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YES! This would also allow us single males to be less annoying if we know our message has been read or not. If they read and ignore, then move on. But if you are not sure if it was read, you may give a 2nd or 3rd shot... Gnome sayin?
I also agree, there is another site that does send a message when someone has given access, so this may be possible.
bfwp4u, Yes, proportionally the ratio is higher with flakey sm, however, there are flakey couples as well. I wish neither of have to experience it, and in this forum, I am trying to see if that number is higher than I suspect by asking if…
They are magically delicious!
This is for all the single men out there. Yes, there are plenty of single men that make it difficult for us who truly enjoy couples, stag/vixen or hot wife scenarios, and respect the husbands or SO who shares their partners. But there are…
Even the red 0 count is annoying because at firts glance you think you have a message, but nooooo. Why could you not leave well enough alone. Now you have added another reason for us to complain about. Has anyone there ever had a successfu…
Dman964, "Has anyone else tried the Tong Balm that was mentioned?" Like Brylcreem, a little dab will do you. To get the best results from this takes planning. Apply a small amount about the size of your finger tip and spread around the hea…
5looking, I guarantee none of those folks ever said, on television, or printed, that blacks were too stupid to get IDs. That was what you posted. By the way, I stand on my own two feet and never blamed whitey for anything..... Next on the…
5looking: "The media says blacks are too stupid to be able to get an ID even though you have to have one" These are your words, not the media. If you want to continue the stereotype like your buddy justus, let's look at it this way. You ha…
WOW Daddy, Unless you live in these communities, do you really know what you are talking about, or just what you read. There is a group called Young Black Republicans that have been around for decades. Other black communities may chose an…
5looking, I won't assume what you do or do not know, so please don't assume for me. What I do know is that the PPP was Federally funded through the CARES act. EDD always has been state funded. There are many corporations that took advantag…
I am not so sure why folks are up in arms about the student loan forgiveness and not the PPP loan forgiveness. It come from the same wallet, ours! I'd rather help students than corporations that took advantage of getting monies they did no…
Twoforone, I like that idea of a response button. Also having a "Read Notification" would be nice to have to see if it was even received and read. Al%*&t F F has a "read" feature that you can select if you want to know if it was indeed rea…
As an alternate, I use the Opera browser on my Android and it works perfectly
It used to work as well as the website (neither were flawless) but now the app is a hot mess at best. It does not get beyond the dance circle of people to fully load. Is this only an Android issue? Was the app built for apple users?
You know, the students had every intention of paying their student loans as soon as the billionaire tax breaks trickled down to them.
ro_ri54, Great song choice.. Mine is Me So Horny by Two Live Crew
Dad and Uncle were not wrong. There is a time and place when any and all conversation choices are appropriate. And this is only my opinion, but on a site where you are trying to connect with others, a forum that caters to many things oppos…
If there is one Discussion group in this forum that did not exist, or that you could get rid of, which one would it be, and what would you replace it with? My choice would be "Politics" My dad and uncles always told me, never discuss relig…
@funfor, There is plenty of room in Texas. Land is cheaper and so is the gas. We wouldn't want them to end up homeless by sending them to California. Besides that, Texas is number two in richest people per states
And Melania was the first transgender first lady! Another first that people can't take away from the Trumps.
1st of all, Unless you are Canadian, Mexican, or First Nations native to this land, we are all immigrants. 2nd, the worst illegal immigrants to step onto this land came over on the Mayflower, the founding fathers then stole, or killed ever…
• Biden – 95 days of vacation during his first year • Trump – 111 days of vacation during his first year • Obama – 26 days of vacation during his first year. • George W. Bush – 69 days of vacation. • Bill Clinton – 21 days of vacation his…
@hump, No where in Daddy's post did he mention anything that could be considered racist. But calling someone out on their sexual preference seems to be a disparagement, and stating that one particular person may see something racist in tha…
I was on AFF as well and was tired of the spam bots, fake profiles, and hookers. I found SDC as well as SLS and found a home here as the folks were genuine and welcoming to SM.
