All things FMF

Maybe I'm the oddball but I have already considered all of the possible combinations and the reasons for them and would gladly agree to any of them.
Two women might want a man for both of them, not him. Two women might want a man for the man, not them. Two women might want a third and not care if they are a man or woman and expect all three to get equal attention. 2 women might want a man to dominate and he will get whatever they choose to give him.
Hopefully, someday, I can be just like you. I just started attending a poly munch so maybe I will get lucky.

I kind of never expected to be in this situation (not that I'm complaining) because the Mrs is not really into girl/girl play. She likes breasts, and maybe a little more in the heat of the moment, but much prefers to play with guys.

Way before I met my wife I was involved in an ongoing FMF situation. Our arrangement was that whenever we had a date night somebody would be “it” and would get all the attention of the other two. Officially, we were supposed to rotate equally between us, but somehow my turn often got skipped. I never complained.

Mayhem: You lucky bastard (with affection).

We too REALLY LOVE MFMs. It's not the only way we play but it's a serious contender for fave.

We recently met a great sexy woman for a momentary FMF...probably a one-time-thing as other parts of our lives do not really fit together. But it was so nice to see, feel, kiss, and pleasure two women and vice versa again. FMF is one of life's great pleasures. Congrats to you all.

It's probably safe to say that most men fantasize about and/or desire this. I'm likely one of the oddballs here because, given a choice, I would normally choose an MFM over an FMF, however something that should have been obvious to me wasn't, until recently.

I was not really a big fan of FMF because I don't really like being the the center of attention like that. I enjoy giving as much or more than receiving. The obvious thing that just never dawned on me is that an FMF could be that the 2 women could be the center of MY attention. We are in a kind of poly relationship at the moment and I'm finding I really like this sort of thing, as does the Mrs and our friend.

Perhaps this should have gone under the Polyamorous or Men's topic but wondering if others have ever had this sort of "Duh!" moment regarding FMFs. You'd think that after 12+ years in the LS this would have been more obvious to me, though it's recent opportunity that let me experience this sort of play on a much more regular basis to make this discovery.