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Profile Cleanup
When is the last time you went and checked all the profiles that have access to your pics? I just went through ours and was shocked at how many had access. All cleaned up now!
2replies197viewsAttending first party this weekend - Essentials?
Good day beautiful people. We are newbies and are attending our first party this weekend. Just looking to create a list of essentials for parties. I realize that hosts provide dif…
5replies303viewsDJ or live band
We like to go to lifestyle clubs and do a little dancing to get comfortable. We are looking for places for NYE and have found some places we have been previously but the club is h…
by active2sum573replies279viewsFace hair or no face hair?
I was curious if I’m the only woman that hates face hair? Hair or no hair?
by Dear_diary6replies291viewsHypocrisy
Going to church and being in the lifestyle. a little while back we had a couple over on a Saturday night and they wanted to know if we wanted to go out on the lake with them we to…
by Dear_diary7replies334viewsRequest to open pic gallery
Does anyone else find it inappropriate to request someone to open their pics when they have not already opened their own pics? I would not expect/request someone to open their pic…
by rico539replies582viewsProper Pronouncation - Areola
I have looked up online and received two phonetic options- Ah-Reel-Lee or ayr-ree-olah. Which is it? (I've used the second)
by MyRec5replies277viewsUsing video chat on this site
Newbie here. Toying with the idea of using video chat to help satisfy my exhibitionist side. Is this safe to do on this site? Anyone have good or bad things to share? Any advice i…
3replies243viewsThis was a first in a horrible way
This was a first for me being in the lifestyle. Guy got aggressive boyfriend put him in his place. authorities were called and I was curious if this is ever happened to someone el…
by Dear_diary5replies316viewsHow old are your pictures?
Be honest. how old are your pictures? I asked somebody how old their picture was when they showed up on my doorstep. He said about a year old I said what in dog years. ????
by Dear_diary15replies622viewsweight and playing
Hello I’ll get to it, I’m overweight my wife isn’t. My wife thinks we wouldn’t find people to play with because of my weight. It has been a fantasy of hers to have me watch, It’s…
by Mygirl696940replies1,598viewsHappy Thanksgiving - what are you thankful for…
Hope everyone has a great and Happy Thanksgiving. This year so far is one I will not be forgetting too soon. I am thankful, that I finally got some answers to start my healing pro…
by Fokkers1replies131viewsElbonian condoms
If there's any of you who've indulged in the wonderfully hot sex tourism in Elbonia, I hear that they've banned importation of foreign-made condoms, so you have to buy locally. As…
by sorillo10003replies268viewsIs SLS for you who
Hence my profile name.” dear diary” I obviously write in my diary every night and have been on the site this time around since February. My conclusion is my odds are way better go…
by Dear_diary4replies331viewsCaliente Vacation Club exit?
Due to changes in our business and family commitments, we no longer get to Caliente frequently as we have in years past. The cost of the annual membership fees is simply no longer…
0replies210viewsBehind the wheel
so everybody has a specific type of car. Examples would be: Anything that gets the job done, European sports car, American muscle car, off-road four-wheel-drive or my favorite Low…
by Dear_diary14replies636viewsStrange collections
I have almost every movie stub I’ve ever been to in photo albums. What you collected strange
by Dear_diary2replies229viewsWhat nationality are you?
I am German, my husband‘s Welch and Hungarian making him well hung.
by Dear_diary3replies339views- 8replies776views
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Would you walk up to me in a bar?
I think a good rule of thumb that people should use is: if you look at my profile and saw me in a bar, would you walk up to me and introduce yourself? If you would then I would sa…
by Dear_diary6replies302viewsSexual Evolution
As we roll into the holiday season, a generally slower time which allows for some reflection, we've managed to find ourselves reflecting back on 2024. It was a big year for us wit…
by ncwv1replies276viewsHog or dog?
Am I the only one that gets turned off seeing a guy on a Harley Davidson? I think of it the same way as seeing a 50-year-old man in skinny jeans and a mohawk. He’s just trying too…
by Dear_diary3replies234viewsCan free accounts read messages?
I read that free accounts can't communicate. Can they read messages though? I thought it was strange that I could send messages to a free account if they can't read it. I would ha…
by Bender181914replies507viewsGangbang upper-south/lower-midwest
Anywhere I can find a gangbang around here? Looking especially Kansas, Arkansas, Oklahoma, and Missouri.
