Request to open pic gallery

if someone request me to open my pics as an opening conversation they get blocked

it is a little odd that someone will message you saying I’ve opened up my private pics. Can I see yours? I will politely reply. I’m not interested in seeing yours, but thanks for your time.

Even as a single guy on here in my fifties I get these all the time! They're almost always from other men or couples accounts with no proof that a wife even exists and they're hundreds of miles away from me. My favorite ones are the guys with no photos at all on their profile that want my email address so they can send me some pictures that I never asked for in the first place! I just ignore them now.

We maintain galleries that are appropriate to different situations. We choose not to ave public face pictures for a variety of reasons. There are good reasons for some to ask --after some conversation--to see "who they are conversing with". It's a reasonable request in several contexts, and when offered politely we are inclined to do so. It is never, in our opinion, to ask for pictures that one would otherwise not see in the newspaper or general circulation magazine. Sharing of those images needs to be a "push" and not a "pull". Moreover, we think that it's always appropriate to seek consent of the receiving party before sharing intimate images.

If you mean is it okay to send that stupid, confusingly worded boilerplate demanding people open their gallery, the answer is no, it's never okay. If you mean you've sent an initial inquiry and had a positive response back but without them having opened their gallery or sent you a photo via IM, then it's fine to say you'd love to see a pic. Pretty much the same if someone has sent a first message to you without photos.

Yes, please open your gallery for us.

Oh, that's not what this thread was about?

We won't even reply to those people.

Welcome to the world of online swinger profiles.

Feel free to ignore those requests. That's what most of us do.

Yes... many "picture collectors" here and what I mean by that is voyeur guys who jack off to your photos.. big up tick in this once CL closed down. If we have not met, played, know who you are with at least "some communication" we are NOT opening our closed photos.

They have no class, have no idea how to act on a swinger site and best to just BLOCK those idiots. we do and use it frequently!

Now on another note ref your profile if you list as a couple and only show what you have her "ass" doesnt really let anyone know if they may find both attractive.. and YES its a swing site and photos of both are a must.. yes we all had high profile CIA type jobs we get it.. but some of us really did! Block out the face if you must.

By the way WELCOME!!!

Does anyone else find it inappropriate to request someone to open their pics when they have not already opened their own pics? I would not expect/request someone to open their pics unless I have already done so.