Manners and respect

surprised no one commented on this topic we just recently opened up to single males. Out of about 50 messages only 3 had a nice introduction. All of these were from older males. The younger guys don't read profiles or age limits. My wife don't care if you have abs and a big dick. You probably don't know what to do with it anyway. She likes a gentleman, not a cocky know it all.
You need to approach your message like a cover letter for a job. Put some thought in it and read and understand what the couple in looking for. Put some effort in it. You have a better chance of meeting a couple. And if you think I'm wrong, hope you enjoy jacking off.

I felt I had to comment on this as often I read or hear about men that are crass, rude or presumptive. Single males are a dime a dozen and an attractive single woman or a couple has the pick of the litter any time they desire so why do so many men shoot themselves in the foot during initial messages and or meeting? Unless a woman or couple specifically states that comments such as “your hot let’s fuck” are a turn on for them, you had better avoid it. By being polite, respectful and not presumptive has more than once allowed me to be invited by couples that otherwise were not interested in single males. I have had the privilege of meeting some wonderful ladies and couples here and elsewhere and hopefully there will be more . Not all wish to meet with me and that’s alright, but at least I introduced myself and more than once because I showed respect, they referred a friend/s to me with enjoyable outcomes.