Watching wife

We love 3 somes with both males and females, we aren’t a cuckold/ hotwife or stag vixen couple. We don’t like the labels. However seems the internet has put a lot of spin on it. There’s a lot of guys that automatically think the husband can’t satisfy the wife and that’s why he’s being asked to join them, and they think the husband is just going to watch from a chair or something. Some do and more power to them if that’s what they like.. but it’s gotten to where you really have to go through a whole process of what will happen rather than it being organic. Not long ago, that’s the way it was. We miss those days.

I've told my wife many times that if she finds someone that she'd like to fuck I'm ok with it as long as i can watch. I love watching her play with others male or female

We get hung up on terms. As a Single Male, I reject the term, "bull." "BBC" is such an objectifying term, extremely stereotypical, and it doesn't apply to me. The original meaning of "cuckold" actually applies to all husbands whose wives engage in extramarital sex, with or without the husbands' knowledge or consent. But language that is alive does evolve. Thus, "cuckold" has evolved to describe a fetish or kinky category involving humiliation, degradation, and sometimes the physical abuse of the husband. My introduction to the lifestyle by a mature happily-married couple was tough to categorize, since it wasn't Hotwifing, and it wasn't "Stag/vixen." I suppose it was basically an MFM as the husband and I shared his wife. He did enjoy watching the two of us together, but, in his arousal, he would join in to kiss and fondle his wife, as well as encourage his wife to perform fellatio on him while I was still copulating with her. He would do this in-between taking pics and shooting video content for their private use.

Exactly Fran and Hubby... !

Guys who get it are winners in our book and get rewarded handsomely some even with vacation trips.. it has made some fantastic memories and laughs along the ways!

Fruan&Hubby said it better than I ever could. We really like our friends with benefits. Stag Vixen not cuckhold.

Ok, we'll answer.

We're not into cuckold at all, even if another gentleman is the willing and happy object of the cuckolding. We are not judging as we know so many of both sexes adore this scenario.

But we do love sharing with other men. And we are truly fascinated by other couples and women who share. For us, to share a wife with another man is an act of beauty, trust, and erotic fascination.

We love sharing our lady half with great gentlemen. It is our favorite, but not only, way of playing. The guy who gets both of our attention is one who is both respectful and confident in erotic play. We've invited in the one-night-stand guy and the long-term lover guy. Both have their charms, but we prefer the loner-term friendship where the other gentleman is a trusted lover of hers. With this, we don't have to guess about safety or health. These guys can see her with me, hubby, in tow, or see her alone. A contented wife is a beautiful thing.

Do you enjoy watching your wife with another man? Where do you draw the line between cuckold and hot wife scenario? Do you want a bull for your wife or just a friend that you both get to know.