newbie couple or experienced couple

Meet with the first ones that will meet. Experience is great to learn from and commonality is great begin conversation. You all may want to add in some photos to help increase your interest rate in your profile. You don't have to show your faces in the default gallery. Just let folks have a good idea of what you look like so they can decide if they want to send you a message. Good luck.

We're in the same boat. We've decided to find couples with experience as we feel they can help us get over the initial nervousness. We think four newbies may be a little tough to get things started.

Just our thinking.

Do what feels right for you.

we have decided to meet a couple for drinks and see what happens. We are not sure if we should meet newbies like us, or a more experienced couple to start with.