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Largest cock

in 3-Some ·

rabbit_n_scamp OMG thats funny but also true she says ... Hope NOLA is treating you two well...East coast is sorta back so something normal...hotel parties are still about 1/2 canceled But swinging fun is still happening for most folks in…

Largest cock

in 3-Some ·

12 inches...and he was the size of a monster energy can around... one thing she has noticed with really big guys they can't seem to get rock hard... Its made her appreciate the midsize cocks more her favorite is 7-8 thick...and rock hard B…

App only shows singles

in Website ·

they don't care... they don't understand why you care... they say its a known issue... they say use the app anyhow... they don't understand it literally is unusable....they should drop the app...lock it...wait till the coding matches the m…

Blocking certain ages from messaging you

in Website ·

sls-WayneC good to know your standard is to be just like everyone else...why be better than other sites... and yes other sites offer filtering for premium members that they don't offer to base level members...

week old support ticket still no movement

in Website ·

sls-WayneC So what your saying is the staff was too lazy to respond to a support ticket...gee thanx Second your admitting you know nothing about app development when you say things like “ The developers are doing a great job.” If they were…

week old support ticket still no movement

in Website ·

Put in a support ticket for the app Only singlesales show in the who viewed you section....a week ago...nothing. This is customer service ...really? They want us to use the app and trust new features but they won't fix basic issues.

only singles showing on app

in Website ·

@Curious We tried blocking to see if it would fix the problem actually and it didn't...though it did stop the male from singles that were not reading the profile...so we kept it that way

app only alows all pics to open

in Website ·

Thank you Wayne for the reply wanted to make sure I didn't miss something or was doing it wrong. Please change this in the next update it's a problem A big problem.

app only alows all pics to open

in Website ·

app has share pics option but does not allow us to limit which folders... did we miss something or is it an issue in the app for everyone?

only singles showing on app

in Website ·

app only shows single males in who viewed me... even though we have them blocked... support ticket opened but never replied to checked settings has to be code issue

Really??

in Connecticut ·

the app dosent have the forums access and a lot of folks use the app rather than a laptop or computer for this site...so forums is a dying local

Copies of photos off of website

in Website ·

no....but you can watermark your photos...we do it to ours and though its not perfect it keeps folks from pretending to be you which is bigger issue. We also try to resize them so stealing them is just not as attractive a proposition

The Wall

in Website ·

sls_WayneC: If as you say you are doing your jobs to the best of your abilities and the site is such a mess would that not be an indication that you need new staffing? Seriously this has been getting worse rather than better? Its almost no…

Can app users view opened galleries?

in Website ·

what a shitty idea ...open all of them? when will that fk up get fixed on the app I wonder...? Oh wait dosent matter the site won't load anyways ...unreal

slow loading

in Website ·

so much better today ...was getting old not being able to even load the inbox

Best ED Option?

in Men Talk ·

@mayhem8 yeah same here...I have a wife thats loves cats and so "we" have 4 of them...and I have allergy meds in me most days to function...been a pain. I find if I don't have the allergy meds like when we travel I have almost no issues bu…

Just Wondering

in Open Forum ·

the forums will be dead soon anyhow...as the app becomes the de-facto standard for interaction with SLS keep in mind there is no forum tab on the app...

Strangest or most unusual place you've had sex

in 3-Some ·

Several that stand out: 1) Cemetery...it was a nice summer night in Middletown CT and the Cemetery behind Wesleyan U happens to be on a nice hill with a view of the sunset...we watched it over a picnic and then one thing led to another I f…

Multiple Guys Fantasy

in Fantasies ·

@4_real_couple you let us know when and I'll hold the camera you can concentrate on the entry...Katt can keep her busy while you work...

Opening a Club . is it hard ??

in Business ·

We have been friends with three couples over the years of play that ran there own "clubs". Two did private parties and one did a warehouse The warehouse was amazing they had a hanger with an elevated bar and a dance floor and a couple stri…

Hotel Room Service fantasy

in Fantasies ·

We were at Secrets about 4 years ago and decided to tease the room service crew. I had her tied to the corner bed post standing with arms above her head. Fishnet dress. She was blindfolded. I called room service 4 times over the course of…

Where are the older swingers

in Senior Swingers ·

@ flcoronacpl depends who you ask... when we were in our 30's then 50 felt old in our 40's 60 felt old....for us it really depends on the couple We have played with couples 15 years older and had a great time but they both took care of the…

Updated profile policy

in Website ·

@sls_WayneC ok that morse code thing is kinda funny... yes basic AI can do a lot of it though. and even humans will miss stuff. I mean really how many know morse code. you would simply write an coding rule to reject more than 5 non-standar…

Updated profile policy

in Website ·

@sls_WayneC We understand FOSTA but certainly this is easily solved with coding why would anyone be culling profiles manually in 2020? Flag violations for human review and then teach the algorithm why it failed it gets smarter as you go an…

Make Me Pick!

in Games ·

NW- side by side -boys on top girls reaching about and feeling each other oneforthebucketlist- very sweet and I would always like hubby to get the mouth so I can look at him with glee enjoy your weekend folks Almost forgot : bound or blind…

