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The search feature here has LONG been requested to be updated but, of course has not changed in a very long time. Couples are into many different things and the inability to search by demographic information like keywords, ethnicity, kinks…
I don't even bother with the app. It's useless. If you can't see all pictures because of Apple or Google policies and still need to go to the website, why even bother?
SLS initiated their "improvements" based on actual feedback from members instead of staff convenience? Like removing travel plans from the profile because it caused too many profile reviews by the staff? Wayne's words, not mine.
This thread has been around awhile but is still a thorn. As wayne stated: "The policy regarding Hot Dates is simply to use the Hot Dates feature for anything time, date, or location specific. That is not the point of your profile. It is al…
It's not only iPhones. My Android app hasn't updated either.
Workaround. Was able to upload via the app. just not via web.
How long until this is fixed? On a separate note, I'd be interested to know why "performing a complete restore of known good data" broke most of the functionality of the site?
So my post about our profiles showing up in google searches and forums accessible to guests got deleted for: Violating policies regarding: illegal activities such as prostitution, drugs, public sex etc. So what are you trying to hide SLS?
As some of my inside info has it, there has been a massive security breech with the Microsoft servers. It is a HUGE national security issue. It appears the SLS server has been compromised as well. If this is the case, as in the case with t…
Oh.... And to add to my post below, they have the nerve to say "privacy is very important to us." You mean your privacy? Because by allowing our profiles to show up in a Google search, you certainly don't mean OUR privacy.
Like I posted in a separate topic So tell me why, when I do a Google search of my profile name and Swing lifestyle does my profile with picture show up under a title of "Royal Oak Michigan swingers site" with your logo??? That's how you pr…
Wow. 5 posts about the crash and they already locked the tpoic huh? What really defines "up" if none of my data is available and we can't use the major functions? Still effectively down.
Unprofessional. When's the last time you saw a major website run a banner for weeks like this? They don't. They chose a venue where they are sure to get the info momentarily to each user. Broadcast a message. The banner takes up half th sc…
Those views now gone. Strange.
How are single guys all of sudden viewing our profile when we have them blocked??
I think you really need a technology rearchitecture if this is at the bottom of the page: "Please note: Items on this calendar may take up to 5 minutes to appear." Ask yourself if you'd be okay with your personal calendar taking 5 min to d…
~rabbit~ I've worked in ITSM a long time and agree. Closing a ticket before you've confirmed with the customer the issue is resolved is a rookie move.
So please tell me why: 1. Why you add a feature of wall posts but don't implement the "hide" feature? Why bother to even show it? 2. Why you need a popup notification for a) confirmation you want to like the post and b) for confirming you…
Here's an idea that never happens here. Roll out a new feature but just to mess with the members, don't install all the functionality of the feature. Give them things like a "hide" button or an "X" that don't work. Then laugh at all the co…
@Hotwife_4_Fun I do, with a caveat. I let them know that IMO SLS is the leader on the events aggregation from clubs to house parties to dates to hotel takeovers. That's even with them screwing up that part of the site making them even more…
"If you have any questions regarding this new policy, please open a support ticket and we will be happy to help." The oxymoron of the day. I'm starting to seriously believe changes in the website are now chosen based on how unpopular they…
Just when you thought it couldn't get more ridiculous: "Hot Date(s)" type of information will no longer be allowed in the text portions of your profile and will be rejected by SLS staff during the review process. The type of content no lon…
How about a thumbs up or a thumbs down for forum posts to bubble popular ones to the top similar to many other sites?
Yes. I responded to it and received the reply: "Good day, Sorry for the alert email, we were testing the alert system and it did send it, as it was not supposed to be sent, we do apologize for any inconvenience. Please disregard that email…
Wayne: "Either you are gaining something from this site or you are not. If you are not, you might have to ask yourself if it is worth staying here or not. Not that I want to see anyone leave, but why stay here if it upsets you so much? Thi…
Happy New Year kinksters! All the best for 2020!
By the title of this thread, I thought it was directed at SM who list their profile as a couple's profile. As I've experienced, to get around the SM profile blocking.
A note to add.... This is the desktop version. If you click "Events" on the menu in the App, it functions as you might expect. Why the links do different things between the desktop and the App is another discussion.
