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I'm 73 years old and have been a Dom sexually for most of my life. What you must understand is that I've witnessed the entire transformation in the lifestyle brought about by the popularity of 50 Shades of Grey. Hence, the modern BDSM scen…
We have a little dungeon in which we play, but if your idea of BDSM comes from 50 Shades, we strongly recommend you do more research. If you'd still like to play, HMU.
This is a part of our D/s relationship and always has been. Obviously (read that OBVIOUSLY) we're not serious, and that, I think, is what's most important. Sometimes, people in the BDSM community get a little carried away with definitions,…
I wanted to add the belief that the male's orgasm is the priority with young people. After all, it's all about reproduction, right? For seniors, it's the woman's orgasm that matters. 'Nuff said.
73-year old male here. This is a pretty funny thread. I mean, human nature shouts loudly its preference for younger, because younger produces offspring, whereas seniors don't. The point is we're fighting our own nature when we offer oursel…
I wanted to jump in here and offer a couple of thoughts. We are a D/s BDSM couple. Anal sex is a very big issue in the community, and for similar reasons expressed here. It's a regular part of our love-making, because it fits so well with…
Once upon a time there was an old redneck farmer sitting on his back porch and watching his son work in the fields. He said to himself, "You know, it's about time that boy got himself a piece of ass." So he called the boy and said, "Son, y…
There are dogging sites where such requests can be made. This is a community that is largely under-the-radar. Search Google for dogging or dogging USA. Not exactly what I'd call a gang bang but same concept.
@mayhem8 - Really? My story took place almost 50 years ago! And, it wasn't what we would call Voice Play anyway.
Back in the 70s, my wife (at the time) and I were "swapping" with another couple in our darkened apartment. Our partners responded to each other's noises, leaving us as sex toys for their good time. It was extremely off-putting, although I…
Maybe we should have Breakfast Parties!
We share your same issue, but we've decided not to press it with our swinging friends. It's just too much for most of the people we've met. At the same time, we do hope to one day meet a couple such as you, because we think BDSM and swingi…
@AndrewRobin This is Terry responding. Your profile reflects the very playful souls of its writers, and I'm so happy you've responded here. Everybody has a bias of one form or another when it comes to pleasure or pain. I am myself a victim…
We wish to offerour own feelings on the topic of BDSM and Swinging, because there is bad information on top of bad information on both subjects, and if we know anything for certain, it's that Swingers are in it for sex first, but BDSMers a…
