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Unicorn - Helpful tips on how to be a Great one
With the LS there are so many rules and since I am new and just know what I would request if I was the Mrs, I would appreciate all the help that y'all can offer. 1 - Always make s…
by ButrflyJess2replies404viewsOVERWHELMED BY THE ATTENTION AND SUPPORT!
WOW!! JUST WOW! WE WOULD LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE for their attention and outpouring efforts of kind words and support to and for Us newbies. Again, THANK YOU SO MUCH! LET THE PARTY…
1replies422viewsWhat's up in New Orleans for NYE?
Some things changed that may give us some free time and we are thinking about making a trip somewhere that week. Yes, I know this is not exactly planning ahead LOL. Things to do a…
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Pictures
Does it irritate anyone else that people have same pics up for over 5 years??? It's not that hard to update.
by sexylulous664replies552viewsDear Santa, 2019
It's that time of year again! It's time to climb up into Santa's lap and tell that jolly old elf what your heart desires. Merry Christmas to all! XOX, Kibby
by kibblesnbits10replies1,148viewsMeeting places in Detroit area
Do anybody know of any places in Detroit area where Bi women hangout at besides the swinger clubs.
by Fred3570replies331viewsMeeting places in Detroit area
Do anybody know of any places in Detroit area where Bi women hangout at besides the swinger clubs.
by Fred3571replies446viewsPIcky and selective
There's nothing wrong with being picky, or selective (to use the milder term), and don't let anyone tell you different. Just be realistic about what that means. No matter what cri…
by sorillo100047replies3,198viewsAll natural women
Not trying to start a conversation about what people prefer, shaved or unshaved, that is your choice and please save it for another thread. What I am trying to find out is if ther…
39replies3,178viewsTantric massage
How do we find a real hot tantric massage, not just guys who say they can massage my wife
by NatandJ0replies365viewsWine suggestions?
We're meeting a new couple next Saturday that we've really connected well with so far. They've invited us to their home for drinks and we would like to bring a nice bottle of wine…
101replies3,881viewsMenstrual Discs?
My wife gets really heavy periods with bad cramping...so I don't see us ever using these. Also not sure what the general consensus is on playing during menstruation in the LS. Do…
10replies1,113viewsNot having much luck
You'll probably get better responses to this question if you post a review request in the Better Profiles forum. Even reading a bunch of other profile reviews will give you an ide…
5replies680viewsSex/Mood setting music?
Pretty straight forward...When hosting, what music do you play to set the mood and/or while having sex? Thanks!
4replies536viewsBHM or BBM - Any takers?
So, BBW's have gotten a lot of love over the years. What about the larger bodied men? Are there any women (or men) out there who are attracted to men with who aren't buff?
by hairybuddah1replies464viewsPegging /strapon
I know this topic has been brought up in the past, but out of curiosity How do women really feel about using a strap-on with their husband / bf ? My wife said she really enjoys it…
by bibiker18002replies598viewsNo interracial .
Most couples who state they won’t play with other “races” are Caucasian... I imagine there’s a man with a tiny pecker afraid of losing the game they start. I think the male feels…
46replies3,255viewsHow to approve new photos?
We got the lifetime but cant see where to go to approve new photos. This seems like fun foreplay
by Silverado213replies451viewsParty games?
Not sure if this is a thing, but at house/parties what games are played? Maybe some serve as icebreakers while others are fun for well-established friends.
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Orlando in December
Bringing family to universal. What's close for mom and dad to sneak away for an evening. Family fun during the day. Mom and Dad fun for a night.
by 2hdshovel1replies336viewsInconsiderate people
Why do people sign up for events lie about coming till 1 hour prior then not show up Or come up with some bs story? A little courtesy would be great when we lay out money and take…
by Juicebox6743replies422viewsExperienced BBC-only cuckold couple (petite 23F) looking for new bulls in NYC
See our profile and contact us if you're black, 6'+, 8"+ and in the NY area!
by bkcuckcouple0replies388viewsAnyone going to Hedonism II Jamaica, Jan / Feb 2021
We are looking into dates.....
