BDSM
For those into the BDSM LifeStyle
Who is into erotic electrastim?
I’ve been experimenting with a tens machine for erotic stimulation, with some amazing results. I haven’t seen any discussion here about this, who else is into this?
by Bird69too21replies2,602viewsExhibitionism fantasy
Does anyone else have a fantasy of wearing cum in public ? That and being sent home to my wife wearing cum are my ultimate dreams.
3replies1,876viewsBest Practices for Consent to KINK
Best Practices for Consent to Kink 1. All activities must receive Explicit Prior Permission by verbal or written agreement rather than through gestures, body language or past beha…
by PeaceMaker0replies710views- 5replies1,245views
Cattle Prod
So while browsing FB Marketplace I (the male half) came across an add for a rechargeable cattle/livestock prod about 3' long. Well my mind immediately went to "social distancing"…
by RusticMagic7replies1,608viewsJust got feet wet, want more
So yeah met a couple who are into BDSM and they gave me the intro into the basics with spanking and some of the other toys such as floggers, crops, paddles, etc. What I'm really i…
by Hezzair9replies1,690viewsIf you are going to mix BDSM and sex then you better be good at
self control. That is, of your orgasm. Not saying you need to be a long lasting tantra god/dess. But if you are spanking/flogging someone while recieving a blow job, you need to h…
3replies874viewsDFW BDSM scene
Just relocated back to the DFW area. Am seeking info on groups and playhouses to get back into the scene. Long time swinger looking for new playmates
by BiPilot70replies656viewsVoice Play
Greetings Sex Enthusiasts, A darkened room where she is alone and naked on my massage table, hands bound and at my mercy. While my right hand is touching her pussy, my lips are ne…
10replies1,317viewsHusband wants me more Domme
Husband is very dominant man. Im a stay at home mom. He wants me more bossy, demanding, going out more, spending more and taking control in the bedroom over him. I enjoy it but ha…
by espinner3replies1,088viewsPendelum -NYC
This club says its a strong BDSM club with Pegs, bolts, crosses ect. Has anyone been there and seen our used it?
3replies1,518viewsBeing discreet in your home (kids here)
We are seasoned swingers, but really new to BDSM. Most things are easy to keep discreet, but not spanking. That smack on the ass is loud! Plus, we have a vaulted BR ceiling, so it…
by seXXnpassion30replies5,812viewsDungeon/Bondage Service
Looking for a Dungeon or Dom (male) that provides a full service experience for my wife's 50th. Somewhere in the South if possible. Texas to Georgia. Thanks for your recommendatio…
2replies1,204viewsSubmissive Independent Female
You block couples, so can't comment on what your profile does or doesn't say. You also didn't mention what you have tried so far. Being a young SF you no doubt get lots of views,…
by mayhem80replies1,128viewsDungeons or Places
Hello and Good morning, very new to the LS and still haven't gotten our toes no near the water lol. I have been looking for a place we can either watch bdms or learn some new thin…
by WeCurious384replies1,404viewsCBT-Sounds
I have a boy toy who is getting into this, and I don't have a lot of experience with it. Any advice on how to proceed and where I might find information?
by num1scamp15replies2,610viewsBdsm gangbang-NE LA
Surely there are some people out here in Monroe/rusron area who is down for some Role playing??? My gf big fantasy is tied, choked, gagged, blindfolded. Toyed with . Forced roleyp…
2replies1,951viewsCock cages
Have limited experience. Full on use with a list of submissive control. Her lover with the big cock. She had me displayed, collar, nipple clamps , penis gag, cock Gage, and a but…
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Vacuum play
I was setting up a couple vacuum sensation trains. Nipples clit etc. Are there other whom enjoy this type of sensory play? What other type of vacuum sensory toys do you enjoy
by PeaceMaker1replies983viewsDungeon Sex. Fantasy to Reality
Your communicating with a prospective partner or partners, they make a reference to kinkster or highly no vanilla or any of the other numerous urban terms. What would you think an…
by PeaceMaker0replies677viewsBDSM Clubs
Can anyone tell me the locations and names of any BDSM Clubs anywhere in Ky or OH? Thanks for all your. Help. Names,Cities Even addresses would be very helpful.
by funjust1replies928views- 8replies1,411views
Swing clubs vs BDSM Clubs
Wife and I are full-fledged swingers, and have been now for over 18 years. Full-swap, usually with other couples, the occasional threesome. We also play as singles at certain club…
10replies2,230viewsWhat to do to keep occupied during this trying time
We bought a steel vulva Spreader from extreme restraints and a few steel butt plugs.
