Swinging Single
Both Male and Female
Looking for a girlfriend in the lifestyle
Ok, I didn't see a personals section and that may be because it's prohibited, but here goes. I'm a nice, kind, GIB guy, who always puts the ladies first. I'm retired comfortably w…
10replies1,908viewsGangbang group
Took the first step and emailed some of the SMs that we already know and like, and it wound up being 14 SMs. These are just the ones I already had email addresses for, but there a…
by mayhem821replies3,083viewsHoliday Weekend
I am hoping with it being a holiday weekend most people will be off today and Monday and be online looking.
5replies612viewsJovencito 18 anos pa parejas y cornudos
Quiero encontrar parejas de mente abierta que quieren tener un swinger jovencito de 18 años Pa jugar y divertirse con, me encanta todas la Parejas Latina, tengo mi experiencia con…
0replies451viewsAttending first hotel party
I’ll be attending my first hotel floor takeover party next weekend. Any advice for a first timer, and should I look to book a room on the party floor or will booking a room somewh…
by ItsMrFlex13replies2,688viewsMy first time as a bull with a couple.
So I meet this younger couple on here. Chatted with the Mr. He's really cool. Exchanged pics, she approved. So I get a message that they want to play. I was thinking a weekend, ge…
by 8ayou8illy0replies974viewsWhat are the best ways to find a serious female partner?
Let me start by stating that I am a successful male in the Lifestyle. I've met, had amazing sex and befriended multitudes of couples in all the years I've been playing. The one th…
by MrTrainer15replies2,044viewsBHM (Big Handsome Man) Why the double standard??
I have noticed an interesting trend over the years in this lifestyle..... great attention and care has gone into making sure that BBW are seen as just as beautiful as smaller wome…
by lonelylvr69132replies7,324viewsManners and respect
I felt I had to comment on this as often I read or hear about men that are crass, rude or presumptive. Single males are a dime a dozen and an attractive single woman or a couple h…
by Hotwithyou1replies827views- 11replies3,323views
Husband's, how did you do it?
I see so many hott couples of all ages, men sporting GORGEOUS women that are into living this lifestyle, and I always think to myself, "how do these guys end up finding such attra…
by Thaiger30replies5,948viewsHot Date BS
How about a couple posted a hot date looking for a single male, but that couple had single males blocked.
3replies1,042viewssingle male versus single female
I read the certainly justifiable complaints of single males and the bad rap they get. However, being a unicorn and trying to find a suitable date is difficult too. I swung as 'bi'…
by yeaokay19replies2,661viewsPersistence is a virtue, to some of us
Without hijacking another's thread; a thought occurred to me while reading a response. In the thread: "What is the trick to talk to people when you're a single male?", and a respo…
19replies2,178viewsWife stopped being a swinger
So my wife and I are poly and she found a long term BF and has stopped wanting to be in the lifestyle. This has had the effect of making me a single male swinger and I have no ide…
12replies3,388viewsNot New topic but looking for feedback on profile
Good morning fellow travellers From time to time I think it is a good idea to see why (other than being a straight single male on a couples dominated site) I am not getting as muc…
5replies952viewspenalizing single men!!!
First off, we go to a LOT of LS parties and I've never even heard of, much less witnessed the prostitute scenario. I suppose anything is possible, like getting struck by lightning…
by mayhem820replies3,124viewsThis is why single guys get a bad rap
Our profile is very clear - we don't want singles to reach out to us and we don't want anyone to reach out via IM. Yet - this morning we get an IM from a single guy simply saying…
by AandJinNNJ43replies7,243viewsBliss cruise april 2019
I have a fully paid cabin for the April cruise out of Fort Lauderdale but my girl has decided not to go. Need a woman to join me since guys can't travel solo..help!
by Lenkat0replies829viewsSafety first
I started talking to someone who’s pretty big in the lifestyle. After few days of talking, we started sharing stories and pictures. Then we decided to meet. It was supposed to be…
1replies939viewsNo place for single men
I have been in the lifestyle since 2011. Back then I was 21 and living in Florida. I was shocked by the lifestyle and how much crazy mind blowing actions that go on in it. As a si…
22replies3,571viewsNo place for single men
I have been in the lifestyle since 2011. Back then I was 21 and living in Florida. I was shocked by the lifestyle and how much crazy mind blowing actions that go on in it. As a si…
2replies924views[LOCKED]Why aren’t single men allowed at parties?
