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Pleasure Garden and Saints are close to the city. First Friday of the month at PG brings a few hundred people. Saints is clean and smaller. The crowd like most is hot or miss. Check with the sign up list. At both single guys are allowed Fr…
Thank you both for such a detailed response. As a single guy on here it can be a challenge so I really do appreciate the feedback. Decided to give Caliente a shot since I’ve been to the other two. Thanks again!
I have been to Secrets twice (first time was a blast and second was similar to the other negative reviews). My opinion was most everyone was in the LS. Not sure you are allowed to play at the pool area but there was plenty of open flirting…
Not sure if you’re looking for advice from a single guy but I’m always willing to try and help another out. I still date in the vanilla world (tinder,etc). My experience on that site is based almost entirely on looks and the women are usua…
Wayne - I have a free couples profile for when a female friend visits. You can receive an email but the message is blocked unless you choose to upgrade. For how we use it, having a free profile is now basically useless. It allows me to see…
It’s why I keep my pics private. If I can’t see you then you can’t see me. Obviously those checking my profile who block singles are simply checking a cert but in a world that judges this lifestyle the way it does I am only comfortable sho…
My advice is always to treat a night out the same as you would going to a vanilla bar...couple of drinks, laugh, no expectations. Good rule of thumb is never to judge a place after one night. Most places on single guy nights can be hit or…
Forget the site...create a solid app
Not sure if this has been mentioned but for me it’s all about how they feel for the woman. I’ve noticed some of the women I meet who have fake boobs have lost sensation post surgery. Kind of a bummer since nipple play can be a huge turn on…
Take a wkend trip to Freedom Acres. It’s a ls resort so people re swapping but I noticed plenty of couples who clearly enjoy exactly what you are looking for
The only club in NJ I know of is in AC. I have attended many in NYC/ Philly as a single and at times as a couple. DeJavu lounge under the club section would be a great place to start. It’s less of a club scene that you would expect on a wk…
Her profile is also closed to men. Go figure
I’ve been to LA several times and am surprised they do not seem to have an active club or group. Am I missing something?
I love giving them and often times the female receiving ends up having an orgasm without me removing my underwear. I have been told by a few women what they enjoy most is getting total relaxation and pleasure without the obvious expectatio…
There were a few sites known for this service...some with obvious reviews. A law that had passed was recently enforced shutting down those sites. I’m sure the places are still open. I like getting a good massage as much as anyone but this…
In my experience...in a 1 on 1 situation it’s 5/10 mins before sex. If the bj is during 69 and that’s how she wants to cum it lasts longer. Thinking 20/25 mins. Only time I have someone going down on me 45 min is in a mfm when she is in do…
‘The hell with honest science.’ I work in the medical field and unfortunately agree completely. Reality is there have not been significant ‘squirting’ studies done bc there is no money in it. Almost every study is either funded by somethin…
What’s sad (as I turn off my wireless headphones from a ‘tablet’ live streaming a game from the other side of the world) is that nobody has a definitive answer! Go figure?! Back to the post from Garync...what advice do you need? To keep it…
As a single guy on here now for a few years I have a question relating to this post. Has anyone who has had a bad ‘single guy’ experience ever date online in the vanilla world? I can only speak as a single but sites like Match and Tinder a…