7replies2,053viewsNeed a good quality flogger
Today after work, I was using a riding crop and my hand on my wife. After really mind blowing sex, she asked me to buy us a flogger to spank her with. All the ones I see are prett…
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Setting Dungeon Up for Party Help
We are hosting a halloween party in East Peoria in October and need to convert a game room into a dungeon. Its 2000 sq feet of arcades and games in a big room with black light dis…
by FunInMidwest1replies655viewsBedroom conversion - furniture
Empty nesters, finally, so now looking to convert an unused bedroom into an adult playroom. What should be 'standard' furniture? Room is appro 12x12. Door and inwall closet on sam…
13replies1,931viewsBDSM CANING
Has anyone used a Delrin cane. My femdom has a 1/4” one that hurts like hell. Definitely keeps me in line.
4replies922viewsWho else has been slammed here on the forum?
I have minions? Woohoo! Also, it's easy to avoid varying points of view if you block those who disagree with you, as the OP has.
14replies1,859viewsIdeas on hiding a rack of paddles, crops, etc. in plain sight on a wall?
We have a sort of incognito sex room going in our house. 1/3 of the room is actually our son's play area. On his side is an IKEA chair and desk, rack of bins with Lego's, pokemon…
14replies1,247viewsCandles
Going to be ordering some candles. Aside from size, they all seem to be low temp. Anything else specific to look for? Thinking of doing some restrained/blindfolded sensation play…
8replies1,193viewsBehavior Modification
I’m just curious if anyone on here has any experience with behavior modification. I do not but would love to learn more about it. I’m not really talking about “call me sir” kind o…
by Bull4utoo30replies2,484views- 0replies641views
Medical play
Any couple interested in medical play. Having a guy watch his wife examined. Either in a real medical setting or watching a play doctor fine a full physical as you watch her being…
by Bob202013replies1,266viewsWife enjoys caning!
When we first got our cane in the mail, we opened it up, I bent her over, and began testing it out. I think I started ever so slightly too hard because she wasn't a fan. She was o…
2replies1,050viewsFavorite paddle?
Looking for a good thuddy paddle for us to use on each other. Etsy seems to have 75 pages worth of them. Any suggestions on specific sellers, models, sizes/shapes, etc. would be m…
11replies1,080viewsGood comfortable set of cuffs?
While I have a set of Peerless to show others what NOT to use, we're used to using SportSheets cuffs. But those are 10+ year old. We would like to get a set of cuffs equal to or g…
6replies725viewsNew to BDSM
We are starting to explore BDSM as a part of our adult erotic fun. Do we start with role playing much as we have. I’m the slave girl and my husband the master sells me to our frie…
by JaJuFun12replies2,081viewsWhere are the Married Submissive Women?
Is this a common fantasy? I'm a single man. Dominant. But the married submissive female seems difficult to do d.....
by Willy6000025replies5,363viewsLearning to be a good Dom
Hello, My wife is interested in some aspects of BDSM and being a sub. I think I'm a natural Dom (based on work and personal experiences); however, I haven't really had the desire…
8replies1,397viewsCollar Wearing
If a Dom gives the Sub permission to take off or put on a collar for a particular reason when the two are apart is that wrong? Should a collar ONLY be put on by or taken off by th…
by cpl4newfun36replies1,290viewsPaddle Construction
Okay not knowing a lot about this activity and in reality neither of us having a real desire to participate in it this may seem odd but here goes. I (the male half) have quite a b…
by RusticMagic10replies1,518viewsSocal Dom sub couples for comparing
We have had a tough time finding other D/s couples, either male or female dom, to compare notes, share stories, share subs, etc. Seems like it should be so easy, but sometimes we…
by CalDomSubCpl5replies998viewsMeeting swingers for BDSM
We wish to offerour own feelings on the topic of BDSM and Swinging, because there is bad information on top of bad information on both subjects, and if we know anything for certai…
by VoicePlayers5replies1,327viewsSo my wife invited our boy toy over for tonight.
Make sure he has you look her in the eyes as he slides into her. I like the woman in all fours and the husband sitting in front of her that way I watch his expression as I slid in…
by Bob202011replies1,409viewsNew interest in LIGHT SPANKING - BDSM clubs too far?
After a recent trip to Desire, wife has developed an interest in spanking, both giving and receiving. The spanking she enjoys can be hard but sensual and erotic, and definitely no…
2replies785viewsPoly, swinging AND kinky
Anyone else identify as poly, still swings, and is kinky? We are both hyper-sexual as well. Lots of affection, love, and crazy sexual adventures! We're only a couple years into th…
8replies2,145viewsHelp Finding BDSM
Please give me some ways,avenues,and advice on how to meet people in the BDSM lifestyle. I want to meet people and get involve in this lifestyle. It has always been a fantasy of m…
by funjust3replies1,028views