1replies192viewsEmpathy
I was a volunteer firefighter and worked for a private Ambulance company and I have seen too much trauma. For the last 30 years, I have been trying to solve human suffering and I…
by steve_vme8replies651viewsHomemade dessert
Custard cream puffs from scratch, no cheating. Yeah it takes forever, but it’s well worth it
by Dear_diary0replies159viewsHoarding
Hording. Lots of us have started doing it. And if you don't, you definitely know someone who does. Many of us have already or will eventually deal with grandparents, parents, aunt…
by 8inchcable13replies679viewsFalse ads
Why do so many men post as a couple when they don’t have a swinging partner? Why not just tell the truth and post as a single guy .using a old photo of a girl as bait doesn’t work…
3replies308viewsHappy sounds during sex?
One of the reasons the Mrs turns me on like no other is the happy sounds she makes during sex. She could literally be in the middle of a dozen person orgy and I can pick her sound…
by mayhem827replies2,116viewsWhat would you tell your kids if they found out.
You sum it all up in your next to last paragraph. "We have never lied to our kids and told them it's okay to talk to us about anything with no judgement or punishment no matter wh…
105replies6,141viewsFacebook
I was invited to join two lifestyle Facebook groups her in Michigan, and there have been some great posts. The groups are private, and they have strict rules about DMs and friend…
by Kevnbeth5replies341viewsHurricane Milton Evacuees
Short notice I know, but many have to make plans and go as it closes. We live in Sebring and a couple, friends of my mother may be coming here from Clearwater. They are swingers.…
3replies329viewsLatest received or given Pussy Licking
For months now, we have been discussing the latest received or given blowjob, so let's give the other side of this coin some attention. My latest with Mrs. VA was about 3 AM today…
1,135replies91,590viewsFile must be at least 250 px
Got a partial error message while trying to upload a photo to my profile. I assume my phone can't fit the rest of the message. Anyone know what a PX is? And how do I get more of t…
by Ymichael145replies209views- 6replies345views
Acceptable or want to be approached?
So here's the deal-while on a vacation to a beach city, I saw couples and chairs with upside down pineapple towels and flags. We all know that it's a sign for the lifestyle. Do yo…
by koolfriend14replies226viewsProfile photo approvals
At times does anyone else experience the look of shock or actually tilt your head a little with an eyebrow raised when photo approvals pop up? We often as a couple find it very hu…
by HOPnrBED5replies315views- 0replies210views
Let Us Hear It For
Here is where you can give applause for the things in life that you are proud of or for those things that make you shake your head at someone's or something's stupidity.
33replies2,111viewsSeptember 11, 2001 -- Where Were You?
Where were you and what were you doing on Monday morning, September 11, 2001? What happened at your job, school or city in the aftermath that day? NO POLITICS! NOTHING ABOUT POLIT…
by 8inchcable114replies4,534viewsFunny sex themed songs
Search YouTube for “banned vinyl”. It will not disappoint! These NEED to be on the radio!!!
by gbinnj12replies644viewsWIFI and camping
A year or two ago someone here, said that they set up a WIFI signal at campsites so that anyone there who was in the know could identify that they were close. Identifying the rout…
by lcmim8replies305viewsMyrtle Beach Swing Scene?
Any suggestions on vanilla bars where we might meet other swinger couples or good places to meet singles? We’ll have a free night or 2 while we are in town and are looking for cou…
by eastonpacpl11replies816viewsOddities in WVM hits
Here on SLS, it seems we get a few views every day, but it fluctuates and seems random on what type of profile is looking. It increases with a new pic, forum, post, speed date, or…
6replies452viewsPoetry about swinging?
We have been in and out of the lifestyle across 26 years of marriage and have lately enjoyed a new round of exploration. We are currently enjoying exhibitionism as we work our way…
5replies242viewsWhen did you get on the web?
I don't want to derail the "hunting/shooting"thread, but GGMM stated there she had been online since the early '90s with USENET, which started me thinking. When did the rest of us…
13replies598viewsHotel Takeovers
Help, We are searching for hotel takeovers? Willing to travel to any of these states-- IL, MO, IN, OH, TN, KY, AK, IA Any ideas on how to find them? Thanks
3replies279viewsYa gotta love it
I saw a profile photo on another site just now. About 10 or so naked ladies standing outside under a banner. From context I would surmise this was a nude campground. There were ca…
20replies1,333viewsAnnual swingers
We have been to hedo many times and met so many amazing couples. One particular couple married 25 plus years and 4 children from Scotland befriended us and they were gorgeous in e…
by shallwedare9replies486views
