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Open forum: Politics and such
Limericks
I just want to see what kind of funny limericks you have wrote or read. There is one I remember from my college days back at Kent State: There once was a man from Kent Whose cock…
by spoonerpa31replies485viewsValentines Day Gift Ideas
The topic here is self-evident. Beyond candy and flowers, what gifts are you thinking about this year?
7replies149viewsIs this how most Single Males really are? Oof
One month into switching my profile from a single male to couple and I've almost lost all faith in my fellow man. I've read (and read, and read) so many posts about low-effort mes…
by hetflex4u14replies532viewsAll Things Economic
Here's a topic that should take in the day's news on a regular basis. And one that I know from experience with friends from very different political backgrounds can be safe discus…
by currentrider2,300replies70,796viewsAttire at first face to face meet
Hello all- what do you think is the best attire for your first face to face meet? For me, I always keep it slightly revealing, but more vanilla. (deep-V or a well placed button lo…
by Peppa4U6replies335viewsViagra for women called Dare to Play
FYI A new product for women was recently released in several states including Fla called Dare to Play. Available only through your doctor It is a Viagra for women, it comes in top…
1replies93viewsMatch and then ghost
We're curious about something. It's not just here but, really, on all major platforms. We like someone. They like us back. We've now matched, but when we send them a message, it's…
4replies157viewsDesi Couple in Pittsburgh looking for similar connection
Hi everyone! We are an Indian couple based in the Pittsburgh area. We’ve been exploring the lifestyle for a bit and are specifically looking to connect with other Desi/Indian coup…
by PghIndianCpl0replies79viewsProfile Editor Update and AI Enhancer
We have made some updates to profile editing. On the new swing.com site, we have an AI enhancer online that will help you polish and write your profile. All of our AI agents are i…
by sls_WayneC4replies125viewsAutonomous Sensory Meridian Response - ASRM
Has anyone tried it? If yo have, did it lead to sexual activity?
1replies91viewsQuote Feature
We added a quote feature to the Forums. You will see a Reply to PROFILENAME option in the lower right of each message that you can use to reply to that message and quote them. Let…
by sls_WayneC6replies174viewsShowing at the door
Guys - It is the time of year where I get my delivery of heating oil and the guy come to my door to collect the check, (which I like). Since I can see what he looks like before he…
by Peppa4U10replies332views- 42replies757views
Pregnant Lovers
This is a topic celebrating pregnant women in all their beauty and glow. I've never been with a pregnant woman. Any comments on the glow of a pregnant woman?
by ChrmingMan0replies159viewsAI Profiles
I'm using AI tools more and more for professional purposes. Mostly Grok for research because I find it more accurate for what I want. After reading so many short and/or boring pro…
4replies126views2026 Fantasy - football - women and men wanted
Maybe a good idea, maybe not. Starting to recruit now. Anyone interested in a dynasty fantasy football league with nothing but swinger team owners? I think it could be a lot of fu…
0replies36viewsWorking Remotely
On certain job sites, I'm seeing a great amount of remote work jobs in IT and other fields. Have you worked from home for a significant amount of time? Anybody forced to do it dur…
by 8inchcable19replies327viewsLanguages
Do you speak any language other than English? If so, at what level? I once spoke some shitty Quebecois (Quebec's dialect of French). Enough to conduct some basic conversation, and…
11replies304viewsRough looking people
Okay this is a bit of a gripe I have with the community. What is up with all the people that do not make themselves presentable in your pictures that are supposed to entice. There…
by 6zcouple7replies377viewsBlocked question
If someone blocks you is it listed on your blocked list or is that only people you have blocked?
by funtimesmd3replies160viewsEver see someone you know on SLS?
Have you ever seen a person/couple you know on SLS you didn't know was in the LS? What did you do? I always wonder how we would react.
90replies8,008viewsCan you convert vanilla friends into swinger friends?
We are friends with two couples one couple has expressed fascination with swing swinging. The other has not said anything, but we feel tension. Can we go there or will we ruin our…
14replies483viewsIn or out if the closet?
Newbie, checking things out. I’m curious how many people are “out” as in their family knows they are swingers? Specifically curious how kids react. Or parents. I saw some posts on…
by DHubbie5replies183viewsChristmas and Holiday Music playlist
What's your go to albums, songs or artists? When do you start playing it? Before or after Thanksgiving? I love the Blues R&B Christmas, Motown, Frank Sinatra and his genre. Best e…
by 8inchcable17replies338viewsAdvice on someone just stopping by our house
So yesterday our ring went off when we were both working the man walked all the way around our house checked both doors. So we contacted the neighbors that live here and no body k…
28replies1,033viewsSquirting- Yay or Nay?