So the events feature of the website, even after all the feedback (mostly negative) from members and refusal of the staff to listen, is still poorly designed and ambiguous. I'll walk through an example to illustrate. I know an event is hap…
Problem is, everyone has a different definition of hardcore. The easiest test is, IMO, would it be shown on HBO? If yes, approve for public, if not, disapprove. So according to Wayne, a guy positioned missionary on a girl is hardcore. If y…
I routinely get photos move to my personal album upon review. When you go to the upload page, the below are the only guidelines given for uploads. My uploaded photos abided by these posted guidelines. If you're moderating photos by some ad…
Have consistency in photo rules and moderation. As it stands, there is none.
Dom and wife is sub. Though I've been finding myself getting excited when with an aggressive girl that takes the dominant role.
And as I've said numerous times in the original topic on this, ALL of this could have been avoided with one simple feature tweak without deleting to original calendar and it's functionality: All you had to do was add a simple check box to…
Staff will get around to improving the site access speed once they are done implementing all the features none of their members wanted.
I turn off visibility to single males and I've not been contacted by them. Are they contacting you via another means whereby they view your profile?
Nice sarcasm Wayne. It's what I expect when changes are made, not based on user requests, but based on internal staff that think they know better than the users in what they wish to see. Why else would you be defending an overwhelming nega…
Also, how do you open your private pics for someone? There's a button on the desktop version, none on the profile you're viewing in the app. Also, when I click on "private pics" nothing happens but a message with no link to pics. And this…
Since this topic is specifically about holing, it is a favorite of ours. As far as with other couples, it's important to discuss boundaries up front. Especially boundaries that may not be obvious. Choking is pretty much an obvious boundary…
Well, the following do not work for us as initial ice breakers: "Are you free to host at 5pm?" "Want to play?" "Hi" "Sup." And yes. We've gotten all of the above.
So there will always be those that prefer a reply and those that don't. Our approach is, the other couple made a concerted effort to do that awkward thing: reach out risking rejection. The least we can do is respond. I think it helps them…
Wayne's response that the new Hot Date restrictions more closely reflect a user's wishes are.... Plainly absurd. One, they never surveyed the user base for this change and two, it could easily have been satisfied with and easier change by…
Maybe I'm missing it? Why are the only events I see in the app hot dates? No other events.
Looks like we need to be one step ahead of the stupid development changes. Change your age in the age block and put your real age in the comments section.
We've gone to the extreme of age preferences as being an absolute now? I've rarely come across anyone that had an age range say.... Sorry.... You're one year over.... No thanks. The staff making these changes.... Are you in the lifestyle?…
Lots of 'splaining' but I still see no answers to the question of, How did this feature change requirement originate? I really doubt it was user based but was internal based. In years I've not seen one feature change proposed to the member…
TrainerX "This was mine... Hi, Thanks for your email, actually all upgrades are tested and work fine, but the testing was on the back end and worked properly, however when put into production there is a difference when millions are trying…
If you don't think this change is hurting you, you better get on the social media sites. People are talking about it and not in a favorable way. Potential new members are balking joining based on negative comments on this. And your silence…
Did you survey users before you changed this? Did we need this changed? Based on the reviews I'm guessing you didn't. Before the change I clicked once on a date and saw all the events. Now it takes SIX separate clicks (I know because I've…
Way to screw up something that was working just fine. Now I have pretty much a worthless tool. Do you ever pilot this to real users that have to use it before you roll it out? My guess is no baed on every social media site that is talking…
Way to screw up something that was working just fine. Now I have pretty much a worthless tool. Do you ever pilot this to real users that have to use it before you roll it out? My guess is no baed on every social media site that is talking…
Have matches that show up actually match your preference settings. Novel idea I know. Runner up: if you have mail history with someone, be able to view it from their profile.
Hey..... Is this that new SLS Onion forum?
"They are currently unable to see you in search results or whosonline. They cannot IM you, view your profile or mail you." So that message is displayed when you block someone. Supposedly they are not supposed to be able to view my profile.…
Lol Scamp...
Nope. Not even based on age settings. Just had a random match with a couple 27/24.
Forgive me if this is answered somewhere else but why aren't the random matches, actually matches? I have my preferences set to no smokers and 30 to 60 for age range but always have "matches" that do not match my preference settings.
1. Amazing how a post requesting a simple feature enhancement has turned into a bashing affair. 2. It's not only a single male issue. Couples that block me can view my couples profile and I can't view theirs. They still show as lookin at m…
