Single Lady new to LS

Well LOLA if you go to the groups section of SLS on the left column of the main page it will open a map of the US. Click on Texas and you will see a number of listings for you to explore.

Hi everyone, I'm Lola. I am fairly new to the LS and want to learn all about it. Sometimes I play with a partner, sometimes play alone. I would like advice on how to get invited to join the best clubs or events where a single lady would be safe. I realize this is an odd question, but I would like to learn about the best, nicest/classy private parties or clubs. I am in the Dallas, TX area.