Hi everyone- I'm just curious how many people like or dislike when women squirt. So, do you vote Yay or Nay on squirting? Please include the gender you identify with age your age.…
by RVADandS8replies205viewsSwinging and ostomy
I have swinged prior to having one but now it seems once I disclose having it my messages are not replied back to. It does not affect anything sexually. Just an extra step at the…
by bmwarrior878replies610viewsSecond Chances
This is a two-part kinda question. If you got with a couple or single, and it was "just okay" sex, would you consider a call back for a replay? Or are you the one-shot type of per…
by 8inchcable6replies463viewsCards anyone?
When meeting a couple, I think the best way to get connected without that awkwardness is to play a game of cards with a glass of wine in cocktail or a beer!
by Dear_diary4replies272viewsWhy are there no event or group discussions in these forums?
This isn't a complaint post. I'm looking for information. We have signed up for several groups here on SLS and have attended quite a few parties, meet & greets, and soon we'll be…
11replies286viewsFilm
Just watched Being John Malkovich for the first time. Holy shit, what an insane movie. What is an example of a film that blew your mind? Or better yet, confused the hell out of yo…
by Nidorinhoe15replies424viewsThats Incredible
Not an age test, and not a reference to the 80s TV show. Tell me something that you've witnessed or otherwise experienced that you thought was astounding, life changing, incredibl…
6replies218viewsSurprise
Have you ever had something happen during sex that you wouldn't have seen coming in a million years? I had one girl who let me figure it out on my own that she was missing a foot!
59replies1,180viewsOpen question
As a single guy, is it better to go out with a group of other single guys and if so, what’s the ideal number or to roll solo
9replies273viewsPlay time talk
A while ago, someone had indicated that the forums used to have a lot of posting activity around people recounting their LS adventures, especially after a weekend. I also see a nu…
by mayhem855replies2,435views- 14replies592views
New Site Launched
Check out the news article on the homepage. beta.swing.com just launched.
by sls_WayneC19replies483views- 8replies748views
Age amnesia
I would like to introduce a lifestyle phenomena that I call age amnesia. We are 67 years old. Like everyone on this site, we think we look younger than our age. We are asked out b…
18replies859viewsThe Death of Critical Thinking?
I was watching an interesting YouTube on this topic the other day. I do find myself guilty of this as well because it's so easy to Google something or run it through ChatGPT, Copi…
by mayhem841replies624viewsOther Swinger Sites
Hello All What other Grown -n- Sexy sites are out there? IE Swinger Sites I sold my house in Phoenix and now just traveling. In Japan now and there isnt a SLS club or Lifestyle I…
by heyyou7010replies363views- 4replies362views
Photographer chat
Greetings, I took up photography as a hobby a few years ago. I had the great opportunity to work with some wonderful photographers over the years. They helped me get started about…
1replies111viewsLatest version of the SLS app
Does this latest version still suffer from the bad limitation of No Access to Personal Galleries, ( The really naughty stuff ) for any users? ?? [ For those that don't know or are…
1replies121viewsHalloween
Anyone looking forward to Halloween parties? How early to you decide what kind of costume to do and how much effort do you put into it? What are you going as this year?
by JCcpl235replies1,458viewsChanging your status from single to a couple
Does anyone know the procedure for changing your status from a single to a couple. I am a lifetime member but have a live-in girlfriend now that wants to dip her toes back into th…
by Rerunmylife3replies138viewsThat time I was an asshole
What's the worst thing you ever did to someone that you'd care to admit to on an internet forum? When I was about 11 some kid really pissed me off. I don't remember what he did, b…
88replies3,124viewsHuge delay on inbox messages deliveries
Has everyone else here noticed the huge delay between when a message is sent and when it actually shows up in your inbox? Tested it out with a few others here and found very large…
5replies164viewsLack of response on emails
Why don’t people on SLS practice professional courtesy such as RESPONDING to emails. How hard is to say “no thank you”. It’s just common courtesy when someone sends you an email t…
17replies572viewsClimate change
Seems a number of people want to discuss this topic and it expands into so many different areas, but not really a Covid vaccine topic, so I created this thread. A comment from @fu…
by mayhem8218replies6,052views