I have reached out to every possible couple on this site that is in Charlotte. Pissed off about 30 of them for being pricks. Well that statement sums up why you are not successful here. You feel that you are entitled to a response just bec…
As kid, I had Huffys, Murrays and eventually A Schwinn stingray. Then when mtn biking Inloved the GT brand with the triple triangle frame. Had a GT squishy with the i-drive that was awesome. Now I have a Specialized Roubaix fully carbon fi…
"Where's the espionage?" There are three national security clearance levels: Confidential, Secret, and Top Secret. Work deemed Critical Sensitive requires a Top Secret clearance. Special Sensitive work requires access to Sensitive Compartm…
AHA!!! We finally get the truth of the matter!!! "I hate Muslim people like Obama" Video tapes and photos can be photoshopped. Unless there are medical records stating that Michelle was born male. All y'all just need to admit that. Not to…
Ha ha ha ha ha Hump, And they say we Californians read a lot of fake news. All those sites that you state have the "evidence" are all right wings sites. Nice try, just say you did not like them instead of continuing to spread false rumors.…
Hump, Why do you think the former first lady Michelle Obama is a man? Secondly, what proof do you have to back that claim?
So what I think you are saying, somonescoming, is that Kevin D. Greeson died of a heart attack, collapsing on the sidewalk west of the Capitol on Jan. 6. Did not count? And Rosanne Boyland appeared to have been crushed in a stampede of fel…
Ringo, There is also a bit of a "catch22" when it comes to parties. Most but not all parties have limited space for SM, or state that you have to be invited by a couple to attens. Therefore you still need to send messages to connect with s…
Ashli Babbitt, an Air Force veteran, was fatally shot by a Capitol Police officer as rioters tried to breach the House chamber. Kevin D. Greeson died of a heart attack, collapsing on the sidewalk west of the Capitol on Jan. 6. Rosanne Boyl…
I wad a little disappointed with the new Peaky Blinders series. It lost momentum
I've been giving massages to curious wives experienced in the lifestyle, and newbies looking to ease their way in. It can be a powerful experience if that person truly gives a massage. The power of touch, and the conversation that goes alo…
We can't block someone from being in the forums, can we? Either way, he will just pop up again with a different profile name.
I know what you mean sorillo. My friends nick named me "The Lesbian Whisperer" I easily make friends with them, they introduce me to women, and on occasion they even play with me. It is the best!!!
It is easy to have a keyboard personna and talk smack from 2000 miles away. I need some butter on my popcorn!
OK Wayne, Time to do your job. This guy is out of control. Balloffun25 Him: Straight ,46 Yea your a fag
The fact that you require an explanation just proves that you don't have an understanding of the lifestyle. If you go back and read any of your comments, that will give you all the explanation ever needed. Now where is my bag of popcorn? ??
Will someone please pass the popcorn already!
Quazilink, I did not make an assumption, but I did ask a question. "Unless you meet someone at a party, how do you determine if you are attracted to someone online?" You answered it by stating that you primarily meet folks at parties. That…
Quazilink, Unless you meet someone at a party, how do you determine if you are attracted to someone online?
Zulu, It really is not about a picture swap, but how will you know if you are attracted to someone or a couple sight unseen? As stated, this question is about the profile picture which is your initial attention grabber, then you open their…
I agree Ron & Kathy, Also there are profiles that have a larger numbers of pics in the small photo, but when you open to the actual profile, it is one pic and the rest are in the galleries :-)
Hello all, In this day and age of online swinging, the initial view of a profile is in the words and pictures. Single women and couples often state that several pictures are key in getting to know if someone is visually attractive. After a…
New_And_Naughty, I agree and as I stated, this may be his true fetish. Humiliation, followed closely by BBC!
If you don't have online game, then why remain on a online service and complain online about. Also, why would you think that with your 5th or 6th profile that this would work, when you have the same blaming everyone else approach? The true…
Every single one of my pictures are selfies. Tripod, balanced on a ledge or extended arm, and not one complaint. Honestly Ball, it is you, not everyone else. Get the hint buddy!
Ha ha ha , I thought that whining sounded familiar. And of course the location is still NC so it makes it easy to pin point who it is. A glutten for punishment, so maybe that is his true fetish, 2nd only to his desire for BBC.
As a SM I have met some amazing couples, and single women. Like anything in life, just be genuine, a little vulnerable, allow folks to get to know you, be respectful of the husband and he is sharing his amazing wife, and you should have no…
There are also many couples or sf that state a cert is a requirement to even have a conversation with them.
very good point rustic
Both are great. Bare or Covered with plenty of lube!
The good and the bad about Certs is you can actually read up on someone to see if they are flaky. Almost like a Yelp review. I don't have any because I came back under a new name. I've been bailed on 4 times by couples over the years, but…
Is it possible to alert members when updates are scheduled and the possible challenges that come with them? A little customer service would stop most of these posts. IJS
All of the ladies that were nominated for this opportunity have been put under the spotlight. Yet they maintain their integrity, answer tough questions with grace, are poised under pressure and hold it together better than the men before t…
Great post Doc and you nailed it!!! Let's be respectful as well as sexual!
