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Cancun - safe?

in Travel ·

We are booked for Cancun the first week in March. Of course, trouble erupts just as we are set to go. Any thoughts or insights? Travel advisories consider Cancun safe - but...

Escort Fantasy

in Fantasies ·

Great idea jaknsuz. We have fantasized about my wife being an escort but of course, the whole "money for company" idea sounds like she could run into a sting operation. We don't want her on the evening news!! But me paying her for every ne…

Paradise Island Bahamas March

in Travel ·

We will be on Paradise Island the first week of March. Primarily looking for fun (MF, MFM) for hotwife. Anyone else going to be there or any recommendations on fun places to hang out?

Paradise Island Bahamas

in Open Forum ·

We will be traveling to Paradise Island in March. Whenever we travel we post Hotdates for hotwife's fun and pleasure. I'm not finding any way to post in that area. Ideas/thoughts/suggestions? Also, do you have any recommendations for activ…

GangBangs or lack of postings for them

in 3-Some ·

Those posts are typically done under hotdates for a particular location. Doesn't do any good to post for a date here which is a national (international?) forum.

The Wall

in Website ·

I havent looked at the "wall" in a year. I thought it was a dead feature waiting to be removed. I just clicked on iot and saw messages. What is its value and how is it used and how different from just messaging?

Single men contact you with no pics?

in 3-Some ·

There isn't an explanation. Despite using bold print in our profile (if they bother to read it) and throughout her hotdate posts "MUST HAVE PICS OPEN WHEN CONTACTING" we still get endless contacts with no pics or no open pics. We love the…

Letting a guy seduce ur wife in a nite club

in 3-Some ·

Very typical night out when we get out of town. Wife is a very sexy drop-it-low-put-your hands all over me - dancer. She might be with a guy who replied to her hotdate post or she just hits the dance floor with me to get the attention she…

Looking for others while on a trip

in 3-Some ·

Mayhem8 - You are correct about no pics of male on our public profile. Thank you for pointing that out. We just traveled for vacation and posted hotdates for her fun and pleasure. Because we were only looking for her we changed out pics of…

Looking for others while on a trip

in 3-Some ·

Pics pics pics!!! We have been on SLS for a long time and can’t tell you how frustrating, disappointing, and infuriating it is to have people reach out who have few or no pics on profiles!!!!!! We are on vacation now and we always post hot…

Single men contact you with no pics?

in 3-Some ·

If you read our profile you will see it happens all the time. We don't understand it and there really isn't an explanation why guys do it. Our initial reaction, is simply this guy doesn't understand women, hotwifes or dating so isn't worth…

Couple Looking for a Single Female

in 3-Some ·

If you are looking in a specific area you are better off posting a Hotdate. We may be traveling your way this fall. Wife is a hotwife/Unicorn and might be interested. Almost all our play is her as a "single gal" for MF/MFF fun. However, yo…

Sitting one out

in Men Talk ·

Can you clarify how you enjoy MFM, have a FWB coming to service the wife, but this is the first time in 30 years she has been with anyone but you? Thanks

men watching their woman get fuck by another man

in 3-Some ·

If you have your wife enjoy new fun with the only thought that it gives you an excuse to get "new pussy", then your relationship is off to a rocky start. "Swinging" shouldn't be a reason to cheat. It should be to add and enhance an already…

Exchanging phone numbers

in Getting Started ·

We do not give out her phone number anymore. We did when we first started but it got abused. We had a couple of guys who were unhappy when she didn't want to make it a regular thing. Like spurned boyfriends, they kept reaching out and then…

Messages

in Getting Started ·

Its easier to just send a message to Support (upper right corner of your profile page - drop-down menu under your profile name) than chat. I had same issue and the fixed quickly

PHOTOS

in Getting Started ·

Totally agree with you. We typically have 10-100 photos available to be viewed. Face, bikini/bathing suit, nude and action. This site is about initial physical attraction, so we try to post upfront pics that let any viewers tell if they ar…

Couple for unicorn or hotwife

in 3-Some ·

Forums are really a national/international discussion group. If youre looking to meet someone in your location you are better off posting on Hotdates.

Contacts

in Getting Started ·

Yes there are decent and fun men on her. We have been on SLS for over a decade and have enjoyed it for the most part. We always extablish that communication is key - but we do not go outside SLS to communicate or share pictures. We never g…

Contacts

in Getting Started ·

Yes there are decent and fun men on her. We have been on SLS for over a decade and have enjoyed it for the most part. We always extablish that communication is key - but we do not go outside SLS to communicate or share pictures. We never g…

Online Play

in Getting Started ·

We've been members for over a decade and honestly never heard of "online play". We enjoy meeting and enjoying "real play". But we never "run out to meet" without first doing a LOT of communicating and establishing that there is a real matc…

In search of a unicorn?

in 3-Some ·

Everyone's definition of Unicorn may be different. We do consider my wife to be a "Unicorn" meaning she is a hotwife who enjoys the benefits of married life but is also free to enjoy all the benefits of a single gal. In fact, while we are…

Exs in your 3somes

in 3-Some ·

Hasn't happened with ex-spouses but she still meets up with ex bfs. Never a MFM - just them off for a night "to catch up".

