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yes visually stimulating emotionally spent when its all in,plus thick is a night to enjoy

I give up.................

I also agree that first it has to be able to get hard and then it’s a bonus if it’s thick for me

Hard and thick makes my pussy feel wonderful

Wife likes a thick cock any day.

@goodgolly as always a font of sanity and sound information. Thank you.

So, there you have it. Some women want/need them longer, some don't.

"Though there are of course outliers, my sense is that the variance in depth - distance from entrance to cervix- among women is pretty minimal."

Quick lesson in female anatomy: Vaginal canals, like every other part of the genital anatomy, have a flaccid and an aroused state. Flaccid has a narrower range. However, the difference, when you're measuring an aroused vulva is not minimal. Instead, there is likely* a range similar to penises, which isn't surprising, because male and female sexual organs are analogous.

Basically, an aroused vagina tents, making it larger to much larger than the 4ish resting inches between vaginal opening to cervix.

• I'm sticking with "likely," because the chance of a large, worldwide study on the variety found in aroused vaginas is pretty near zero.

I'm hesitant to post in this women's thread, but... im curious if my understanding is correct. Though there are of course outliers, my sense is that the variance in depth - distance from entrance to cervix- among women is pretty minimal. So more than 7" will hit the cervix which i understand is at least uncomfortable. Long dicks may be more visually appealing, more cinematic, though.

Girth-wise, since the vagina is supposed to be able to handle a baby, it seems unlikely any dick could truly be too thick (except, yes, I am aware that hormones secreted during labor allow greater expansion somehow, and a lack of arousal and other conditions can make intercourse painful, but generally speaking...

So my take is that great length is mostly wasted (except visually and psychologically perhaps) and more girth is generally a good thing

I (Katie) agree Being hung is a blessing or a curse. While some women enjoy thick and long, others like me, especially those petite ladies, it just doesn’t fit, regardless of the amount of foreplay and/or lube. When it comes to anal sex, thick doesn’t cut it. Hubby is blessed with a bigger thick cock and ask him how i feel about it, lol

Had to chime in since I fall in to that “hung” category. The wife could care less hung or not, she just wants it to work, and agree with fraunhubby68 , personality goes a long way. Being hung can be a blessing or a curse. While some women enjoy thick and long, others, especially those petite ladies, it just doesn’t fit, regardless of the amount of foreplay and/or lube. When it comes to anal sex, thick usually doesn’t cut it. So there is a place and time for all size cracks :-)

It appears that Lkngforsomething has had his updated profile approved.

I’m the opposite I prefer average or below average. 7” or smaller not to girthy

As a thought for Lkngforsomething;

Perhaps I am a little confused. Why would anyone with your thoughts and feelings pay to be a member of an adult/swingers community? Can unpaid members visit the forums section?

While you are certainly entitled to your opinion, it is curious that you are voicing such animosity toward other members in this particular area and, on this particular subject.

Finally, “Incase” is two words, is it not? In case you were wondering.

Try and enjoy the forum section for what it was intended to be. This is a place where singles and couples come to read, and add their thoughts and opinions in a respectful manner. Judging people that you do not know is unwise.

Enjoy the summer, everyone!

"Incase you need another hint: I'm not looking for anything on this site. My wife is enough for me. "

your tagline~ looking for a couple or a woman....

Lkngforsomething - There is a difference between someone asking, "What is too big for the 'average' woman" and "I'm this big. Is that too much?"

The first gives the impression that they want an answer to their question and the other comes across as a fishing expedition.

So, another cheating male who has been rejected multiple times and decided to troll people?

Cool.

Incase you need another hint: I'm not looking for anything on this site. My wife is enough for me. I pity you all (especially the men) for chasing your pleasures. You make it a lifestyle as a defense for your perverted actions. Lmfao. You guys are so easy, like a dog begging for a bone. I have also observed that most are closed minded and very judgmental.

Just come with what you got and get good at using it!! Learn how to use your hands and mouth as well to enhance the women's experience. Most women love kissing. Focus on her enjoyment first rather then yours. Once you make her cum then you can go for yours.

Mayhem:

Yes, you are right about us. But we've also had truly outstanding single guy friendships. So, here it goes.

We have met the odd "really big-dicked guy who is an asshole." These guys are physically beautiful but utterly unattractive as men and humans. We pass quickly on these guys. Confidence is sexy but arrogance and bad manners are sexual repellants.

On the other hand, we have met a good number of physically-attractive guys, who are well-endowed, and also are men with whom you want to spend a dinner, a ball game, or an evening chatting. These are regulars who deliver and make me feel good in many respects. This is the majority of our very positive single guy interactions as we vet men pretty well before I play with them. Hubby is well-endowed and the extra gentlemen are icing on the cake - er, so to speak. Hah.

For perverts, you guys are picky

If I know in advance the guy has a big dick, I walk away, because I haven't asked and the last thing I need is a guy who thinks his dick is the reason I'd fuck him.

However, with a few wonderful exceptions, I tend to attract really lovely men who have disappointingly large dicks. Dicks that I have to make work, because see above about "really lovely men." But it is like trying to put a salami into a hot dog bun and Aquaphor after isn't really fun.

fraunhubby68 - "A girthy 7 or 8 inches long...AND...attached to a genuine gentleman with a personality is most desired for us."

Is that a nice way of saying 1 out of 3 isn't going to cut it? ;-) Given a choice, the Mrs would take an average sized gentleman with a good personality over one lacking either of those traits simply because he had a big dick. There is no planet where "gentlemen" talk about their dick size unless asked, and nobody here asked.

FWIW - In our case, the Mrs is definitely turned off by guys that think the #1 attractant is dick size. She's walked away from guys with big dicks before because they came across like a big dick personality-wise.

A girthy 7 or 8 inches long...AND...attached to a genuine gentleman with a personality is most desired for us.

Living up to his profile name? ;-)

"I met up with a friend and she was in agony over my girth. i could only get it in half way. what do i do?"

seems like you are just fishing for women who like large dicks