Messenger

You’ll often see messages in an “unread” state, sometimes for extended periods of time. For some couples it’s their way of rejecting you without communicating that directly, for others (like us) it may mean they are waiting to confer before responding. Others simply don’t log in for extended periods of time.

We know a couple that accumulates emails from single males, leaves them unopened until they’re in the mood, and when they are, starts replying to them. First come, first cum, so to speak. If you don’t respond immediately they move on to the next candidate.

Everyone handles it differently, so there’s no rhyme or reason and nothing to take away from an unread email. Just keep looking and keep trying.

There is no grace/waiting period that I’m aware of. However, lifetime members can read your emails without actually opening them. So, the fact that your emails appears as unopened does not mean that it hasn’t been read.

Ok so I was getting numerous mail when I was a free member. Now that I've paid I replied to all the messages and there all still unread wth? Is their a grace period?