MFM first time question

“ Should the first connection be the two or should all three meet together for sex?

Who are “the two?”

The first time someone unilaterally decided on an MFM was late morning. It wasn’t my place. The guy walked in and instead morning coffee or a tall cold glass of water, he had “his good buddy” and said what great fun it would be to do the whole MFM deal.

I’m not a morning person.

I wasn’t dressed. I grabbed my clothes didn't stop to put them on because I wore the sheet out with my shoes.

And NO i did not return the sheet.

If you aren’t ready to have a discussion with all 3 people agreeing? Don’t be surprised when you run short on linens.

The only answer is to do what you are comfortable with.

So we have been swinging well over 25 years .. and we specialize in 3 sums male and female. WE ALWAYS meet together at a nice restaurant , bar, have some food drinks and see if we all click. then its off to our home or hotel.. that easy.

Only a handful of times has it NOT worked out due to a bait and switch, someone lied about being single when married, or just not right for us.. we can tell pretty quick if its a GO by ones dress on a first meet, conversation, and see if we all click! If one lies on a profile, photos, married vs single its a NO GO.

Yes we get it sometimes the first time sex can be awkward for some guys or gals. but once they feel comfortable and understand what all want its always a repeat performance sometimes for years!

Good luck, enjoy and relax.. classy, sensual first times always works with "us"!

Good afternoon and welcome to the fora!

To be honest, the first meeting should be without any sex expectations whatsoever, on anyone's part. All three parties should sit down and discuss what each party is looking for and what each party is interested in, without being interrupted by the other two parties. Communication is key and is the foundation of long term friendships. After all is said and done, if yourselves are still up for hanky panky that day, then enjoy the fruits of your talks. If yourselves choose to schedule a playdate instead, then yourselves and the third party have time to prepare for things.

If all of the above talks have already been done, then, enjoy yourselves at your leisure!

Should the first connection be the two or should all three meet together for sex?