Make Me Pick!

in Games ·

that would be funny if we have the same person blocked.... Def giving... split roast or DP (I hate the term split roast and tried to convince hubby that end to end was a better name but I lost the argument when the next 5 people we asked s…

Make Me Pick!

in Games ·

@oneforthebucketlist did you really ignore Natural's ...really...Your on time out... Natural- MFM because when I am horny I love attention ...and he loves to watch! Back to the list: Cum in or Cum on

Updated profile policy

in Website ·

@RusticMagic sorry the credit card is the standard and candidly not really an issue. I trust my #'s and monetization on the site site is about new members, affiliate drivers (monetizing traffic patterns) and cruise sales. The lifetime memb…

Your first threesome

in 3-Some ·

Mine was girl I was dating that I shared with a friend. I called him up on a Friday and we stopped over late. We drank a little I stripped her while I was dancing with her in front of him. She encouraged him to join in and we were off to t…

Certs and how important??

in 3-Some ·

for single guys it mater a lot for us...couples not as much we just voice verify with both before we schedule a meet. Single guys are a much bigger dice role without one... Remember though it doesen't mean you played...so don't assume that

Updated profile policy

in Website ·

@RusticMagic the lifetime members get roped into doing a lot of stuff on here for free so there are not as many paid hours at you might think also for perspective You should be able to process 1 profile per minute for proofs...so your talk…

Updated profile policy

in Website ·

@mayhem8 I would say don't ever let your friend plan anything then...Boston Tickets are $11 for standing room and a box for $68 if you want the best seats in the house they are $168 and we have never paid more than $40 for parking but norm…

Updated profile policy

in Website ·

@ebony10inch I understand your frustration but I might point out a couple things... One you chosen pic does not make me want to click on you profile..change it up..you have some awesome pics of you in your gallery...no need to show some gi…

Updated profile policy

in Website ·

Not sure what the point of all this is it makes no sense to us. Are the date combing the hot dates now? are they going to farm that into a dating add on for the free members or paid members ? maybe adds on the dates? are they going to tie…

does anyone like black guys on this site

in Finding Playmates ·

Black gentleman yes blacks guys no. We closed our profile to singles and only open when we have an opening. No use in having a full inbox when we don't have time or room for a single guy at the moment. Also a lot of singles on this site bo…

Make Me Pick!

in Games ·

massage watching your partner or being watched by your partner

Thongs

in Lingerie ·

well we are sorry you have had such a negative relationship with a kotex. As the female half I can tell you they are just a necessary evil but as a sexy wife I will say you need to date woman that are more aware. I have always tucked my st…

Bikinis

in Lingerie ·

micro kitten and malibu strings are her go 2s both have held up well over time

cock rings

in Men Talk ·

@95252guy that makes no sense as they literally make them in every size as well as making adjustable chokers

Profile review please?

in Better Profiles ·

you have some good advice being thrown at you here, to add a couple other things though: You have focused on her face and not her body...BBW fans will like her body just the way it is so don't be afraid to show it...a g pic with no face if…

Where are the older swingers

in Senior Swingers ·

RonKathy totally agree so many no's so unoriginal ...no effort couples... Profpres Yes we have played with older couples...Our range is for many reasons but you miss the part that we don't play with older singles...and singles males barely…

Where are the older swingers

in Senior Swingers ·

@Prof I get you point I just disagree...if anything the older folks are less Bi tolerant or accepting The older crowd gets discouraged that they have less play partners and then blames age rather than other factors. Though age is certainly…

Where are the older swingers

in Senior Swingers ·

@ProPres the OP was concerned about age...not about every swinger reason out there. You situation would be what it is no matter your age...new place, bi male, single....thats a tough road...but it was AGE that was the OP's issue so not sur…

Where are the older swingers

in Senior Swingers ·

its funny we are sort of the upper middle ground age wise and I have to say I think it has more to do with attraction than age. We get younger couples that can't believe our ages, and we meet older couples that we go wow they are hot. So i…

cock rings

in Men Talk ·

Occasionally use them but really the right fit (size) and the right context. over rated we think

Which undies?

in Men Talk ·

MaryJo we need to see if we can get the SLS diddles to change you handle then from Tallmark....

Best ED Option?

in Men Talk ·

I found I need it for get togethers now....the up/down up/down makes the next up more work. I like Cialis and I like Viagra but they have different effects. Cialis gets you hard but not rock hard. Viagra gets you hard but makes cuming a bi…

Do you cum many or just one time at a swing party?

in Men Talk ·

Depends on the outing. But once for the party girl and once for the wife would be the norm. Nearing 50 I find two things. It takes a lot longer to cum and each consecutive jack is exponential to the last in time. So if it took 20 mins for…

Resort Advice

in Resorts ·

If your just going to play and don't care about food quality then Hedo...if food, room quality, facilities condition matters....then Desire.

