[quote=Dear_diary]Just my opinion. If I don’t get something back the next morning or the next day saying thank you for the invitation I had a great time. I don’t even consider inviting them back or bringing them into my circle. Just because I’m a slut and like being used doesn’t mean you can disrespect me.. call me old-fashioned
Holly[/quote]Yes, courtesy and respect goes a very long way!
Was the intent for a MMF or MFM? It sounds like MFM since he seduced her but if he was looking for a MMF he may have been disappointed that there was no guy on guy play time. The letter in the middle is the person of focus in the encounter.
IMO, like everyone has said, a thank you we had a nice time or some kind of closing off the encounter yet comment is common sense. If someone doesn’t send something I would move on.
[quote=MandC508][quote=Dear_diary]Just my opinion. If I don’t get something back the next morning or the next day saying thank you for the invitation I had a great time. I don’t even consider inviting them back or bringing them into my circle. Just because I’m a slut and like being used doesn’t mean you can disrespect me.. call me old-fashioned
Holly[/quote]It's just common courtesy, isn't it?
Some people have it. And some don't.
We don't consider a date (or an encounter as long as we have their contact information) complete until we send a thank you. Especially if we were invited.
We can't even show up for a house party without bringing something. It just doesn't feel right.[/quote]
This. ^^^
I always thought it was common sense / courtesy. I think that mindset is more old school than anything these days. That touch of class currently seems to be more rare as time goes on.
The couples I knew I was involved with for several years And being the single guy my domestic situation was much different than theirs. They had kids and/or other relatives around and just doing their thing. So unless they said different it was much easier and more discreet to have them call me as they did and could most any time
[quote=Dear_diary]Just my opinion. If I don’t get something back the next morning or the next day saying thank you for the invitation I had a great time. I don’t even consider inviting them back or bringing them into my circle. Just because I’m a slut and like being used doesn’t mean you can disrespect me.. call me old-fashioned
Holly[/quote]It's just common courtesy, isn't it?
Some people have it. And some don't.
We don't consider a date (or an encounter as long as we have their contact information) complete until we send a thank you. Especially if we were invited.
We can't even show up for a house party without bringing something. It just doesn't feel right.
The LS can make people feel more vulnerable emotionally, or that's we we found at least. After a while you can more easily roll with the punches, but it never hurts to hear back that someone had a good time with you.
That is particularly the case with "feeling used". This can be a very good thing in the heat of the moment, but people can feel used in a good way or a bad way. The bad way can make someone feel disrespected and/or unappreciated, and that's never a good thing. This is especially true if you're the type that is primarily looking for FWBs, like us.
Just my opinion. If I don’t get something back the next morning or the next day saying thank you for the invitation I had a great time. I don’t even consider inviting them back or bringing them into my circle. Just because I’m a slut and like being used doesn’t mean you can disrespect me.. call me old-fashioned
Holly
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=owcangrace][quote=windowShopping7][quote=hotAlexforFun][quote=Harleycouple12]If I don't hear back I usually reach out to see if they had fun, and I hope I didn't dissapoint[/quote]Funny, you haven’t replied back to my simple message. Seems sketchy[/quote]They don’t owe you a response. Btw your name is stupid.[/quote]let'ss ee the first line of their profile gives their interests..........We are looking for attractive and sexy couples and single bi-female(s) to meet and see where things go.
Hey Alex! That makes you a douche in this world as only profiles that express single male interest should be approached. Don't be a douche...[/quote]Well said owcangrace. There’s always a type that think everyone is here specifically for their use.
So there’s a forum policy for good behavior that hasn’t been met and also the guy is obviously on the job, likely in violation of work rules.
Ronald McDonald. definitely doesn’t want the Hamburglar using Sls during drive thru hours.[/quote]Good point. But is Mayor McCheese bi?
[quote=owcangrace][quote=windowShopping7][quote=hotAlexforFun][quote=Harleycouple12]If I don't hear back I usually reach out to see if they had fun, and I hope I didn't dissapoint[/quote]Funny, you haven’t replied back to my simple message. Seems sketchy[/quote]They don’t owe you a response. Btw your name is stupid.[/quote]let'ss ee the first line of their profile gives their interests..........We are looking for attractive and sexy couples and single bi-female(s) to meet and see where things go.
Hey Alex! That makes you a douche in this world as only profiles that express single male interest should be approached. Don't be a douche...[/quote]Well said owcangrace. There’s always a type that think everyone is here specifically for their use.
So there’s a forum policy for good behavior that hasn’t been met and also the guy is obviously on the job, likely in violation of work rules.
