We used to have hard and set rules. When we would go to parties she would set new rules. Funny thing is that she was the one who always broke the rules. Now the only rule is that we both need to be on the same planet.
If she is to play alone with someone it has to be someone, we played a few times with as a couple. That way I know what kind of a guy he is, and I don't have to be concerned.
Our only rules have been no is no and she will have issues if you get rough with her. I don't need to jump in, she can more than handle herself usually lol.
Yes but we each have been swingers a LONG time and once vetted with great people who are real and get it.. its all good for one on one, sleep overs on special occasions, date nights and even vacation travels with us.. we love it!
One has to have a strong open communication marriage and so many we meet just do not have it these days. We look at swinging like a fun sport.. !
Makes us young at heart always.. but so many dont get it now a days!
Condoms. Other than that, we both take the 'bye, have fun' approach. I'm more territorial, but it amuses me more than anything, so it's worked out well so far.
Most will have something in place. If you are looking for ideas for yourselves, I suggest talking with each other and hashing out what feels comfortable for you.
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Do you have rules for playing alone,