Well none of us will be surprised if you pop back up again with yet, another profile name. I too, do not think he is racist, per se, but I do believe he has a hidden fascination with BBC. So his statement of "This is a world I stumbled upo…
Kind of like high school. Everyone seems to gravitate to who is familiar or is in their little clique. Hard for new couples or singles to break in... at least in my experience....
I shave with a mach 3 blade, take my time and have no issues. Low and slow, that's the tempo.
@New_and_Naughty, I was not referring to people that do not want to be duped... However, we have to admit that there are people out there that seek to harm those who are different than they are. Ok, me calling someone a nutbag may have bee…
Wrong, The mobile app has been glitchy lately so like others, I use a mobile browser on my phone and view the forums just fine. OH2BLAMEOTHERS
The conclusion that you should come to, and finally admit to is this. No matter what picture YOU post, or email that YOU craft, the funk of you being an ass for the last 5 profile, you can never shake. No woman or couple that takes a momen…
I am definitely a "grower" In new situations I can be between 3-4" flaccid, in familiar situations around 5" then fully erect at 8"
The app has not worked for me either. It has just spun on the login photo for at least a week now...
AS my group of friends and 50's, 60's and 70's. I have been gifting BP Cuffs. It is a great way to stay in tuned with your body and a great way to show you care about your friends health
S'plain this to me, and when did this become a thing?
Maybe this question applies heavily in California, so here goes. In the preference section of your profile where it asks "Who are you looking for?" Should there be another additional question for "Are you interested in meeting Trans/Post O…
Can SLS block a user's IP address to keep them from opening multiple annoying profiles?
The closest way to figure out is this. If you share your private gallery with those who have shared theirs, then try this. Go to the Favorites link on the web page, not the app. Scroll to the bottom, and on the right is the list of folks w…
From the Lifestyle Definitions on this site: DP - Double Penetration, simultanious Vaginal and Anal. DVP - Double Vaginal Penetration - Two penises in one vagina Hope this helps everyone.
In the last 5-6 years the word Like, was the filler word of choice. "Like I was so bummed that she like didn't go down on me" As of late I have been hearing in public as well as on TV the words "I mean" Whether at the beginning of a senten…
"There are so many women that want hung BBC, they don’t care what you look like." So are you are stating that many women do not care what men of color look like just to get a BBC? Also, are you are reducing the average black man to only hi…
@OH2NY2NC2022, Making assumptions won't win you any points with folks here, nor any invitations in your area or even other states. As far as I know, revealing our employment status is not a pre-requisite to being on this site, so you have…
TravelVet, The tub pics surely are hot, but those body hugging dressed that Kathy wears get me going!!! WOOOOO!
There are plenty of parties and gatherings to be found this time of year. Although most of us have family obligations, there is always time for fun. Recently as of last week, I attended a party and there are plenty of Hot Dates in the SLS…
I've met some very sexy 60's couples and hope to meet one in GA or FL someday!
I don't want to see a woman's penis either!
@Onehourcouple I did the same thing, measured twice, but was still too loose. The 45 fits perfectly and I love the feel of it! Primal is the best I have owned.
I prefer shaved or trimmed. But a bush matted with a load of cum is kind of HOT. Not on a regular basis, but once in a while a nice tuft on too is well received. :-)
In my profile I offer the ladies a Full Body Sensual Massage, and I have met several couples looking to have that experience for the wife. But they are not very frequent. In the 4 years of having my table, I have given approx 8 massages, a…
Glad to see so many familiar faces and profiles. I'll be diving into the forums, but easing my toe back in water instead of a head first dive!!!
The chin, neck, and breasts. If I have saved up, I can usually cover all three! The holy trinity!!
Brentwood, As being a single male in the lifestyle for 10+ years, I know what you mean. I focus my attention on the female partner with at first small talk to get comfortable, find commonalities that eases her anxiety as well as yours, The…
The number one rule that applies in many aspects of life. Always make a good first impression. Try for a pose that is flattering, not off putting, feature something that will draw interest, not repell, and never take a selfie in the bathro…
Hello all, Since I am a single swinger I can tell you that we have out good days and bad days. Sometimes I get plenty of invites, but them there are times that I do not. I don't play a numbers game so for me it is about the quality of peop…