Covid Light - Hold the insults

in Open Forum ·

Thank god the internet wasn't around in the 50's to block the polio vaccine!! I had a kid in my classes who had polio. I didn't understand the disease or his affliction. I just knew life was difficult for him. He had the type of crutches t…

Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination

in Open Forum ·

someonescoming: Your 'statement of facts" lack context. I could be wrong but the data posted shows Massachusetts has had about 15,000 breakthrough cases out of 4.5 million vaccinated. There have been 700,000 confirmed cases of covid total.…

Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination

in Open Forum ·

Someonescoming: you seem to be implying that the info on Denmark dropping covid restrictions is a means to down play the covid virus and vaccinations. However, the reason Denmark can ease restrictions is because over 70 percent of the peop…

Covid Light - Hold the insults

in Open Forum ·

Obviously, this discussion quickly devolved into everyone just regurgitating their original opinions and citing whatever websites that support that opinion. Just like political opinions. No one is going to convince or change others by prov…

Sleepovers

in 3-Some ·

We are a very secure and drama free couple and we have never felt that sleepovers were a threat to our NSA fun or our relationship. We always found they were an enhancement to the fun, and generally just a continuation of what started hour…

What happened?

in 3-Some ·

Seems strange that the poster asks a question and then complains that people are condescending by answering it. Not about who has been on here longer as being better but being a member longer certainly gives one insight into what works and…

Rochester ny

in 3-Some ·

Youll probably have better luck posting a hotdate. Like normal "marketing" hotdates can be specific to your location and preferred "target market". Forums are read by everyone nationwide.

What happened?

in 3-Some ·

Right on MusicalPair. How can they post telling everyone to "loosen up" then block three quarters of the members!! We post a lot of pictures and still get request to open more galleries from profiles with one or no pictures. Same type of t…

Sleepovers

in 3-Some ·

We have done a few sleepovers with couples that have been fun. Mostly because we dont want anyone to drink and drive so we offered the back bedroom, or slept in theirs, or we just remained paired off with the significant other in respectiv…

Play near or far?

in Open Forum ·

Local is best for us. Like everyone, we have a full vanilla life. We/she loves her fun and pleasure - drinks, flirt, tease, play and then sleep and wake up home (or at least local hotel or his place) and get on with the next day's vanilla…

FFM threesome advice

in 3-Some ·

RonKathy said it correctly!!! Make it a fun night for all. Make the other F/Unicorn feel appreciated, respected and excited by the fun and attention. THEN throw open the bedroom door. My wife plays solo with a guy and has loved the attenti…

Wall “friends” posts

in Website ·

We are not fans of the “wall”. Maybe it will take figuring out its value. In the meantime it just seems annoying and takes us screen space. We see about 7 posts. Two from one guy we have no interest in and three or four from a free member!…

Wall “friends” posts

in Website ·

Just our two cents and hoping the website developers read this. We see no useful purpose of this walk feature. 1) we don’t have any interest in general postings from people we never plan on meeting. 2) It is our understanding that it is an…

You can tell everyone is getting bored at home

in Open Forum ·

No day drinking - well maybe on weekends. We’re doing several virtual happy hours a week with friends. It does seem that the liquor cabinet is emptying at a quicker rate than normal. I will say that quarantining with my wife just takes our…

Corona Cabin Fever?

in 3-Some ·

We are hunkering down and other than a daily run through the trails at a State Park we are isolated at home. Lots of chats with SLS members - old and new friends. The missus is definitely looking forward to breaking her isolation!! We have…

Albany, NY Fun Bars

in 3-Some ·

A guy is trying to set up a meet n greet with my wife. Albany, NY is a good half way point. She likes to meet at fun, busy bars where her talking (and flirting) with a guy doesn’t stand out. Any recommendations for fun spots in Albany area?

SLS pre-determining Hotdate Match

in Open Forum ·

We are a couple with a Hotwife who enjoys playing solo (without me) with couples or single males. So technically we do identify her as “single female”. When we look at Hotdates we will frequently see a SLS response like “you don’t match ho…

Pet Peeves

in Open Forum ·

Ergh!!! We are so tired of people without pictures on their profiles saying they want to meet because they like what they see on ours! They can’t post due to their “professional jobs”...”standing in their community”...etc.

