Reporting Fraudulent Account

R&K and Phoebert offer great advice.

I like the idea of notes and use them often on profiles. They are a good quick reminder of what I like / dislike in a couple or single female. This site is and will always be a challenge and it takes time and effort to weed through the wannabees.

The bottom line is if someone reaches out to you and they do not respect your profile, that is an easy ignore or block.

As someone who was married in the lifestyle and then as a single male, time will be your best learning curve. You will begin to see the telltale signs and avoid them, ignore them or block those that are super annoying.

Wish you luck in your journey, Don't let the few ruin your search on this site, there are some really great couples and singles here.

Welcome OP.. So we have been active select swingers well over 25 years now.. way before SLS. Since our time on SLS we have run into many who only chat, ask for photos , and collect CERTS for breathing and having dinner but never playing, some here have multiple profile names!

So for "us" if we find your profile and photos interesting, we ALL talk via cell phone, set up a place and time to meet pretty quickly within a week or so.. and any excuses we move on quickly! We are not here for games, and those who are married cheating, etc. Plenty of guys on here do so claiming to be a single guy..and just last year ran into at least 5 guys who after meeting we found out the truth... its not that hard and was one of our full time business... ref backgrounds/ investigations etc !

Our select couples and single are great.. and we thank them! The others block or make notes and move on not worth your time or effort to figure out why so many play games... especially since CL closed down the sex end !

Good luck, enjoy and make the journey yours!

We have had similar experiences with fake couples on this site..I have commented on this before...When meeting couples from an online site including this one we insist the females chat on the phone and make all arrangements....this happened one time in all our years....I do not believe most of the members here are in the lifestyle (as a couple) our guess most wives do not know

What Phoebert's wife said. Plus, the business model for swinger sites profits from people who pay for accounts and either never actually meet anyone or only meet with the very gullible just as much as it does for those here to meet people.

If that bothers you, you're probably going to be pretty unhappy at least some of the time.

You'd probably have better luck winning at Whack-A-Mole

Sorting out those that are really couples that want to play from those that fantasize about it or are just guys hoping for pictures and sexy talk is more than half the fun of connecting with swingers online. It's just a fact of life.

If you encounter a profile that you think is fraudulent you can report them to management (there's an icon right on every profile for that) but really you're better off making notes on the profile for your future reference and perhaps blocking them. And then move on.

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

There is a report button on every profile

Wow, thanks for the insight. Great way to help welcome someone new to the community. Real glad you took the time to post it.

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Hi everyone! My first forum post so I hope this in acceptable place for this thread.

We've encountered an issue with guys pretending to be couples a few times. I was wondering if there is a mechanism for reporting these accounts and getting rid of them scumbags.

It's become quite obvious now when we run into one. The female is never available or interested in talking. Ever. There's always an excuse. Often they have zero or only one pic of the two together.

Finding couples is already challenging enough for us without these assholes wasting our time. I'd really like to do something about it.

Thank you all. The rest of you are generally wonderful people, as we're finding out.