Well, first of all, if you think nutcal has a point, you are mistaken.
Second, the notion of a hall pass is that the person with one is free to do as they wish within reason..
So it is not your responsibility to do anything. Tell him he is free to explore and let him.
I’m gonna give you my honest opinion here.
At this point, I believe the male half of the OP’s couple’s profile has about as much chance scoring with the hall pass concept as I have of getting NASA to create a smoking section on the next Shuttle flight and picking me to fill it as an observer. At least from the viewpoint of trying to sell it with the online profile alone.
I have a number of reasons for saying that, but I won’t go into any of them at this point, considering the OP hasn’t bothered as much as a single reply to any of the other comments in nearly two months.
Have to agree with ncalcouple "Hall passes for men are kind of a complex thing as most women want relationships before sex." y wife and I think along the lines of eroticamazon "Why not just talk to a couple you already know? See if they want a 3rd or if she can play solo. "
In "sickness and in health" is our motto. The first time 1/2 of our besties-couple have had to travel for work their other 1/2 said "why not." The first few seconds were awkward...and then the magic of a new dynamic blossomed and it changed our thoughts about everyone. When we were all together again we remarked how our 3-some took us to the next level of intimacy. We now view hall-passes between certain couples as exciting, anticipated parts of our repitueier.
Wife has given me a hall pass. I’ve just never had the time or honestly the balls to try it. We have done mfm fmf and Mfmf swaps she’s just not into it much.
Why not just talk to a couple you already know? See if they want a 3rd or if she can play solo.
Pretty simple that way :)
I have been in an open marriage for thirty years. Hall passes for men are kind of a complex thing as most women want relationships before sex. Very few women today just like to have sex for fun and for the moment.
Traveling on business and or at a convention is the best place to find a woman for casual sex. Some women who are also traveling want sex just so they can relax and have something to do for fun after a intense day.
As mentioned, the dishonesty factor has tainted the hall pass. There are a few ways to address that. Offer to send a handwritten note, same as with verifying identity, saying he has a hall pass or vid chat to verify it is real. You can also meet the other couple as a couple and let them know about the hall pass.
House parties and takeovers often times can be a good environment to strike out for solo play. Things can become more fluid than with sending messages back and forth online.
Good luck.
If you are trying to surprise him, try posting a Hot Date with a way to contact you. K I k works but eventually you may have to voice verify.
Unfortunately, it is common for single males to use a couple’s profile claiming to have a hall pass so you will have to overcome their dishonesty as well as the challenge of finding a single female who wants to play solo with a guy.
Good luck and have fun!
~S~
I'm guessing, but find a couple that wants a threesome with another male joining?
I REALLY want my guy to enjoy a "hall pass". I am not sure how to arrange it for him but it is definitely one of his fantasies. Ideas?
