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I'm gonna say that the mix at PV is about 90-95% couples. There are a few SFS and even fewer SMS. There are a lot of activities that go on there, and volleyball seems to be the big thing for the active crowd. I believe that it could be a g…
Last night.....oh my.....eyes rolled back in head..... ~lady~
SP: Friday! How I missed You! SP2: Amused with people who hide behind their keyboard to get their digs. Gonna be a good day when you know you got under someone's skin, as thin as it is. ;^* ~lady~
If I live to be 100 years old I will remained amazed at how the alleged most intelligent creatures on the planet can remain so unaffected by the obvious. This gives me another sterling idea for another of my classic threads wherein I can c…
Best wishes to you, Ms Annie. Tramp
Oh my-opic friends. Will this never end. Searching for exactly who or what has ruined Swinging will get you nowhere. Why, you ask? Because Swinging has not been ruined. It's alive and well. Tramp
"We don't do this enough to justify a monthly cost..." Do what enough? You're on the forums every day. That's not enough bang for your buck, TBR? ;^) Tramp
"FOSTA la VISTA, baby." Lol Tramp
Oh, Ok. Well, it's awesome anyway. Jackie? That was just the first thing that I thought of that would be a female name that rhythmed with Jack. Tramp
Tough crowd today. Tramp
OK then, but I gotcha back on this one, TBR. You just let me know if you change your mind. Me and all those fellas are just like this here (holding up two fingers together). ;^/ Tramp
It's OK TBR, I understand. I'll be glad to reach out to them all on your behalf, explain that you've repented, and see if they will unblock you. ;^/ Tramp
The DMV can be like that for sure. Hell, I'm a guy and even I get fucked there. All I've asked for in the last 40 yrs is a half decent photo....fucked every time. Tramp
Kellyjean's new profile photo just gave me an idea for a game I'll call "Jackie and the Beanstalk." I'm working the details out as we speak. In the meanwhile I'm wondering, is that an actual tattoo MsKellyJean, or is temporary art? It's go…
You can't win if ya don't play. "Yes, I'm sure that I've read that somewhere before." (In my best Jack Nicholson voice) Tramp
OK, so I believe I got that last post, MsLady, but I'm gonna think on that a bit. Tramp
And BTW... MsLady, I truly do believe that you are 100% what you say that you are. I only clarify that because I'm constantly getting myself in trouble by trying to say one thing while writing something that seems to say something else. It…
Nevertheless.... I will say that the irony here, and of a few your previous posts, is literally palpable. I appreciated the comment you made earlier about this just being some venting. I suppose we all have a need for that at times. I also…
I was just funning with you MsLady. You know by now that you can't take me seriously. Tramp
Would this be the right spot for me to ask a question? On second thought...I withdraw that. ;^) Tramp
Well, you're certainly welcome. Delete your account? OK. I don't know that either of us suggested that, but by all means...may the force be with you. Tramp
Oh shit, that really needs some clarity. I realize that the natural followup would be that a rape fantasy involves a victim. My point about that is that the common female rape fantasy doesn't involve a victim. That's precisely what separat…
I would classify such fantasies as both problematic and disturbing. The reason I would is that there lacks an absence of victims. Any fantasy or actual conduct that creates or involves the use of victims is disturbing to me. Tramp
"PS: Tramp, for now I think the whole seperate room thing is weird, it’s not our thing but I understand it." Thanks for sharing that. Tramp
OK, so now it's going into circles. Two things that I'll point out as I leave. One: The ideas I referenced are not mine. I claim no expertise as either a layperson, practitioner, or scholar in that area. In contrast, those ideas belong to…
"...some of whom rape once or twice and stop." Hence, not serial rapist. And VA, you make lack expertise in that area, but your speculations are four-square with those who don't lack it. Tramp
Hello again. I'm not sure that you'll get responses that are materially different from what you got in the other thread, but who knows, right? I won't speak to the specifics of your profile. That's not to say that there isn't a host of iss…
Ms Molly: You're referring to men who rape, and I was talking about the serial rapists. These two groups may appear to be the same, but I am referring to a distinct subset. The sexual gratification vs violence and anger is something that h…
"My wholly unscientific poll (as in I've asked a lot of women their fantasies) says that a lot of women have rape fantasies." As unscientific as your inquiries are, there is a fair amount of legitimate studies that show the same thing. In…
"The real deal: There is no possibility of "safe sex" unless you already know the people you're both fucking, their hygiene, health habits and lifestyle outside of swinging." No, not really. Even that's not safe sex, it's safer sex, and th…
Now, that's funny. Lol Tramp
OK, so that last post just put a question in my mind. Premise: Only paid members can upload/view explicit photos, right? And the reported purpose for that was to avoid minors interacting on that level, right? So... Why would the site allow…
@NewHobby: I happen to one of the few who seems to agree that the sweeping changes are not all related to the recent law. However, I also believe it's a little naive to assume that the law had *nothing* to do with the changes, or that the…
