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Shamrock Marathon Canceled
I kind of knew this was going to happen... The Virginia Beach Shamrock Marathon is canceled and this was the year I was going to finally beat Oprah’s time. That and we had a Playd…
3replies394viewsBlacklight options for playroom?
We would like to play with UV reactive paraffin candles, but want to make sure whatever blacklight we go with is both simple/portable and can just plug and play rather than needin…
2replies350viewsFemale players
I'm female and I'm looking for a female friend/playmate. Why are they so hard to find? I'm pretty, clean, respectful and discreet. Can someone give me some advice?
3replies640viewsPrivacy In The LS is about to CHANGE BIG TIME
I've always wondered how folks could post their face pictures on swing sites. I mean I guess if you're family knows that's okay and all. But I still wonder how people with regular…
by BruuceWayne10replies1,511viewsAdvice needed to tell or not to tell
Just found out recently that a very close friend of ours ( female) slept with what we now know is a bisexual guy. The guy is pulling this secret shit on the side of being with fol…
10replies1,114viewsInconspicuous erotic/sexual art suggestions?
We are going to be ordering a print that is around 3'x3' for our sex room. It will be hinged to the wall and serve to conceal our spanking tools behind it on a rack. As of now we'…
16replies1,057viewsSwingers Podcast
Ok SLS Folks.. we have a SLS couple who has a podcast on SLS. WE have talked with them via IM and really seem very interesting and fun to be around. How about everyone support a f…
by RonKathy4replies668viewsBest Way(s) to Broach the LifeStyle Topic to Potential SO
I got into the LifeStyle because I have a high libido and tired of “waiting” while trying to find a Significant Other. I’m on a vanilla dating site, still hoping to find a SO. I h…
by Zeemac16replies1,249views[LOCKED]Coronavirus Covid-19
Thus far, the virus has been primarily a problem in the far east. Over the past couple of days, the virus has appeared in northern Italy and elsewhere in Europe. Over the past day…
1,903replies54,830viewsFriend’s list
People keep appearing on my friend’s list. I have not requested them as friends. What gives? If so many people are wanting to be my friend, why aren’t I getting laid more?
by Hunter446013replies1,191viewsMoms Ball in New Orleans?
At Mardi Gras and someone told us about Moms Ball. Wondering how you get an invitation? Would love to go next year.
2replies517viewsCert question.
Hello all, I joined SLS on the suggestion of a mate last year, stayed here about two months then left. Life got busy and such, But I digress. My question is about Certs! How does…
by Tsarlupin4replies475viewsHappy Valentines Day to all the beautiful people in this Lifestyle
Happy a Valentines Day to all the beautiful people on this site! We hope you all were fortunate enough to spend some time with the one who bring happiness to your ?? This world ne…
by Bellacoppia00replies287viewsCurious: How many couples or singles, when browsing, do this
I have. I’ve also found that those visiting my profile will sometimes do the same. BT
by bridgetender9replies1,069viewsTesting my bi curious needs?
I am looking to find a couple to test my bi curious side....as a couple...not with a male alone. Any interest in being the "testers"? Not, of course, all about me as the lady is a…
by steve1945451replies412viewsPickleball Player Swingers?
It would be fun to meet other PPS at a resort (nude or vanilla) or somewhere Pickleball is played (inside or outside) to get to know each other while playing Pickleball, then, aft…
by Zeemac11replies1,158viewshow to open Personal Gallery
Just so I'm clear, I am able to open my "Private" Gallery by tapping the icon on the Member's profile. My problem is when I try to open the PERSONAL gallery the same way (tap the…
by AzDubs3replies354viewshiding faces
what is the point of hiding or darkening your faces especially the ladies what do you ladies have to hide
by shyguy1975121replies1,286viewsWhat's around Cape Coral FL area?
Cape Coral is a part of FL we know little about, but it looks like I have an upcoming Friday business meeting in the area so we debated about spending the weekend down there. Any…
8replies533viewsThe best place to go in Mexico, open vacation?
We are looking to go in May. We have been to hedonism II
1replies391viewsSLS App
I've been just using a Favorite setting on my phone to easily access this site. But yesterday I found SLS as an app in the Google Play Store, but can't figure out how to get into…
by Young2Ginger20replies1,720viewsHow do I create a gallery?
