age limits on profiles

Well our age limits are 50 to 99 because we find older men are more attentive to insuring N's pleasure -we've turned down single guys in their 40's as "too young" which probably isn't something they hear often. We agree with the other posters that you need to show why you should be picked over all the others who have no doubt responded. If you don't say you can entertain we also think you are likely cheating on your significant other.

We've found our current "go-to-guy" and he is 59. What attracted N to him was his honest face pictures and his expressed interest in satisfying the ladies orally. Then it turns out he can last longer than most guys she has met and he gets hard again fast. And he is a genuinely nice guy who we felt comfortable having up to the cabin for a weekend.

So up your game and add some pictures if you want a positive response

Here's what I've learned over the years. If a guy has something he believes will impress women, you can pretty much count on him letting you know. Pics, profile, or whatever.

When it comes to the profile, if there's not much there, then there's probably not much there.

With no pics open and 0 certs in a year and a half you're at a severe disadvantage. There are plenty of sms here with pics and certs that make them look attractive and desirable.

Your age is a limiting factor but the others are more impactful to your success rate. Our opinion anyway.

At 60 (soon to be 61), I figured out some time back that when women have an occasional summer day dream of a hot, steamy fling...it’s probably not my face that they see.

Meeting folks in person can sometimes overcome all of that, but I believe the reality is that much over 50 and you’re probably not going to get much attention from a profile alone. That’s especially true if your profile is one of the “typicals.”

The rare exception to that might well be an absolutely awesome profile (in every respect) from one of the rock star types.

I truly believe that this exception is why many people place their age range as high as they do. It’s not that they’re looking for significantly older guys so much as they don’t want to be excluded from the search of one of those rare exceptions.

I could be wrong.

Sent you a pm with a profile review. The big thing that jumps out with the post here is that you say you are a 7 out of 10 and the only thing people can see is a poor photo of your midsection. The issue isn't age preferences because people in your age bracket do play. If you are nice looking we would love to see that. Help us find out by getting some good pictures. Keep in mind that most sm's have to work hard at how they present themselves to be successful. With the amount of Viagra out there be sure that the competition is stiff.

There are a lot of single men on SLS and the supply outpaces the demand by some multiplier or other. That means the likelihood is that it isn't your age that is the chief problem although, yes, it will shrink the size of potentially available playmates.

I'm not sure how old my oldest playmates are, because I didn't meet them through SLS, but since they've been married 1.5 times as long as my youngest playmate has been alive, I'm guessing they're several years older than you. He describes himself as short and round, which is true. And he's sweet, smart, funny and has impeccable manners and a smart, funny, sweet, beautiful wife. Plus the two of them adore each other, which I find sexy.

While it's interesting that you have determined that the source of your problem finding playmates is people lying in their profiles about their acceptable age ranges, it's also probably incorrect. It's more probable your profile has some issues that are turning people off (I haven't checked). There is a section called Better Profiles and while it can feel like you've entered a cage match with a bunch of yentas of any gender when you ask for a critique, there's a good chance that your profile will be better for the suggestions you get there.

Like everything else in this lifestyle, it's about preference. She's fine with older men. Does she like all older men? No.

Some couples are open to meeting older couples. Does it mean they will be interested in all older couples? No.

You're competing with a gazillion other SM's in this lifestyle. Your profile alone isn't going to get it done.

*Hint #1 : You might be surprised at how developing relationships here in these forums can open doors of opportunity.

*Hint #2 : Try to do your best to make sure you never post anything in the forms that comes across as whiny or complaining about what a difficult time you're having trying to have sex with other men's wives and girlfriends.

*Hint #3 : There are forums here specifically designed to help SM's be more successful in this lifestyle. Read.