hidden from single males .

And when they decide they are ready to look for single male interaction, you’ll remain hidden because you won’t see them.........

smart thinking.

~Allen

I strongly agree there really should be an option for single males to hide themselves from those who block themselves from single males. If you're not into a single males "which is perfectly fine with me" why are you in my profile it doesn't make any sense whatsoever.

Hi look for a fun couple to have a great time with ...

We are very "single male" friendly. I am the wife, and have a loving husband who likes to share me with the guys I am attracted to... one on one, MFM and groups. We have no problem with single guys contacting us..... just wish there were more real guys and less flakes.... and that most of the "real" guys would have the balls to follow thru when invited to play, lol. However, in all fairness (and not trying to start a hate thread, lol), if couples ever get the "block" feature just for single guys, then us straight couple should get the same "block" feature to block Bi women (single and couples). Trust me, those of ladies who are straight are just as tired of being hit on from Bi women as most of you are by single guys. Just a thought, lol.

I have no problem with the system the way it is. However, I do think there should be a feature that allows single men to be hidden from people who aren't interested. The reason is because when we review who's viewed us, it can waste time when you're viewing a bunch of people who aren't into single males mixed in with those that are interested. I believe that all features should be available to all members.

I (the male half) think the system is working as intended. There are couples who do not want to have to clear their inbox of unwanted basic "Hi" and then a dick pic messages. That said they are still looking for the occasional male that appeals to them. Honestly when we first joined we considered blocking single males but after a few weeks the flood of such messages died down. It sucks that what seems a majority ruin it for the minority but it is what it is. Keep in mind if a couple looks at your profile they are not being pervs but actually looking to see if you stand out to them. If they don't contact you and have single males blocked it simply means they did not find you interesting enough and moved on. At least they looked and that means you were not simply rejected because you are a single male.

You guys know you can block couples from seeing your profile right?

If it bothers you so much that couples can blanket block single guys then blanket block them back.

One big aggravation for me the cruises and trips that SLS and Doris's a high percentage time when you click on the couples it shows a block single males why would I want to go to a cruise and spend a thousand 2000 3000 $4,000 when no one wants to be with a single male SLS you're getting my money each month I should have access to see everybody just like they see me

what it means 3 legger (male 2legger (female) 3 always wins

As a SM I'd be happy if I could see the profiles of Couples who have Friended me (but have SM's blocked in general) so that I can more easily send my friends emails and see their latest pictures. If they've chosen to mark me as a Friend it would be nice to be able to communicate with them more easily.

There should be an option for single males to hide themselves from those who block themselves from single males.

Look, I get it... I have been contacted by people who have seen my profile as a SM and wanted to contact me. And that's a good thing. But, when I look at "Who viewed me", and 75% of those have Single Males blocked, it's frustrating, just noise. There should be an OPTIONAL setting to block those that have you blocked, and not just single males, it could also be available for couples and Single Females (as if anyone blocks them! LOL!).

The untold part of the story is... Single Males represent most of the income for this or any swinging site.

Joe: Care to elaborate exactly what that means, please?

~Allen

3 leggers always win over 2 legs JOE

Single male here...who does this guy think he is!?! Um buddy, if they want to get ahold of you, they will. Get over not being invited to the campfire for smores and go build your OWN campfire.

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Good ole Tramp man crushing us on the forums again, posting as a SM from only one of many many user accounts that have been blocked for good reason and has more unknown, but anyway........ yet when playing as a couple......... now there’s a guy who will not only have you fuck his wife, but tell tales have it, he will park your car for you while you’re in balls deep.

Tramp’s LS Lesson No. 30:

“Good or bad, you treat people the way you do because of who you are, not because of who they are.

That applies to everyone, everywhere, every time.

If you're a single who met a couple and you felt treated as though you had nothing of value, don't be offended. Be thankful that they were so careless as to reveal themselves with no effort needed on your part. Still pick up the tab and leave with your character in tack.

If you are a couple who met a single who acted as though they are honoring you past description with their presence alone, refer to the above. Still pick up the tab and leave with your character in tack.

If you are man or woman and believe that you brought anything to the party but yourself....just leave. Your character is already beyond redemption.”

“single males in this lifestyle really have a paramount roll ”

From one male to another:

Do you really believe so? We believe we can get the same thing we are looking for in a single male from a couple and we have on numerous occasions. We are a single male friendly couple and enjoy MFM. We also make it a point to thoroughly vet and eliminate those single males who believe they are a higher calling than others because they evidently have no place in our social life, let alone during our adult playtime and acts of fun perversion.

BTW, whoever brainwashed you into believing your ROLE of being a single male is elevated to others, lied.

~Allen

We said this earlier in another topic: Re-hashed for the millionth time, Why not set your preferences to block couples,,, that will show them.

We block singles because we are not interested in that part of the lifestyle. Neither of us can remember the last time we viewed a singles persons profile. (male or female)

I find it funny that there seems to be hierarchy mind set amongst couples on this site. Like just because your a couple shouldn't give you power over single males.. single males in this lifestyle really have a paramount roll but some, (and i must point out most couples are real cool and respectful ) but some of these couples think they can just say and act any way twords the singles and i find it funny.

Maybe a better solution is to not let you clue profiles you say you don't want to view yours. So if you block singles then you can't view or message singles.

And you block single males also. What a hypocrite

I don't think people(couples) should be able to block single males from viewing their profiles. Since they can view ours.
A better solution would be to let couples block single male from sending them messages kinda like SDC does.
It's time to stop letting couples creep on single guy profiles.
If you look at my profile. I should be able to look at yours.