Couples rules

in Swinger Advice ·

Your rules as a couple should be to allow you to comfortably explore and not feel afraid, threatened, or exposed either as an individual or as a couple. Your rules will change as your comfort level changes. Take the time to discuss and wor…

Being Blocked for No Reason

in Men Talk ·

We block for many reasons but they all fall into the same reasoning. We have no interest. We don't want to explain or feel we have to. Think of it this way. They person blocking you is saving you the time you would have spent maybe saying…

Fem has a question for you guys about big lips

in Men Talk ·

Big lips make a huge difference during sex for the guy ...I can't speak from the ladies side. Having been fortunate enough to sample 1 or 2 (I'll never tell) but being a man who in his younger years kept a journal of these things...the lit…

New to the site

in Better Profiles ·

A&R... thats the best fkn reply ever.... "And THAT'S when you take a selfie in the car, while it's raining dicks in the Target parking lot when you're on the way to your mom's house. LOL I can't stop laughing. I thought I was crazy.LOL " I…

Catering to the App or the Laptop? with profile?

in Better Profiles ·

@GGMM Thanks love but its become rather obvious that you don't get it. We have a deep enough vocabulary to know what haphazard is dear. PS: have decided your just pernickety which is now the word of the day. We like messy and fun...fk we l…

Catering to the App or the Laptop? with profile?

in Better Profiles ·

@GGMM a profile is a formal document? Haphazard sex is bad? Yikes do you have a manual for sex too, should we hold a position for a certain amount of time before moving to the next? Must we wait three 30 mins after eating or risk cramping?…

Updating my profile

in Better Profiles ·

So here's another take. The content of your profile sounds good, but like most of us could use a little polish. For one the all things to all people thing needs to go away. Be more specific what do you like to do outside the bedroom. Motor…

New to the site

in Better Profiles ·

V&S We're starting to wonder if its just you in this case that attract such a low quality of male players? You see we actually do get a very high ratio of guys that reach out that are "high value males" I think you call them, 2/3 are great…

Catering to the App or the Laptop? with profile?

in Better Profiles ·

V&S ....Your definition of perfect is different then ours when it comes to profiles. We don't want someone to fluff their profile to look good. Its like getting dolled up for a date. A little make up is great...a lot of makeup is not. I th…

Catering to the App or the Laptop? with profile?

in Better Profiles ·

V&S 20% are teachers?...uh ok sure...teachers make up just 2% of the population if you include everything from Pre-k Paras thru College professors. I think your stats are maybe just a bit off. Its kool that you have a grammar fetish but se…

thinking of updating our profile.

in Better Profiles ·

Profile looks pretty good after your changes....though I would have left in something more of the Fet play if thats your thing. Fet couples seek other fet couples so it allows you a group that otherwise might pass you by as too vanilla, an…

New to the site

in Better Profiles ·

N & N nailed it... Ignore V & S thats some crazy talk right there...and serious V&S apparently you missed the part where Steve grew up to be a hot guy in the show but beside that for you to say something so mean really..what the Heck...tha…

Catering to the App or the Laptop? with profile?

in Better Profiles ·

I appreciate the input from each of you and some of it is very helpful. We are more focused on the question of actual structure for the app....well placed returns ect...versus writing for the web with bold print ect. The only part I will d…

Catering to the App or the Laptop? with profile?

in Better Profiles ·

So we had previously used the coding technique to BOLD some of our words to stand out when we wrote our profile. Unfortunately with recent updates we noticed the App does not support this anymore thought the website does. We are thinking w…

Gallery manager does not match whats showing

in Website ·

So tech supports answer is any photo uploaded to the public section will be public and show whether its in a gallery or not, assigned or not. Your only option is to delete. Period. Other questions are useless as it took them 3 days to come…

Gallery manager does not match whats showing

in Website ·

cacpl_26- thank you for the thought we actually have 10 galleries and about 80 photos so its not a lack of understanding on how to create or assign photos to a galleries. Its a glitch in the system that your profile view of your galleries…

Gallery manager does not match whats showing

in Website ·

Than5 for the reply that7girl from our side we were seeing photos that were not even approved or assigned in the "profile view" Were glad that the private is at least hidden from our side we could not tell

Gallery manager does not match whats showing

in Website ·

To address a message I got Privately on the question of the Private gallery showing like its Public. I did not give myself permission under gallery manager to "see" the gallery in question. So its something else entirely.

Gallery manager does not match whats showing

in Website ·

So I already have an open ticket for this and we are moving into day 3 now. To be clear I have written back and forth with support but the tech does not seem to understand. I'm curious if I am the only one to run into this. I had gotten so…

Where are the Bliss Cruise tags?

in Website ·

Ditto: so happy that walls on tab would love to turn it off but this is a great temp solution so I don't have to look at all the idiotic posts "Yo I need me a bunny" ugh its a counter argument to Darwin for sure. Thanks for updating.

What do you perfer?

in Men Talk ·

R & S Your slowly becoming my hubbies hero. Oh you naughty boys. Put us down for an overnight we have over 30acres so plenty of room for your Boom Boom Mobile. And "A" makes a french toast to die for. -Katt

How would you classify my wife?

in Open Forum ·

@RonKathy ((("Latinlover.. your comment " Like every single man here will see your profile and jerk off to those pictures"...LL that is a NO.. our guys and the male half of couples we hang out with , sorry , all have some class We too woul…