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At what point does the LS become more than a hobby?
I've heard people write in their profiles that they don't let the LS (lifestyle) define them. Just curious at what point people feel like that line has been crossed? For us, we wi…
by mayhem826replies1,034viewsRecent Upgrades
Not sure what all those series of recent upgrades were about but the site still has major connection and speed issues. I check my speed from my ISP on a regular basis or when I ha…
1replies329viewsFakes or picture seekers
They exist . . . You never know what their motive is though. While you think they may be pic collectors, they may have looked at the photos and then didn't want to say, "Not inter…
by eroticamazon15replies679viewsDoes the app work for anyone?
It never loads on my Samsung Note, I have tied reinstalling it.
by 2TN4FUn11replies601viewsReporting Fraudulent Account
Hi everyone! My first forum post so I hope this in acceptable place for this thread. We've encountered an issue with guys pretending to be couples a few times. I was wondering if…
by n081120228replies332viewsSalsa lessons
Question - we are (currently, at least) living in a very rural area in the northeast. We've been talking about taking salsa lessons but have no idea where to even look. Back in NC…
by ExiledFun7replies284viewsCondom question for the ladies allergies
We picked out the SKYN condoms since they were highly rated and they are what they say they are, very nice. The problem is the next day it seems like they caused a minor vaginal i…
by DECPL202110replies676viewsDiscussion Group choices
If there is one Discussion group in this forum that did not exist, or that you could get rid of, which one would it be, and what would you replace it with? My choice would be "Pol…
by nativesf18replies830viewsPosts disappearing
Just curious if anyone has made a post in any of the forum topics and then have it mysteriously dissappear. It happen to me today. Not sure if is a glitch in the system or a new f…
12replies621viewsbuying a vacation home???
So we are in a position where we are looking for a vacation home. We have an idea of what we want but looking for others' input as to what you would look for. We know it is ultima…
7replies367viewsCampgrounds
Are there any camp grounds in MN, WI, IL, or near by states? I know of Freedom Valley, Two Creeks, and NCN.
by Nrthernwicpl3replies438viewsCan anyone help us understand?
Jean and I have been in the lifestyle for only a little more than 3 years. That does NOT make us experts by any stretch of the imagination. So, I ask all our experienced and more…
by midagehippie6replies700viewsBikes
Bikes, E Bikes, Motorcycles and Scooters. In the WTF thread, we took the convo "off-road" to bikes. I just started this thread to let the WTF return to topic. We can discuss what…
by 8inchcable20replies776viewsFlakes
Is there a place on the site to post bad feedback on other profiles. We've had two guys flake on us back to back. Its getting tiresome and a big waste of our time. Would like to b…
by ONELOVESwing28replies1,477viewsForum Posters I Miss and Why
For some reason, this week my thoughts have been on regular forum posters (mostly from the past) who no longer participate. There have really been some characters in the past, and…
230replies13,243viewsParty hosting
This noob is thinking about hosting a swinger party. I am looking for input: What to do to prepare the house ? What to do to protect the property ? What kind of refreshments/snack…
4replies353viewsCum Addiction
Hello. First time posting on any forum. My FWB wanted me to ask a serious question. She wonders if it is possible to by physically addicted to a particular man’s cum (mine)? She s…
21replies1,394viewsBahamas
So why isn’t there anything on here about people in Nassau Bahamas? It want pull up anything when I try to change location not even on hot dates.
by descreetx425replies534views- 2replies771views
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I have a question
If you are a paid member Can you E Mail free members and them be able to read it? I saw a couple comment that unpaid members could not respond to E mails they sent Just want to kn…
by oldertxgent7replies386views- 5replies784views
Storage for sex toys
This is a bit of a strange inquiry, but hoping someone has solved this before. Right now, my wife and I have all our sex toys stuffed into a drawer in our nightstand, and it's har…
4replies360viewsWhy is it
Why is it that's okay for two women to be together but not two guys Sex is sex it doesn't matter to me.
by purple134015replies754viewsI confess that Ive done something Im ashamed of
Over the past week or so, Ive been fucking with the 2000 mile away bots seeking for serious relationship on another LS site thats infested with them. Acting all interested, but in…
by sorillo10007replies694viewsHot Date Preferences
"OK let me take a stab at explaining it. You are taking it on yourself to assume that the "preferences" your members have set in their profiles are "absolutes". They aren't. For j…
by sls_WayneC5replies469viewsDoes Bitcoin eventually go to zero?
