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Vanilla Wives
I've got a question for which I'd welcome both male and female opinions. Having been a working musician all my adult life, and spent a lot of time working in bars and night clubs.…
by MusicalPair9replies929viewsHold the door, hold the door
Does anyone else find this odd? I seem to have this need to have to hold the door for someone? I find myself questioning myself (what the hell am I doing?) Especially at the gym!…
15replies1,370viewsCheaters double standard
I've been in/out of the LS for over 20 years and during that time, there seems to be a double standard when it comes to those who cheat. When a single male is in the LS and is che…
10replies1,262viewsNewbie question about events
Wife and I were going to go to the event in Bham, AL last weekend, but she kinda got cold feet and we backed out. The event was the "naughty school girl" event. I was just wonderi…
4replies596viewsCloaked?
While we enjoy the contacts we receive on the SLS messaging system, we sometimes hear from folks who obviously have read our profile, but do not show up on our "Who Viewed ..." fe…
by weplayinDX6replies532viewsWhat everyone doing for Halloween?
Carnival Inspiration Ruiz’s October 28,2019 of of Long Beach Ca
12replies925viewsMessages is down again
Messaging is down again. And again, as late as yesterday, some of my message to other members can’t be found unless I send them a new message. Also when opening a ticket there is…
by AbstractFun7replies535viewsAnybody wanna play doctor?
Well, that's done. At the ripe young age of 59 years, 11 months, and 20 days. 2,436 days after I started, 6 job changes, 4 moves, two grandchildren. You can call me Tbrmskss, Ph.D…
by tbrmskss22replies1,308viewsFacial hair or no facial hair?
I recently asked a fellow SLS member to review our profile and she did, gave us great pointers on pictures and stuff, but in the process also sugested I get rid of my my beard. Sh…
91replies4,125viewsTOPIC MOVED to Politics Sad state of SLS
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by fishooked0replies764viewsWhen, where and how did you start in the lifestyle?
I have always considered myself non-monogamous. My first threesome experience was probably 1975-76. I was 15-16. It was at my girlfriend's (later wife) parents house with her and…
by tbrmskss0replies535viewsGood book on swinging
A Modern Marriage, good book on this couples road to swinging. I read it now the wife is!
1replies509viewsPHOTOS
Trying to open my personal photos for IM chat friends. ????????? What do I do ....hard to get hold of the Help people
2replies560viewsNaming your dick?
Just wobdering how many men name their dicks? Do you reference that name alot? And ladies do you like it or no? Have a guy who named his dick and references it like a third person…
by gary76728replies1,859viewsMessages isn't work
Quick issue before I head out to work. Messages isn't working. I can't open or see any. I tried to create a ticket, but not sure if it's working. Since a ticket uses the messaging…
by AbstractFun8replies553viewsNo comment
Been reaching out lately to try and meet like minded people do to traveling. Get a lot of looks and no response. Anyone else experienced the same result? Has common courtesy gone…
21replies1,446viewsis there a bi hormon?
Finding it very interesting that ever since we started dabbling in the LS, and even more so as we've gotten more into it, women who we thought were vanilla have made advances on m…
2replies538viewsThe courtesy of a reply
We've sent out a number of messages and the majority have gone unanswered. Have others have experienced this? Common courtesy would dictate at least an acknowledge that there was…
by Windsong70205replies13,096viewsAnyone else watching Mindhunter?
Me and my husband have really gotten into Mindhunter on Netflix lately. Anyone else notice the scene in episode two of the second season where the BTK Killer’s wife makes him slee…
0replies338viewsNaughty in Nawlins
Curious if anyone has ever attended Naughty in Nawlins, any recommendations, tips about attending? Where did you stay? Are there single males allowed? Thanks everyone
by 3isSuperSexy6replies591viewsPaying for college
I'm curious if anyone has heard of a parent suing the other parent (their ex) for their child's college expenses? Meaning that the one parent is forced to pay half of the college…
32replies1,692viewsLooking for penpals
Kind of a strange request. Would anyone like to snail mail/ pen pal with me? I think it would be a fun way to get to know other people and not necessarily on a sexual basis. Let m…
9replies528viewsWould you class yourself as a nudist?
The wife and I have loved being naked at home, visiting nudist beaches and look forward to visiting a nudist resort in the near future. So I’m wondering, how many others here woul…
by mwcinlove924259replies11,790viewsSingle males
What is anyones thoughts on men who say they are single but really arent or married men who say their wives dont know they are on the site? My hubby and i made the decision to not…
by gary76710replies1,479viewsRimming
Recently decided to start experimenting with rimming females. It is fabulous and quite enjoyable, however, what do you ladies think about it? Do you enjoy it and should a partner…
by hottub2some2replies573viewsWho are these guys.
