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Music and What You Remember and How You Like It Now
Ain't it something how you can hear music and it automatically takes you back to time periods in your life? I can still remember particular songs from when I was a 3–4 year-old an…
by 8inchcable6replies328viewsAmanteur Photographer for an October Event
We are having a pre bliss cruise party in Greenville, SC and I am looking for an amateur photographer to take sexy picts. Do you guys know anyone in the area?
0replies173viewsNEIGHBORS ???
We live in the Hawthorne community on HWY 27 in Leesburg. this appears to be a very conservative community. I have spoken with one custodial friend, and they state that there are…
by MNJFLA13replies967viewsHow old is too old?
I'm 64 and occasionally I have lunch with a 95yr old woman who was a friend of my late mom. She's in great health and I'm attracted to her. I've always been attracted to older wom…
12replies693viewscertifications that are basically meaningless
When wife and I look at a couple to evaluate their potential as playmates, one major turn-off we see too often. Why do people " certify " couples they've maybe just barely run int…
15replies747viewsCONVERSATION ETIQUETTE
OK, keep in mind that we are Newbies. We are big believers in communicating. BUT, and this is not the only site we've seen this frustrating action. If a couple/single/etc. takes t…
by TheNewbies1819replies947viewsChildren of Parents in lifestyle activities
What effect did being in a household with parents who had non traditional sexual relationships have on you? Was your home conservative, liberal or camouflaged as typical? Did it h…
0replies215viewsFamily Members Aware of LS Activities
Just curious. Are family members aware of your lifestyle fun? Children, parents, siblings, etc? I think in most cases, couples keep it a secret but I've known where some have brot…
9replies533viewsThe man or bear question
There's a trend on social media asking women... If you were hiking alone in the woods, would you rather come across a bear or a random man?
by Esperanza91157replies1,775viewsbelly up to the virtual bar
I'll have a Margherita on the rocks, salted rim and raise my glass to my best friend who left this world almost 17 years ago. Miss her so much, but she is forever in my heart. ~la…
188replies11,715viewsPlatos Retreat- NYC
Anyone ever go to Platos Retreat ? I been there 8 times in the late 70s- Being single- I took girlfriends as the couple requirement If you went ?- kiss & tell, but please only if…
by Apolon2117replies879viewsHas AFF Become A Total Clown Site Now?
I know this will probably get deleted. But I peeked over there and they have all these ridiculous charges to even look at pictures now. I mean a ridiculous cost for a memebership…
by BruuceWayne6replies305viewsI just watched the new Ashley Madison documentary on Netflix
Life is so much better with both partners knowingly playing together!!!
1replies231viewsGet It Off Your Chest
You know what? Sometimes you just have to get things off your chest. It doesn't matter if doing so solves or even complicates the problem, you just have to "Get It Off Your Chest.…
by Garp7834replies1,871views- 4replies297views
Cars and trucks
Last time I mentioned cars it kind of took over the topic, so figured it could use its own. The Mrs car (Lincoln MKX) died with a bad alternator. With 177K miles, that happens. Th…
by mayhem882replies2,294viewsJamaica
Hello everyone. We are planning to visit Jamaica on the fall. We are looking for recommendation on where to stay. We would like a place where I (the wife ) can find single men to…
by Funwife4you4replies457viewsNudist Resort
I was thinking of joining a local nudist resort in Ivor, Va. and was wondering if any area SLS members close to me in the central part of Va. go there. Any info would be helpfull.
by junie464replies530viewsDo people still Sext?
back in the day I had a few female "friends" I had met on the internet who loved to sext. I used to simultaneously masturbate with one who I ended up fucking on a pretty regular b…
by Brian78900replies221viewsCOMING OUT AS SWINGERS
We have found that we have what we think is a good relationship with other "vanilla couples." Then when we mention we are lifestyle they freak. We no longer are friends with them,…
by MNJFLA17replies1,292views2019 Bitch of The Day
...because there's been enough bitching in 2018... I'm too pissed off right now to post my 2019 BOTD, but you...yeah... you... YOU go right ahead. I'll be back along shortly... BT
by bridgetender234replies13,899viewsPanties or commando?
Wife here. During the Spring and summer, I love to go commando all the time. Sometimes I flash a guy here and there, and I love seeing his expression of surprise. If I go dancing,…
by starry_night29replies2,716viewsWhat's for Breakfast
The most important meal of the day. What are YOU having to start your brain & body this morning?
1,978replies143,664viewsFacial hair or no facial hair?
I recently asked a fellow SLS member to review our profile and she did, gave us great pointers on pictures and stuff, but in the process also sugested I get rid of my my beard. Sh…
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Happy tax day What is your pick for the stupidest feature of the US Internal Revenue Code?
