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Looking for fun this weekend
Hey guys, me (bi) husband (straight) are looking for another couple or female this weekend for us to host for. We aren’t exactly having much luck on here lately. We are a very res…
by Dipandskip9replies271viewsTSA says pack things that buzz in your carry on
They specified toothbrushes but added other things that can activate and buzz in checked luggage.
by gbinnj6replies262viewsSite Activity
Has anyone been finding that the site has had next to no activity regarding contacts and even the Forums section is close to being dead? Hardly any discussions or new posts and mo…
28replies705viewsHot Dates
We're not even sure how to ask this question. Most hot dates posted, esp by single guys, state "....no expectations...", but nearly all go on to state that they have arrangements…
9replies426viewssobriety
is anyone on here sober? meaning they don't use drugs or alcohol? I found sobriety almost ten years ago... before that in the swinging life i lived i used a good bit of alcohol an…
9replies406viewsHow many states/countries have you had sex in?
My wife and I have traveled extensively and came up with a list of states/countries we have had sex in. This includes "friends" we met along the way. We are at 14 states and 23 co…
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Who is fishing?
Since there was a hunting/shooting topic already, I'm adding a fishing topic. Trout season opened in PA last Saturday. I didn't go out until Monday after everyone else went back t…
by spoonerpa95replies3,462viewsWondering
How many wife’s and girlfriends pictures are on here and they have no idea that they are swingers?
by newcouple381replies144viewsChat room
Who loves to talk and video in the chat rooms? I love doing my morning naked baking chat with a suprise ending.
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AI Where is it headed
I just finished an article. Cited was the observation that one, perhaps two of the AI models have successfully "rewired" their software to recognize patterns that they were not de…
by lcmim13replies494viewsProfile photo dates bait n switch?
Amazing how many active profiles have photos dating back to 2010-2017 etc. Really gives perspective into ones profile now that photos come with expiration dates lol. Anyone else f…
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MFM first time question
Should the first connection be the two or should all three meet together for sex?
4replies310viewsWife wants a gangbang
Wife wants a gangbang. What's the best way to make this happen. Thanks Happy Stag
by DLwundering10replies1,187viewsSEX WITH THE X
How many have or would like to have sex with the X? Jut a thought while I am sitting here in thought..
by MNJFLA12replies519viewsProductive Swinger Sites
For "us" SLS over 10 years , only select classy people need apply. As long as we have been swinging we have a well established group of FWB all over USA... even before we were on…
by RonKathy1replies469viewsAtlantic Beach Shackleford Banks Boat Party Nude
I know quite a few areas that are secluded near Shackleford banks, the east end. It would be fun to have 4 or more boaters enjoying the crystal clear water. Clothing optional. Mes…
2replies324viewsPlease attack us but its true
We have a general bitch about the posters on this site. Most peoples pictures are dated back to 2016 when they were a decade younger and less gross. Why does everyone have prison…
23replies644viewsOdd groupings clustered together in WVM list
Something that seems odd to me and it's happened often enough to be notable, sometimes we will get "clusters" of similar profiles making up half or more of the recent views on the…
1replies185viewsAll things motor vehicles
Was going to put this in BF, but last time I posted anything about cars it damn near took over the topic, so made this topic instead. Got a call from my daughter that her 2017 Chr…
by mayhem895replies2,563viewsSecrets Hideaway-visting for newbee night
Quick question, I've never to Secrets in Fl. Serious question, what does one wear? It is Fl where most of the locals live in shorts and flip flops... Jeans and a good fitting tee…
by SurferJ2replies255viewsATTENTION web site Admin
Sorry for posting this here, but I couldn't find a way to contact an administrator directly. I just wanted to advise of a problem person who keeps trying to create improper profil…
by TN_cpl_4Bull2replies215viewsTo my friend best friend and then we became lovers
To Anna We started off being friends then we became best friends then we became lovers The woman that stole my heart I want to write you a love note With my tongue as the pen With…
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Trying something new we had never done
On Friday night, my wife was feeling particularly frisky and said she wanted "to experiment with something new". She told me her idea in detail and I admit I had a lot of reservat…
13replies687viewsSLS Forum
Guys stop with your AI generated stories.. they are terrible ! For the many swingers we know and meet.. we want to here your real life swinging stories.. not make believe META AI…
by RonKathy8replies401viewsWe found a perfectly compatible couple exactly like us in all ways
When we read their profile, I thought "wow, I could have written this profile using the same words". But wait, I DID !!! Other than a couple of added sentences, it was an exact co…
11replies631viewsInterest Levels
Interest levels for profile types are: Definitely, Yes, A Little, Maybe and No. I m interested in feedback as to what you consider the difference between Definitely and Yes and th…
by sls_WayneC8replies333viewsGeneral porn topic
This is sort of a catch all for porn in general. Along those lines I'd be interested to hear what sorts of things people like or dislike about porn in general, and how has that ch…
by mayhem846replies2,485viewsWoman
You’re a woman, you have the greatest tool in the lifestyle, you’re the unicorn everyone seems to desperately seek, you can be as picky as you can, you have every right to do so,…
4replies280viewsEmotional Intelligence: What is it? Can it be learned? How erotic is it?