We have been getting a lot of messages from single guys and all their pics are in a bathroom mirror with a picture of the toilet in the background. That is not a way to make a goo…
by bsfirerock13replies656viewsCan't see messag s received on Iphone 5c
Hey we can't see the full message on our Iphone 5 c when we click on the message. We can see it on our computer. Anyone know what to do to correct this? Thanks!
by owcangrace2replies333viewsIs this site dying?
The community here seems to be dying. We have the same profile on other sites and have quite a lot of traffic and fun. Here I see a general lack of trust level. Folks are removing…
by Wearefun80517replies1,498viewsSexual situations with Vanilla
How do you deal with a situation such as this? A women who has been flirting with me for a few years and lately has turned the conversation to somewhat of a more sexual nature, co…
by hedo2forus16replies1,395viewsRemodeling advice
My husband and I were discussing the renovations of our recently purchased lakehouse tonight. He mentioned finding an eco-friendly stripper that won't harm the wood. Any idea wher…
21replies1,478viewsHow far would you go?
So..I met this young single female couple weeks ago. We did not play but met up for dinner. We hit it off, she was cool. But since two weeks she's been having trouble in personal…
by koolfriend117replies1,197viewsWhy do couples swing?
I obviously know why we do. With all the jealous peeps out there, what makes all of you want to share??
5replies748viewsGroups
Going to be traveling to Birmingham and have tried to join some local groups that share some of the same interests. Seems people start groups and don't monitor or stay active. Any…
2replies462viewsCOUPLES - Enjoy the Most
Couples, what is it about the Lifestyle that you enjoy the most???
by funsnrcpl0replies513viewsPolishing my windshield
The windshield on my bike has so many little scratches that riding into the sun makes it very difficult to see. Any added dirt makes it worse. So I have collected a stash of suppl…
9replies618viewsSLS is getting attacked by aliens ????
For the past several days I have been having more trouble with SLS communicating. Now the Message part is buggered up. It takes me to the wrong message place and is much slower...…
8replies562viewsWhy bother have free members
Why Does SLS still have free members? They are totally dead in the system and now serve no purpose.
by letsparti25replies1,724viewsPHOTOS
Is anyone else having problems downloading photos....how about with chatting or anything else here....We hare having problems with both.....
5replies865views(8-13) Mail Bird is Flying, w/Envelope, And,
The SLS Mail Bird is Flying......touched "Messages" and a "SLS Events," (as sender,) displays this message: "SLS Live Takes over Sea Mountain Resort and Lifestyles Hotel" (Flying…
by SLOtowner8replies530views- 0replies302views
How far would you travel to play ?????
Just a topic that comes up often with us. Some couples say that 50 mies is too far. We often travel that far and more, say 75 miles to meet and play or attend a function. I guess…
20replies1,684viewsRock Roll ---Some Favorite Lyrics :-)
-------- --- Do you have SOME favorite Rock & Roll song lyrics? --- TRY to list at least one song name, the artist and at least a couple lines of lyric.... (I'll start): T. Rex, 1…
by SLOtowner14replies1,024viewsSling tv commercials with swingers
Have you seen the sling commercials with swingers? I can laugh at how ridiculous it is, but I wondered what others thought.
11replies1,302viewsFriends on Line
We have lost the section Friends on Line on the right side of our home page, anyone else have that problem ?
16replies1,375viewsHot tub temperature
What is everyone's prefered temp? I like it hotter than she does and can never find the happy medium for it.
8replies671viewsPhoto moderation
Greetings gentleman. So lately, we have been moderating photos. Looking at photos and being grandparents now we tend to moderate more on appropriateness About fit pose and if it w…
6replies671viewsSwinging makes us closer?
We always read or hear others say how swinging makes them closer. I am not sure I can relate (wife here) can someone explain how it can make a couple closer? Please be kind with y…
8replies752viewsAdult sex playground
Okay, we are looking for ideas to put up on our 10 private acres. We want to make a "Sex Playground" for adults. We have a sex swing up, sex table with straps, sex swing, trampoli…
20replies2,224viewsHow Mermaids Are Made
Do you know where mermaids come from? This is how mermaids are made: Query "How Mermaids Are Made" on utoob. SLO
by SLOtowner0replies406viewsCouples Choice Swingers club new Chicago, IL
Good afternoon everyone. We were just wondering if anyone has heard anything about the CC club near Chicago and if it is still operating. We have been there before a few times and…
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