For the life of me I can't figure out how to post pictures to a gallery or even make one! Halp!
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Do you ever wonder about
So here is a question to ponder. Does being in the lifestyle change the way you look at people you know or meet in non-lifestyle situations? Do you ever come across someone at wor…
by DBCooperMN20replies1,270viewsWhy do men pick out men for their wives online?
I just got through speaking to another "couple" which happens to just be the male half doing all the work. They typically set up the page, pick the pictures, do the selecting, the…
21replies2,063viewsPenis size
Do you, as couples, or threesome, have problems playing with a man who has a bigger penis than you, boyfriend, hubby?
by gary76759replies5,070viewsLeave politics out of swinging.
Have been noticing more and more people putting in profile that they will reject people based on political beliefs. Why do some let that get in the way of being friends with other…
21replies1,468viewsUpdating photos on profile.
Why is it that people do not update their photos? What are some of the reasons that you might have? I personally update my photos once a month in my book there is no excuse we all…
75replies3,041viewsTaking a break/hiding profile
Anyone know how I can "hide" my profile so thst I am not visible. I would like to take a break from all the messages and just focus on the people I have met. I dont want to delete…
by SJCH202013replies821viewsMassage for wife
Have any couples found someone that provides a nice sensual (no pressure) massage for the wife. If so, how did you find this person?
by CT_quiettime12replies1,684viewsNew IM system -- can't see all of my history
So, with this new IM system, I've noticed that I can't view some of my old messages (the ones I sent using the new system). Even some of the ones I sent or received two days ago,…
by AbstractFun0replies372viewsMusic
What's your favorite song to have sex to? Assuming of course that you like to have music playing during sex.
5replies403viewsthe messageing opption
I can't seem to send any messages, anyone else having this problem?
by billnsuzie6replies507viewsProfile Performances…
We have been in the LS for a few years now. Enough time for me to make some observations about profiles on here. Most of these are meant to be satirical comments so please don’t t…
62replies4,842viewsRecent TV Series
What's some good TV series you've seen or watched lately? Primarily something that started in the past 5-6 years. Not reviews of bad shows... But what's good stuff out there worth…
by 8inchcable474replies22,340views2020 Bitch of the Day
Great sex makes me spacey, which makes it harder to manage my dyslexia. So, not exactly a surprise when I couldn't spell last Friday. But it's now eight days later and it's still…
201replies12,687views2020 Happy Thought of the Day
HT: (almost) every time I go to Canada I bring an empty, insulated backpack. On the trip home, that backpack will have around 25 pounds of peameal bacon in it as a carryon. Always…
24replies1,510viewsBlack Wedding Bands
Is there any real message being sent within the lifestyle community when someone wears a black wedding band on their right hand? The vanilla community (via Google searches) seems…
by tripped41replies480viewsSLS pre-determining Hotdate Match
We are a couple with a Hotwife who enjoys playing solo (without me) with couples or single males. So technically we do identify her as “single female”. When we look at Hotdates we…
16replies868viewsGetting profile views mostly from people 2k miles away only
Like the title says, our profile has recently gotten a lot of views from people on the other side of the country. Which if fine, except that we want to play with people nearby. Ho…
by Thekinks696replies461viewsPeople that seem to have rejection issues.
I'm just wondering how often others run into this sort of thing? You answer a message with a no thank you....in a polite way. Thank you but we are not looking for any singles at t…
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Happy Thoughts 2020
New Year, New Thread! We are happy to still be together, this month marking the 45th anniversary of our first meeting!
144replies7,930viewsSpokane Free Members
Okay , I understand why people use the Free Membership but really Spokane over 90% of you are FREE MEMBERS. This is not High School but yet many of you act like it is a dare to be…
by Gent6514replies1,099viewsHawthorne and plantations
Any lifestyle couples in Hawthorne or plantations that would like to meet for a drink..
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Birmingham, AL Hotels
Does anyone know of an inexpensive hotel in or around Birmingham that allows check-ins before noon?
by owrsecret3replies446viewsHawthorne at Leesburg ???
We live here and are looking for lifestyle couples in our community. We know you are living here but have no idea how to contact you. If you see this and are interested look us up…
4replies501viewsMerry Christmas
We hope everyone has a wonderful day today and can spend it with people they love
by knkynucple2replies368views- 2replies490views