Scholars, popular writers, teachers in business schools, counselors are now claiming that Emotional Intelligence (or EQ) Is a much better predictor of success in life than EQ. So…
by sappholovers5replies408viewsFree members
Does anyone know the trick to contacting free members since they don't see messages?
by milftaster2replies249viewsHotwife/ cuckold help
Not sure a swinger site is the right place to ask for help tbh. Sounds like he doesn't really want this but says he does. You're not a mind reader. Sounds like serious relationshi…
4replies443viewsLack of response on SLS
Why don’t people respond to emails on SLS? How hard is it to say “no thank you”? We are on here because we have a similar interest. Absolutely mind boggling.
14replies537viewsGuess how many?
We all know the phrase body count. and as my profile suggests, I keep a diary daily. I have nearly 200 books and have kept a body count. if you read this, please reply with what y…
by Dear_diary34replies1,701viewsBull looking for girlfriend
Hello everyone! I am a 46 years old single and healthy bull, never married and have no kids with a remote job that allows me to move for the right couple. I am looking for a coupl…
by kyen07595replies364viewsWhat book is on your bedside table
I'm currently reading Kate Milford's Greenglass House. I'm also re-reading The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy and God Emperor of Dune. I started The Man in the High Castle by Ph…
by ionsawmill23replies1,003viewsCommercial taglines
What are some commercial tag lines that you remember when you were a child or you’re younger years? Mine was Bartles and James Wine coolers. The tagline was “ And thank you for yo…
by Dear_diary8replies343viewsHow many couples/swingers can fit on a Queen size bed?
Hi everyone, just a curious question. We know 2 couples for sure. Anyone ever had more then that?
by Vanasiancpl11replies675viewsCalling all cool people or Anyone interested in sharing incite anecdotes advice or just general info about the swing game Stories open questions editorials and anything else relevant is welcome
This forum is for anyone who wants to become more informed about the swingers lifestyle. A place where advice, personal experiences and curiosity are encouraged to share anything…
10replies314viewsGeneric 420 topic
Some people have strong opinions on this, especially in the form of smoke. I have seen people at parties zoned out on gummies, which seems easy to do if you don't have a high tole…
by mayhem823replies826views[LOCKED]WTF
Putting this back where it belongs. Abrahama Luna, who said he was diagnosed with schizophrenia in 2007, said he doesn't remember much from Monday night or Tuesday morning, but au…
13,151replies830,209viewsUser Warning
I don't know if the same holds true with the women who are seeking men, but for men seeking women be very careful with users who have free accounts, and where the pics may look to…
2replies250viewsErotic/kinky/naughty movie recommendations?
What movie or video got you turned on? I'm looking for non-vanilla type movies or videos . All recommendations will be appreciated
by patsfan124replies329viewsHappy International Beaver Day
Happy International Beaver Day, everyone. So how are you celebrating? Please tell me that you ladies are celebrating by nibbling on wood Lie to me if you have to
by sorillo10003replies228viewsIs the lifestyle dying in the US
Anyone feel like the lifestyle is dying in the US? When we got into the lifestyle 13 yrs ago people were more outgoing, had good conversations and the lifestyle seemed to be alive…
4replies317viewsChanging location on the app
Does anyone know why I can’t edit my location on the app? I travel a lot, so it’s fun to see what’s up where I’m going. I used to be able to. Note: I’m computer illiterate
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