I'll Start. I'm going with the mortgage interest deduction on second homes. Not only is the mortgage size subject to interest deduction too large ($1 million) and its result encou…
by currentrider47replies1,679viewsStrange Contacts on SLS
I have been on SLS for a long time and recently I have notice I have been some strange contacts. In the last few weeks, I have received messages from single woman (40ish, very att…
by spoonerpa8replies367viewsMeeting new people question
After so many fakes and flakes we're thinking about meet and greets versus the frustration of connecting online. Where do you go to find local events to meet people?
by bfwp4u1replies263viewsNortheast Earthquake
Well that was interesting ~ the whole house shook a bunch and all the neighbors ran into the street. Eastern PA mini quake..
by thn10457replies299viewsUseless Poll
Since this is an Open Forum, and there haven't been many new threads recently, I decided to try a completely useless, meaningless, and unscientific poll. Sock, sock, shoe, shoe.?…
by DBCooperMN25replies1,034viewsGet a nut during a sleep study?
When I have trouble sleeping, a quick whack off and no matter how strong the orgasm is and I go to sleep 95% of the time. So I am having a sleep study tonight. Private room with b…
by owcangrace13replies672viewsUse of AI in the LS and in general
While there are multiple ways to do this, I've been finding lots of uses in and out of work for ChatGPT. Just now I had a profile in Spanish. I cut/pasted it into ChatGPT prefixed…
by mayhem80replies263viewsSocks during Sex…why?
It's baffling to me when I see countless photos of people engaging in sex while wearing socks. I mean, seriously, who does that, and what's the rationale behind it? I swear, if we…
29replies955viewsAnnoying Sexual Typology of the Day
Does it annoy anyone else that there is apparently a new fad in this country for preaching to other people in gory detail about the nuances of your sexuality by coining a new and…
by currentrider45replies1,689viewsFlakes fakes and time wasters frustrations
Getting really sick of getting "interested" guys who send messages asking for a meeting to check interest levels from all parties before going further, then actually meeting for a…
by bfwp4u6replies488viewsPodcast listeners ?
Any podcast listeners here , if so , what are your favorite lifestyle and non lifestyle podcasts ?
by LAMS66928replies1,525viewsGreat inexpensive addition to your massage tools
Look up “car washing gloves” on Amazon or such. 10.00 pair. Find them in autozone or the likes also (wouldn’t doubt Walmart too ). Wife says it feels incredible when used with foo…
by gbinnj0replies218viewsMissed connection at Buffalo Iron Works
Looking for the couple from Rochester that was hanging out with the Mrs before the band played at Iron Works on Saturday March 16. Please reach out
by wlsvcouple1replies274viewsUS Solar Eclipse April 8 2024
So, what are your plans to view the upcoming eclipse? We're visiting NY state along the shores of Lake Erie. Sure hope the sky is clear...
7replies375viewsladies question, Men with the big gnarly beards
Ladies, this question is for you. What are your thoughts on the growing trend of the big beards ?
by rowdy74x22replies1,601viewsFree Members
This may be a "dumb" question but here it goes. How do you contact people who's profile are Free?
by dougpa5replies299viewsHappy St Pattys Day
I would like to wish a happy St Patty's Day to all of our Irish SLS friends. KISS ME I'M DUTCH!
by DBCooperMN16replies787viewsHappy Leap Day
Since it only happens once every 4 years, I figured it is worth a shout out.
by DBCooperMN3replies273viewsWord Of Caution To Professionals and People Concerned With Privacy
I've been in the LS as a single man off and on for nearly 20 years. It's been a debate sometimes a heated debate about people posting their face pictures on a swing site. Me perso…
by BruuceWayne7replies485viewsConcealed carry gun choices
I just got my concealed carry permit and currently looking for recommendation for handgun recommendations, and why you make that recommendation.
299replies7,201viewsTic Toc
I've seen some swinging couples on Tic Toc. Any recommendations on good ones to follow?
by Kevnbeth0replies241viewsOut of Context
"Seems like my boobs have that effect on males of all species. Imagine that."
0replies190viewsDisbalance of bisexual women vs men
I find it curious- So many women list themselves as bisexual- yet very few men do. Is it because women are not as hung up on the dates social stigma? I would think the balance wou…
by MyRec41replies1,771viewsUnblocking
I intentionally blocked several people on her when I first joined. How can I see anyone that I may have blocked? It is not real obvious how to do that. I do want to unblocked at l…
3replies298viewsThings I had to do today that I wasn't planning on doing
since there is a "what are your plans for today" thread, and plans often change.... wake up earlier than i wanted and couldn't get back to sleep mopped up the bathroom floor after…
by CopNkitten111replies6,957views