Hotwife(anklet)

in Getting Started ·

We find the most obvious and hottest sign is just my wife dressing sexy and flirting with whoever she’s interested in!! We’ve never considered any coded sign or signal lol. Why limit her target to only those who are aware of some obtuse si…

Free members

in Open Forum ·

At the risk of being redundant, we have the same question about free members access to emails. We don't see any definitive answers in the thread. Wife has searched profiles and has been interested (and sent emails) to a few but we don't kn…

Travel Tips Needed

in Open Forum ·

We will echo what others have suggested. We have had good luck posting on hotdate. That way it gives others who are looking a heads up that you will be in town and you can get inbound emails from interested people. Also do a search for who…

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

Thanks for the compliment Currentrider. She is truly the whole Hotwife package - pretty, fit hot body and sexual attitude to match. So many fun, sexy experiences with her at a bar or club. She LOVES wandering hands on her. As I write this…

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

We enjoy the sexy, flirting, pick my wife up at the bar thing but we find just going out and hoping there is some random guy that a) she would be interested in and/or b) that has the nerve to approach here just doesn't happen. She loves th…

Multiple Guys Fantasy

in Fantasies ·

Partyfun - my wife LOVES MFM and said anytime you want to come play “one in one or MFM” you are welcome!!

pic in Google search

in Website ·

Here is tech supports response: That is the mini-search feature. You can go to "Tools" and "Privacy Features" to disable that feature. That option is located at the bottom of the Privacy Features page. TechSupport - Wayne

Pet Peeves

in Open Forum ·

We are so tired of being contacted by guys with either no pics at all on their profile or none open. WTF are guys thinking? That a HOTWIFE if sitting here waiting to go on a blind date? Bold print throughout our profile MUST HAVE PICS OPEN…

Most exciting lifestyle experience

in 3-Some ·

Rabbit n Scamp - MMMM one of our unmet fantasies is her heading out of town to be met by fun playmates looking to pleasure her all weekend (as well as showing her the sites!)

Most exciting lifestyle experience

in 3-Some ·

Most exciting? umm. Fortunately too many experiences are candidates. Was it her first experience and texting me while I was out of town that a hot guy was hitting on her and then texting they were heading to his place? Was it when she went…

date for girlfriend

in 3-Some ·

We will echo most of what has been written. There's a 20 year age difference between us - plus she's hot, plus she LOVES to be pleasured, plus I love to hear her moans echoing down the hall, watch her play or get details when she returns -…

Just how does a MFM or FMF really work?

in 3-Some ·

1chocorican; You asked about how to "bring up" your desire for MFM. I looked at your profile and you guys have been on the site for a couple of years and you said you have had other experience so it seems you should be at a stage where it'…

Hotwife help

in 3-Some ·

Everybody will have different feelings about what goes on in this lifestyle. Jealousy, I think, would be common and natural at the start. Just how uncomfortable this gets may depend on how secure you are in yourself and in your relationshi…

are you a hotwife with a travel fantasy?

in Fantasies ·

A fantasy fulfilled for us. She doesn’t travel for work often but when she does we always arrange a Hot Date playmate to take her to dinner, drinks at the bar and pleasure her in bed. We both find it sexy and erotic. A fantasy unfulfilled…

Florida (or other East Coast) Beach Destinations

in Open Forum ·

Wife and I are looking for vacation suggestions. We prefer US travel and we like the West Coast of Florida. We have enjoyed from Naples up to Clearwater. Our preferences: Relatively easy flights from Syracuse; Beachy" environment; walking…

Hotel Play

in Fantasies ·

Thanks tyroy44. And that is something we’ve experienced on several occasions!

How to Identify a Hotwife?

in Swinger Advice ·

Lol. Wow so youre looking for name tag or sign around the neck to identify a hotwife? Really a Hotwife is like any other girl at the bar who is interested in drinks and company. If you can't identify a gal at a bar who seems open for at le…

Hotel Play

in Fantasies ·

We have found that the "send her to the bar alone" thing just doesnt work. Not because she doesn't attract attention but there is rarely anyone that she is attracted to. Our best fun is posting on Hot Date, finding someone who does excite…

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

Bobby - we have done your scenario - her off to ladies room with guy. Get filled up and come back, tell me to feel her dripping then turn and pick up the pool cue like nothing happened.

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

We enjoy the sexiness of the bar play. Its pretty much a weekly thing. She loves the sexy, slow tease of getting picked up. She is a very sexy bump-grind dancer so always gets attention. Attractive, fit, great tits and long blonde hair doe…

Multiple Guys Fantasy

in Fantasies ·

We - well, she - is talking her first GB and we are also wondering how to go about it. She has loved mfm with me being one of m and occassionaly two other guys with her while I watched and now want to expand on it. We have discussed bringi…