Hello! I am new to the community!

Oh boy! Another single male!!!!

@goodgollymsmolly98226

Thank you so much for your feedback and welcoming me.

I was specifically referring to being a single male on a swinger website. But I am still excited to join this community.

I have read your feedback and I made some changes to my profile. Hopefully it is a little bit better. Just need to have it approved.

@Tramp_ATL

Thank you for the welcome!

Thanks MsU, I copied and pasted all that into the new profiles but overlooked all of the asterisks.

Thanks for the heads up. I apparently forgot them in all three of the profiles. I think I got them all now though. I'll have to go back and check once the updates are approved.

Speaking of heads up, we need to talk. ;^D

Thank you so much for the feedback I really appriciate it!

@Tramp_ATL

For bold, you need to type: bold WHAT YOU WANT TO APPEAR BOLD /bold

Mrs U

Welcome to the forums, Ace.

Hi Ace. Welcome. I'm confused about what you mean when you refer to community. Do you mean swinging, SLS or the SLS forum? Because, yes, there are disadvantages to being a single male in the first two instances, but for the last, we're all equal here, so long as you can communicate in writing, aren't crazy, and don't have a generally unpleasant personality.

You didn't ask for a profile review (there's a section here for that, and this isn't it), but you kinda did ask for advice and I have some. Yours could use some tending. You use the word "I" a lot, enough that it's really noticeable. Most of the problem can be resolved by just removing the second one in the same sentence, but you might need to recast a few sentences. You have a typo in the first line of Description. You have a lot of !!! As a guy, you only get one. Sexist as hell, I know, but them's the rules.

The biggest problem I can see is how you focus on cleanliness. Do you expect swingers to show up dirty? Are you insinuating that women, unless they make a special effort, are smelly? No? Then consider removing that, because there are some insulting implications there that will likely turn off people, even if they can't quite tell why they've stopped being interested.

As far as preferring women with certs, you're young enough that older women interested in young men might be contacting you. Most other women will not. We generally don't do our own hunting and are generally too busy with incoming mail (no, no, no, no, no, no, no thank you, no, maybe, no, no, no, huh?, no, no, oh yes!, no, no, no, no, no) to bother reaching out to anyone. Since that's just a reality in swinging, having a line directing women as if many will be emailing you makes you look really inexperienced and not clued in. So, you might want to just eliminate it.

Good luck.

Hello all! Thank you for taking some time to read my post.

My name is Ace and I am new to the site and just wanted to introduce myself! I am excited to join a new community and hopefully make some great connections!

I have never used a website like this before, but I am hoping I can meet some great people. I have had the HUGE pleasure of meeting a couple of women from the site who have welcomed me with open arms!

As a single straight male, I know that I am at a slight disadvantage within the community, but I am hopeful I can continue to meet amazing people and learn to be even better intimately. I love making new friends even if there is no intimacy involved.

As I am new to this community, if anyone has any advice or feedback for someone like me I would greatly appreciate it! I look forward to getting to know you.

Best,
Ace