Hotwife/ cuckold help

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As usual, GGMM gives great advice.

Doesn't sound like this is a safe place for you emotionally.

Hi. I'm sorry. There's a lot I can say, like your husband has a kink for being cuckolded and is both intensely drawn to it and ashamed and he's blaming you for the tension between the two, and that it wouldn't be any different in any relationship, because he wants what he wants and he hates what he wants, etc.

But, really, therapy with a kink aware therapist is his best bet. And a lawyer is probably your best bet, because anyone who takes no responsibility for his own outsized role in what you've been doing is not in good working order and probably won't be for years.

Welcome.. so you have been on SLS a long time, Hmm , you guys , TOGETHER need serious help from a professional who understands what swinging is about.

Sounds like apples and oranges about what each one wants and like to do.. if you are NOT on the same page forget swinging and work totally on your marriage... nothing to be ashamed of and see what the real problem is.

Also sounds like he needs to get moving and DATE his wife.. we always do so and yes its great! If he doesnt want to invest time and energy in the marriage.. shame on him.. but that is only one side of your story!

Good luck.. and its up to the 2 of you ...which way this will go..

Not sure a swinger site is the right place to ask for help tbh. Sounds like he doesn't really want this but says he does. You're not a mind reader. Sounds like serious relationship issues now. I suggest talking and more talking