We have been going to parties both house & hotel & are just wondering why single women are allowed but not single men? I think this is a great place to meet one & be able to do MF…
188replies9,209viewsStories of those who have crossed over from nillaworld.
I read the single swingers looking thread Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing) and read all of it. The advice ranges from keep looking to find a partner from th…
by H_lustlover5replies1,354viewsGuys listed as straight or couple but unattached and bi?
Your observation is mostly correct. The wife has no idea that her vacation or intimate photos have been put online and are part of a profile. Sadly they were here during the Craig…
by HollyBlue11replies1,998viewsTJs in PA as a single male
I’m headed to TJs for Sexy undies Night as a single male. Will I be accepted? Talked to? The only one? I’m new to this. What kind of experience could I expect?
by Boofagle3replies1,003viewsProfile help
How can I make a more appealing profile without it becoming a novel!! LOL! Any suggestions surely appreciated.
by Ramptor2replies658viewsProfile Critics
Let me know what you think? Blunt is better.... I plan to add to it but not sure what I need to add. Thanks for playing
by Bmxrydr41303replies858viewsCritique My Profile
Hello all! Was hoping to get some feedback on my page and what I can do to improve my chances/options with couples. Thanks!!
by gym_escape2replies1,110viewsSingle Male profile review
Hello , I am a single male and I would like some reviews on my profile. I feel I’m very respectful and read other profiles completely before sending message, but then I get no res…
by Alp6249replies1,914viewsGentleman seeking older women and older couple in Vegas
Older soul in a younger body here and I am interested in a woman or couple at least in their 50s for fun. Would rather prefer something regular but am open to possibilities. Anyon…
by Richard36LV0replies785viewsIs There an Assumption
I just have a simple question for anyone who cares to answer it: When you see a single guy on SLS, is there an assumption that he has real trouble getting laid in ordinary life, a…
by Nafester24317replies1,987viewsWhat is the trick to getting to talk to people when you're single male
I live in in East Texas and most of the women on here are either fake or lie about their size or don't put a current picture then there are those who are totally honest but those…
by bigthor0536replies7,932viewsInfo on clubs, parties MG's for a single gentleman
Good day! I have been trying to get info on the above mentioned for a single respectful mature SANE gentleman. Have not had much luck. I am on business from May 16-18 and staying…
by Eastmark693replies1,062viewsPlaymate
Hello, I’m interested in continuing the swinger lifestyle, going from couple to single male has def presented challenges for attending events and meeting people in the lifestyle!…
by JmdAsh2replies1,202viewsEthiopian or Habesha
Are there any Ethiopian/Habesha swinging? Single women or attached? I'm very interested.
by ltapia8518replies1,717viewsReconnecting with couples
How does a single male reconnect with a couple that are both on board for meeting up again after playing at a party, when their profile is closed two single males? At first I thou…
by AlanCapps7627replies1,019viewsSingle male here, would like some profile critiquing !
Hi Everyone ! Thanks for stopping by this post, and if you have time to do so, checking out my profile and sharing your thoughts on it ! Steve.
by WildrMonkey3replies1,361viewsfirst singer's party as a single male
I'm going to my first party in the next couple weeks as a single male on the younger side. I wanted to see if anyone had Any advice. I am respectful and outgoing but I'm going to…
by MrSaturn014replies2,525viewsSLS needs to be more tolerant
I join this group as part of a couple and now find myself single. Although the intro to SLS says it includes singles and couples, the focus of SLS and most of the groups are coupl…
by OVDamsel24replies3,675viewsHow to date in a vanilla world ?
So I may have a unique situation in the future. (Maybe?) Before I was divorced I was involved in the lifestyle. Been out of the game for a while and now I am back as a single male…
15replies3,268viewsBad experiences .
Hey I got a question for the single guys and ladies. How do you handle a very bad experience? Usually I just let it roll off my back but this husband was extremely rude and mean.…
by georgia9999136replies5,031viewsFinding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
I get that much of this lifestyle revolves around SEX. . . I mean, without the sexual aspect, it's just going out with friends. While I love sex as much as the next guy (or gal),…
227replies34,787viewsWhy do some men lie about penis size
Last week on "One Thousand Ways to Die' they had a segment about some doofus (probably a yankee) who strapped a salami onto his thigh with a length of rubber hose and went to the…
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