I actually had never heard of it. In the midst of of of this present carnage, one of my friends spoke of it by name and I looked it up. The forums there looked interesting, so I put us a profile together real quick (basically the same one…
So far, I've seen no changes there either. Tramp
Curiously enough, I've noticed zero change thus far on three other sites that we have a profile on. May be coming but for now...nothing. Tramp
"For example the fora has been cleared of a lot of NCal rantings." Mabe so, young padawan, but fear not. Though often reveled as the most unwanted, he is by far more talked to, talked about, and referenced than all past and present posters…
Furthermore... Believe me when I tell you that I am in no way done with this. I had to go to work this morning bit rest assured that someone with a badge will be talking to me when I get home. This matter, while expediently addressed by so…
Part Two: To conclude, I also agree with your understanding that it was not very surprising that someone shot this dog. This was 4am (give or take) and this was no small/medium handgun. I believe it was a shotgun, and not a small shotgun.…
Part One: You're correct...on a number of issues. I have spoken about this in recent times, but alas, the thread(s) didn't survive the recent apocalypse. Second, this was a pair of dogs. A male and female of some pit bull mixture. They alw…
Sorry about the post delete. Hell, there were too many mistakes for even me to understand. I'll retype and try again. Tramp
This hurts my heart so badly. This dog had puppies too....the fact that anyone could just walk out and shoot another living thing, especially one that has no defense, is something I cannot fathom.... Sad Lady.... ~lady~
It seems that someone shot our problem dog this morning. I was on my deck around 4am drinking a cup of coffee and thinking that I hadn't been harassed in two or three days by this dog. All of the sudden, I heard the dog get started up from…
I'm pretty sure the boat sailed on that one many a day ago. Tramp
You're welcome. As for reconnecting, my first recommendation would be to wait a week or two and see if their profile returns. This may be a temporary thing. One other method would be to have a friend who's status is not blocked/hidden from…
I hear you, Fokker. The free members are the only group who we continue to block, but it's not for the reasons of aggravation that we do it. As far as tons of email, I've changed my thoughts on that one and, partly due to some posts you ma…
My apologies, sir Fokk. ;^D Tramp
"I never understood the not wanting to put it on a credit card." Of course you do. The appearance of a charge from here on a man's card statement would be the last thing that he wants if he's sneaking out here. That's the precise reason wh…
You learn something every day. Hell, I had to look this one up on google. There were a number of urban translations, but I'm pretty sure that I found the right one. Lol Tramp
I'm sorry guys, but I'm gonna have to call BS on blaming the FOSTA thing for all of this. The magnitude of what has been done just screams convenience to me. It's no big deal to me personally, but I can see how this would piss the ever-liv…
post hoc ergo propter hoc. This is a common fallacy. While I wouldn't be surprised that the new law played a roll, I don't discount the likelihood that it served as a convenient rouge or scapegoat for something that would be both expedient…
That's horrible PG. I'm having a little trouble understanding the deletion of one's personal emails. I don't doubt that admin has their motives, but I'm really having trouble understanding why something of this magnitude didn't warrant eve…
@Crazy4Us2: I can understand why you might wonder as to the arguement you saw, as well as your name being mentioned. However, like BT said, you had nothing to do with it apart from asking a question. The truth is that personalities develop…
A sad day for me. To wake up and realize that 10 plus years have been wiped out is a personal loss for me. Even though there was no real way to actually search old posts, I could occassionally go back and manually browse through some of th…
"I admit I sort of like the whole "double-life" aspect of it." Lady and I like it too. I've reached a point in life where participation here presents no real threat to me socially or professionally. Nevertheless, the intrigue of occassiona…
First, welcome to the forums. There are a couple of ways that you could reach out. One is direct while the other would be indirect. My question though would be this, how long ago did you meet this couple at the party? Was it a few days ago…
Wow, woke up this morning to a new world. I hadn't noticed the carnage, but Lady mentioned it to me. Tramp
Sangria
Pcbguy, always good to see you in here, but just for the sake of full disclosure, you know that the Peacock Dance is the creature of an allegedly married male, right? Tramp
Are you referring to old threads that are now gone, or relatively new ones? Tramp
@sorillo and Batman: wiggling eyebrows ;^0 ~lady~
"If I like the other guy, I fuck him. Hell, even if I don't like the other guy I usually fuck him anyway, but I'm a pretty big whore." Velma, I knew I liked you lol. ;^0 ~lady~
When you get an email from a single male who is going to be in town and wants to pleasure you, would it be okay to ask him if he knows the peacock dance? Asking for a friend..... ;^0 ~lady~
I agree with you, Fokker. Tramp
Lesson No. 33: The grudges you keep are carried in a Contra-Asset account, the corresponding Asset is your life; and the latter is a scarce resource. Both are measured in seconds, hours, and years...not pounds. Tramp
Good catch, Ron. Hell, the only cabinet that I knew I had was in my kitchen. Ya just never truly know the resonance of your own presence, huh. Tramp
