Sexual supplements

DB - Blueberry vodka, on the rocks. I'll warn you now that she has a high tolerance. If drinking vodka, she'll drink most guys under the table ;-)

DB,

The bottle better have the factory seal.... in original condition.

MAYHEM

I'll be at your house tonight with a bottle. What does she drink?

It sounds like a woman is his partner. Judging from his profile w/ a woman and saying partner as opposed to life partner or male/guy partner.

I can't read everything posted here, but maybe he's not expressing it in a PC way. Many have stated before "the/my wife needs a few drinks to loosen up".

Give him the benefit of the doubt that he didn't mean he wanted to roofie/Mickey someone.

"If you wouldn't do it stone cold sober, then you shouldn't be doing it."

agreed. don't make her do something that she might regret

I didn't read bad intent into "break down inhibitions" in this case. Maybe I should have, now that it's been brought up. It was a "date rapey" way to say it, versus "help lower inhibitions".

The OP still also hasn't said if this was for the guy or girl yet. Based on the feedback so far, I'd be surprised if the OP comments further.

Glad other people feel the way I did when first reading this...

Just sounded skeevy...

"Are there any supplements that may help to break down inhibition..."

I read this last night and my first thought was the same as Flip's, but when I thought more about it, I'm actually against breaking down inhibitions the first time you do something well out of your comfort zone, particularly for women. If you wouldn't do it stone cold sober, then you shouldn't be doing it.

If you're already comfortable, then, sure, disinhibit some in order to be looser about it, if that's your thing, but women's sexuality (maybe men's too) is too fucking complicated to override natural reticence and expect a good outcome after the whatever wears off.

Alcohol. But in moderation. Especially for the guy.

We went to a house party a few years back where most of the folks were Russians (as were our friends who invited us): a mix of local ex pats and people visiting from Europe. Pretty much everyone but us and the friends who invited us were openly partaking in (and offering) either "club drugs", huffing nitrous, or both. Really out of our normal experience where only a very few people might do the "party and play" thing, do it discretely, and generally stand out because of how it affects their behavior. I chatted with one couple who talked about how that was the only way she could get comfortable to play. She claimed, at the time that she enjoyed playing and it was sort of a party aid for her. She was very sexy, quite slutty, very fun to play with and seemed to be having a great time. Chatting with her later though, I was left with the distinct impression that if I saw her the next day in the grocery store she wouldn't have a clue as to who I was. Later I looked into the drug people were sharing (don't recall what it was) and it was generally considered a "date rape" candidate. Definitely not for us.

I would point this out as well: Part of the fun is the heart pounding excitement. The newness and nervousness can be a very good thing. My advice would be to use the minimum substance additives necessary, and concentrate on sharpening your "game" (humor, small talk, flattery, subtle touch, make out skills etc.) in order to break down the barriers. Sounds like you both know you're willing. Game is sadly and dismally absent among the general population of men in the lifestyle in our experience. Get that down and you'll have huge success.

Good luck!

OP: You didn't say if the partner was the male or female half. If the latter, alcohol will definitely help with the inhibitions and I know the Mrs gets more in the mood for play time after a drink or 2.

A few nights ago she had a couple drinks in her, which is rare mid-week. Lights were off and we were in bed for the night and she woke me up to jump my bones. Probably 90%+ of the time I'm the jumper rather than the jumpee, so I'm going to say it was the drinks.

Allegedly...

Weed works for me Everytime

Easy its called ones own mindset... if you have to give 'your partner" an enhancement , drinks, 420, or whatever you are not in the right mindset and need to rethink why they are in the swinging lifestyle.. flirting, the get away, and sex with someone new.. is the enhancement

Enjoy and have fun thats what it is about... we have well over 25 year now.

Weed, X or Molly?

Adult stores carry it...if viagra don;t work these pills may not either, my issuie.

You mean a hard long lasting cock???? try 24K at your own risk, same as viagra, a black guy told me you will have a tree stump for a couple days...he was younger.. i have one pill, afraid to use it, maybe just half at a time...google it,

Taking my partner to a resort for the weekend. We would like to get the most out of the experience. Are there any supplements that may help to break down inhibitions, and add to sexual arousal?