I’ve looked at it for years, but I cannot see how it isn’t a tulip mania investment. I understand the blockchain idea, but there are infinite variations on the idea. If it had val…
by EricnJo15replies602viewsCovid Light - Hold the insults
OK, let's try this again. I'm not sure if this topic will be as popular without all the insults and whack a doodle conspiracy theories but it's bound to be more interesting. There…
by currentrider5,321replies184,210viewsLifestyle people
As soon as we mention to anyone that we are lifestyle people, they cut us off. They act like we have the plague, or some dark secret. Our view on them is that if they can not acce…
by MNJFLA7replies425viewsmasturbation
How many of you ladies and gents out there ever masturbate while driving the interstate
20replies1,158viewsIs the lifestyle aging out?
Younger people are using different apps. Many are not on SLS at all.
by cacpl_2661replies3,257views- 4replies455views
Multi million dollar verdict in std case
A verdict of $5.2 million dollars was entered against a GEICO insured driver for transmitting HPV to his passenger during a sexual encounter in the car. Hard to believe. Google it…
6replies420viewsHow much property for sex/orgies outdoors?
Maybe it can be done with creative architecture and property design because i know LS friends on here are having a nudist home built that takes different aspects of being a nudist…
12replies959viewsMask and Swingers
We have had a few "Fun Times" in the past 6 months, we are not mask wearers in general, unless forced to. But really had some good laughs with people we have played with that wore…
by suzyque341replies1,862viewsThe courtesy of a reply
We've sent out a number of messages and the majority have gone unanswered. Have others have experienced this? Common courtesy would dictate at least an acknowledge that there was…
by Windsong70205replies13,107views- 6replies350views
Help
We need help from all of you. We have a couple off weeks off in the begging of June. Where would be a good vacation spot? We want to visit somewhere that has a big swinger communi…
by Funwife4you14replies763viewsGratitude: What are you grateful for today?
What are you grateful for today? We'll start. We are most grateful to--and for--each other. Yes, we are grateful for every sunrise. We are even more grateful for being able to sha…
37replies1,825viewsFunniest advice from parents
What is the funniest things your parents told you to keep you from sex at a young age....
27replies1,044viewsExxxotica Convention
Has anyone been to to one? What's it like? A place to meet other SLS members in person? Or is it porn stars selling movies and wt? Missed this year's event near Chicago but might…
by Arlingtonray0replies279viewsAnswering Messages
I have tried to contact a few members on here that "should" be able to receive messages with absolutely no response. I know that not everyone will respond due to sexual tastes, nu…
4replies362viewsAnyone See The Swinging Couple Murders on Foresnic Files?
No BS. I was watching some reruns last weekend on cable forensic files. A navy couple up in Virginia were swingers on A.F.F. that bullshit site. Anyways, this couple goes online l…
by BruuceWayne3replies337viewsIs there a story behind your online name?
In our case, we have a big (5 br) house and there were times where we took people in to help them out. One of those times, a female cousin with 2 sons jumped into a marriage that…
by mayhem853replies3,267viewsSexual supplements
Taking my partner to a resort for the weekend. We would like to get the most out of the experience. Are there any supplements that may help to break down inhibitions, and add to s…
16replies914viewsFirst Ever Concert?
Another music topic just to take a break from the same old same old. When was the first ever concert you attended that had a well known national touring act as the headliner? Who…
by DBCooperMN41replies1,468viewsJust an FYI
Just saw an article published about this issue. CDC has also addressed it. Health officials are warning Florida residents about a "large" outbreak of a potentially fatal bacterial…
0replies285viewsSign of the Times?
Recently I traveled down to S.C. to see an old friend. We stopped in one evening at a little hole in the wall place where the gathering of men was in progress. We grabbed a beer e…
by dragonrapide0replies313viewsTennessee North Carolina Fires
Watching the local news and they are reporting evacuation orders. Anybody here in the zone?
by DBCooperMN11replies620viewsThe Addiction Is Real
So yesterday I was walking out of the local MegaloMart just minding my own business, when I ran into my old dealer, just standing there looking innocent as could be. I tried to ju…
by DBCooperMN24replies1,221views