Blocked...To be or Not to Be. I can't decide whether this is good fodder for here, or elsewhere. Hard to see the dark side is. Tramp
For all of our shortcomings (and they are many), humans still remain incredible in our ability to adapt and overcome. The thoughts expressed here are but just an example of that. Tramp
Lesson No. 32: Don't believe everything you hear in these hallowed halls. It ain't always true. This is especially the case when what you hear includes words like always, everyone, totally, and the like. The only thing that I’ve found to e…
Ooooo....two birthday surprises. Where's the third member of the NOLA trinity? Can I get three? ;^0 ~lady~
Late July...you got a birthday surprise for Me? ~lady~
You guys are just too good. We have three profiles here (our couples and each a single), and I've rewritten them more often than I shave my face! The problem is this: I don't post in here much, but I read it every day. Every time I think I…
"You seem to have developed both. In their absence, there is only anger and resentment. Kudos to you! " My friend, that's probably the kindest thing anyone has said of me in a good long while. I am genuinely thankful for it. It means a lot…
You rotten scoundrel you. My previous post has bugged me for nearly two hrs. with all the typos (to say nothing of the fact that I forgot to sign it). So I finally gave in, reposted it, and was just about to delete the first version. Now I…
So good of you, BT. ;^/ And yes, Allen blocked me about ten months ago when he and I got really sideways after he appeared from nowhere with an insult. We had joked around many times in the forums, and there had even been more than a few c…
Funny you should ask. Tramp and I were just going over possible dates yesterday evening. Right now, I've got my mouth set on mid-summer. ~Lady~
Something a little similar happened to me this morning. I was on my deck with my first cup of coffee. I hadn't moved in a minute or two, and a bird flew across the yard and landed on the deck rail within arms reach. For about 10 seconds, t…
Homemade banana nut muffins got the house smelling good this morning. Lazy day with my Tramp. ~lady~
Morning Scamp....you literally took the words right out of my mouth....and I've been told I have a Purdy mouth ;^0 ~lady~
Which leads to LS lesson #31 Tramp: A bit dog will yelp Over Over And over Again ~lady~
Hiya, Crazy4Us2. I can see where the post that you quoted could create questions. It is just my whimsical way of saying that people should always remember that they don't have ownership of the people they're with. Too often we run across t…
That goes without saying, of course. Lol Tramp
Lesson No. 30: Good or bad, you treat people the way you do because of who you are, not because of who they are. That applies to everyone, everywhere, every time. If you're a single who met a couple and you felt treated as though you had n…
Good to hear from you again, GNG. Tramp
Marilynn Monroe (cause I'd really liked to've known her, but I was just a kid) Hot bath vs Hot tub Tramp
"...I'm going to pull a Tramp..." I was just telling Lady today, "I'm really starting to like this gal!" Tramp
MsMolly, I've got to agree with you on this one. In fact, you'll never ever hear me so much as refer to myself as *sharing* Lady with others. Since I (nor anyone else whom I'm aware of) don't own Lady, I can't share her...nor she me. It's…
I believe a male BFF, rather than a FWB seems to fit the bill a little closer. I'd still think that this would be an interesting offer to a LS SM who would be able to attend events closed to SMs, even though he'd be on his own (so to speak…
I believe the thing that's had me stumped on this one came from something you said early on LadyB. For the life of me, it just seemed strange that an attractive, serious SF would ever have difficulty finding a SM to attend clubs or parties…
Thanks MsMolly and ShePlays. That's more than kind of you guys to say. I'm sure that Paws and we can find time soon to have a few laughs and share some stories. We're practically neighbors, and the school year is about to be over for me in…
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OK, fair enough. Let me ponder on this a bit. BTW, irreverent? Ouch. Lol I never really thought of it that way, but can I take that as a complement for now? Tramp
Tums. Tramp
WFB? One piece of grilled fish, a small piece of steak, one small stuffed potato skin, some great fettuccini0. IKR, but Lady and I go out often to grab a bite. we always just share a single plate but can't even finish that. So, home with l…
I believe your are closer than you think, Mayhem...much closer. Why do you think that's true? In your opinion, what is behind the truth of your last sentence, "... the approach a girl would take about hanging out with one of her girl frien…
MsLadyB, that's very kind of you to ask, and I'm almost there. Please don't misunderstand me to believe that I somehow hold answers that others don't. The truth is that I am likely the most unlikely source for reliable information around t…
"...what I really wanted to convey is the need to treasure each moment you have together, whether sexual or not, because we never truly know which ones will be the last.... " See there, you've just said in a phrase what I would normally ha…
OK, so I checked out the Rock Horror thing. Shame on you MsMolly. I know I had that coming, but shame on you all the same. ;^/ "SM whisperer" (see, I fixed that for you.) Either way, that was pretty good. I'm still holding off on my answer…
MsMolly, you're gonna make me Google that show the figure out what you're saying aren't you? ;^( Tramp
Both, and anything inbetween. Smart vs Purdy Tramp