Ronald McDonald. definitely doesn’t want the Hamburglar using Sls during drive thru hours.
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=hotAlexforFun][quote=Harleycouple12]If I don't hear back I usually reach out to see if they had fun, and I hope I didn't dissapoint[/quote]Funny, you haven’t replied back to my simple message. Seems sketchy[/quote]They don’t owe you a response. Btw your name is stupid.[/quote]let'ss ee the first line of their profile gives their interests..........We are looking for attractive and sexy couples and single bi-female(s) to meet and see where things go.
Hey Alex! That makes you a douche in this world as only profiles that express single male interest should be approached. Don't be a douche...
[quote=hotAlexforFun][quote=Harleycouple12]If I don't hear back I usually reach out to see if they had fun, and I hope I didn't dissapoint[/quote]Funny, you haven’t replied back to my simple message. Seems sketchy[/quote]They don’t owe you a response. Btw your name is stupid.
[quote=sorillo1000]Usually doesn't equal always.[/quote]..,and “simple” without context can mean many different things when we’re talking messages.
I’ll also add that calling someone out in the forums, like Alex has, is pretty poor form.
Just BT’s 2 cents, and arguably, worth every penny.
BT
Usually doesn't equal always.
[quote=Harleycouple12]If I don't hear back I usually reach out to see if they had fun, and I hope I didn't dissapoint[/quote]Funny, you haven’t replied back to my simple message. Seems sketchy
[quote=Harleycouple12]If I don't hear back I usually reach out to see if they had fun, and I hope I didn't dissapoint[/quote]I don't see how you could disappoint
If I don't hear back I usually reach out to see if they had fun, and I hope I didn't dissapoint
[quote=Onehorneywife]We usually hear back from the good ones. Those that can't get or stay hard seem to drop off and never hear from them again[/quote]which is a good thing....
The last post sounds like a good candidate for cross posting to the Fitness - Suppliements forum.
[quote=TomandDiane]Been taking Berberine as a supplement to lower A1c level for several years. It works for me & was recommended by primary Dr. Don't know if it enhances performance issues since I fortunately don't have any.[/quote]I took Berberine for about a year - couldn’t tolerate metformin - it worked great. However, I did notice one side effect that concerned me (might be just me it happened to?) I noticed scratches and cuts took really really long to heal - they scabbed up quick but didn’t regrow skin quickly. Stopped Berberine and everything healed up in 3 days, restarted and same thing (we have cats so scratched are common). If you had surgery at all stay away from Berberine idk maybe a year? That is a side effect I have not seen talked about.
[quote=windowShopping7]I looked up berberine and it’s not a source of niacin however it regulates glucose, so given that high blood sugar erodes the vessels as demonstrated in high erectile dysfunction in diabetic men, I suppose that must be how it’s advantageous.
I get a micronutrient lab done once a year. It shows what an individual needs more of.
Mine was pretty much deficient in everything lol. That’s the result of a therapy that so taxes the liver that getting nutrients processed properly is a challenge.
To be proactive about my shitty scores I do IV drips.
FWIW the micronutrient testing does help take away the guessing and pinpoint where a person could focus their attention.
Just a thought.[/quote]Micronutrient testing is a very good way to know what you need. We also get it done annually.
@T&D congrats
Our bodies simply break down eventually. It makes sense to use any therapy available to remedy that, instead of turning it into a personal ego issue and then expecting that it should be excused when it ruins the enjoyment of the couple who introduced the topic.
It’s a GIFT and a privilege to be invited into someone’s sex life. That should be appreciated instead of making it a negative experience for everyone else involved.
Otherwise just stay with your hand vs making false promises of acceptable performance.
Or go bottom feeding with weirdos.
Been taking Berberine as a supplement to lower A1c level for several years. It works for me & was recommended by primary Dr. Don't know if it enhances performance issues since I fortunately don't have any.
I looked up berberine and it’s not a source of niacin however it regulates glucose, so given that high blood sugar erodes the vessels as demonstrated in high erectile dysfunction in diabetic men, I suppose that must be how it’s advantageous.
I get a micronutrient lab done once a year. It shows what an individual needs more of.
Mine was pretty much deficient in everything lol. That’s the result of a therapy that so taxes the liver that getting nutrients processed properly is a challenge.
To be proactive about my shitty scores I do IV drips.
FWIW the micronutrient testing does help take away the guessing and pinpoint where a person could focus their attention.
Just a thought.
[quote=windowShopping7]I thought that berberine was useful for ED
Perhaps it’s high in niacin.[/quote]I've been taking a berberine supplement on & off for about a year. I can't honestly say whether it's had any effect on me at all. I haven't noticed anything different.