40replies1,770viewsLounges in the villages
Any suggestions on where to go in the villages to meet lifestyle friends
8replies786viewsWe're Slingers
Not sure if this has been discussed but what's the general consensus on Sling's meshing of their service and swinging? We always smile when we see it and like the pun. We love the…
7replies871viewsConundrum
Explain to him that you have no male sexual desires. That's it. Pretty simple. If it is a deal breaker for him, you lost them. If it isn't, congrats, you found a couple.
by eroticamazon3replies534viewsPlease explain to me
Why are there so many posts without pics of the male half? I don't know how most couples think, but my woman wants to know how HE looks too! I'm not suggesting dick pics, but at l…
12replies1,275viewsPlay rooms/areas for house parties?
We are no where near experienced and socialized enough yet in the lifestyle to host parties. Hopefully we get an invite or two in the future. But I've been told no one in our area…
26replies1,326viewsViitiligo in the lifestyle?
Hi All! First post in the forums here, we recently became lifetime members. We're looking for some feedback on how to approach vitiligo in the lifestyle? She has is on her inner t…
10replies1,088viewsAdderall
Wondering if anyone can shed light on adderall's effects during sex, especially from the male perspective. I've heard about increased libido, but does it change sensitivity or any…
5replies773viewsOn Vacation in Virginia This Week . Anyone like to have a drink at our timeshare?
Wife and I are away from home (NY) and far from family and work obligations (woohoo!) - but only until tomorrow, Friday. If any gentleman would like to enjoy a drink at our timesh…
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Need help with photos
Alright, i see so many profiles with these amazing pictures of seductive sexy ladies in various states of undress and when i try to catch my smokong hot wife in something sexy it…
8replies659viewsWhat has happened to the Calender
Hotdates Calendar has changed and now censors who can see events and dates by age range and sex. WTF
by mastrd6989replies4,217viewsWhy do people lie on here so much?
Why do people say they are looking for single straight males and then when one write or post on here ( or a hot date) they all seems to suddenly not be looking. I do not understan…
by wolfpak6910110replies1,031viewsDocumentaries on swinging/BDSM/etc
Any suggestions for interesting documentaries on swinging, BDSM, sexuality in general? Watched James Franco's Kink, thought it was pretty boring. Any others, preferably with links?
1replies493viewspink satin panties
Now that I have your attention ?? Our paid membership expires Friday will i be locked out ?
by Satincouple4replies760viewsGratitude: What are you grateful for today?
What are you grateful for today? We'll start. We are most grateful to--and for--each other. Yes, we are grateful for every sunrise. We are even more grateful for being able to sha…
37replies1,822viewsGood bars or clubs in New Jersey where swingers go to just hang out?
Like the title says, not looking for organized parties, but just simply places where people in the lifestyle might go casually. I've heard Cuba Mia in Parsippany is a pretty good…
6replies472viewsMassage for wife
Hi All, My wife and I will be in Cabo San Lucas for a couple weeks starting 10/12 and I’d like to get her a sensual massage. I know there are happy ending places everywhere for gu…
by fireball2104replies545viewsHawthorn Community Swingers ?????
I know there are swingers in Hawthorn Community Florida on HWY 27. How can I find them. How do I advertise. We live here and would like to meet them... If anyone knows how or if y…
2replies456viewsWayne's reply to Kik posts
Wayne replied in another thread then locked it. Here is his reply. "A good alternative for private messaging is using this site. That is the whole purpose of this site being creat…
31replies2,162viewsBeing involuntarily outed: How common a problem?
Many of us are in careers or communities where being know as swingers would be bad. It makes many of us nervous, but how big of a problem is this in the swingerverse? How often ar…
11replies1,115viewsSwinger signs!!!!!!
Hi! So I’m new to this and was curious if anyone had any insight of clues if ya person is a swinger! I heard pinapples but I’d like to know what everyone says!!
by Acorrado9190replies464viewsSwinger signs!!!!!!
Hi! So I’m new to this and was curious if anyone had any insight of clues if ya person is a swinger! I heard pinapples but I’d like to know what everyone says!!
by Acorrado91917replies2,133views[LOCKED]Kik replacement?
Hi All. As I am sure you have heard, Kik is supposedly shutting down. It hasn't happened yet, but if it does, what are some good alternatives for private messaging?
by Ridderhd1replies487viewsMiami's swing clubs
We will be in Miami November 22nd before leaving on a cruise, are there any swing clubs open on that evening?
by glamerfun1replies433viewsHelp a beginner
Life is all about creating experiences. I'm new to the lifestyle and have no idea what I actually want. Im fonding more and more about myself every day. Finding it hard to find be…
by Kljavm194replies605views
