple, when I was referring to Cuts in the mouth, think about when you brush your teeth and you have blood coming off your gums, think about eating potato chips or Doritos and you get a small cut on your gum and i…
We have been in the lifestyle for 15 years and have used condoms for ones we are not sure about as well as bareback for our closest friends. We prefer bareback, as do we all, but there are those that are with everyone in town and we either…