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There's nothing terrible about your profile, but it could use some work. When you start a thread in Better Profiles, maybe also include an example of a message you sent that got you blocked.

1) There are fakes

2) 10,000 st/bi looking for each bi female looking for a new st/bi couple to play with.

3) Many bi female are here more to learn about house parties and club events then be cybered.

4) Finding a single bi female is like Chinese finger cuffs. The harder you try, the less likely to succeed. You have to relax, hang out where they frequent, lay out some bait, and hope they come to you.

“ I am bored as fuck.”

:*-(

Post in the better profiles section and I will try to help you out. You will have to open up your profile to couples, though, so I can look at it.

Please do this. Schools are closes and I am bored as fuck.

Thanks for the replies, It has been frustrating so far but we have learned a lot from these forums and there is a lot of good people on her.

I understand that the female is going to be the hardest to find, but the only ones we are messaging are single females that we really fit with what they are looking for. Im sure im also underestimating the amount of messages the single female gets on here a day.

I'll update and agree with vabeachcouple....we can't even see your profile. That won't bode well for getting people to reach out or even getting single females to reach out if that's all you are looking for. They aren't called unicorns for nothing. ;-)

Wow, so maybe a profile update may help. i also was worried it was because it says we a new at this and we don"t have any "certs"
Certs seem to be just as hard as starting any credit, nobody wants to risk it if you don't have any but nobody is willing to give you a chance and give you your first one.
Its really an eye opener of how the different the dating world would actually is today.

You are seeking only single females. I'd be surprised if you get a reply of even 1 out of 50.

There are threads in the 3-some and Finding Playmates sections that deal with this.

You have a huge uphill battle to find single females for threesomes on here. You will have far better luck at parties and clubs.

In our experience, a LOT will just ignore. We don't do it. Anyone that ever has reached out to us always gets a polite/respectful response even if it's to say "Thanks so much for reaching out, but we don't feel we are a good match." or something along those lines. What we found interesting was how some that originally ignored us actually reached out to us after we improved our pics/profile. Initially we were really frustrated with it, but one we started connecting with some really great people, we really don't care anymore. We are still friendly, outgoing, and as courteous as possible with everyone! Good luck!!

Hi everyone!
Have a question about messages on here. We were pretty excited when we found this site because it looked way more legit and we figured there wouldn’t be as many fakes and rude people.

One thing that is so hard for us to understand on any site is why people won’t reply? Even if it’s a sorry to far, not interested, thanks for the compliment, anything.
I understand if it’s a situation where the person just doesn’t even fit what you are looking for and it’s obvious they didn’t even read your profile but we have messaged over 20 people on here without a single reply. And a few have just instantly blocked us.
We have never sent anything rude, it’s usually a comment that the pictures are beautiful and sounds like we have a lot in common with what we are looking for, and would love to chat. Nothing bad. Maybe we are doing it wrong? Maybe we look like a fake profile? Not sure because we are very new to this.
So my question is, is it just common practice to just straight ignore someone if you are t interested?
Is it not considered disrespectful or impolite in the online world?