Discuss Sharing Wife

Yeah, but "open marriage" lacks the punch I needed. Plus, I like "open wedlock" better than "open marriage.". It's more poetic, and clever.

"Open Marriage" also works........

“while the other phrase is too egghead-ish“

I get turned on by egghead-ishness. My wife does too. She loves nerds.

Thank you for your comment, Travelers. We may be getting hung up on semantics here. Hopefully, I can provide some clarification.

• "Adultery is generally defined as voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone other than their spouse. Legally and socially, it involves breaching marital trust through infidelity, acting as a fault-based ground for divorce."

I am using the general definition of the term, which is correct when applied to most lifestyle activity. However, others rightly object to the usage because they're only considering the legal and social significance of the term. Again, I'm saying that ANY extramarital sex is adultery, and this is true in the general sense. Moreover, the full phrasing I used was "OPEN adultery." That implies consent on the part of both spouses, meaning there is no unfaithfulness, no infidelity, no 'cheating.' I apologize if this was unclear. As for the term 'bull,' I reject that dehumanizing term, and I never refer to myself that way, nor do I adhere to its concept. With regard to "taboo," I believe that term accurately describes most swinger lifestyle activity, and it represents society's view of the lifestyle at its core. What I described in relating my experience was a beautiful thing, and it had nothing whatsoever to do with "cuckolding" as that term is used today. Cheers!

We disagree completely with your statement blackvulcan. We do not participate in "adultery" which we would define as cheating on your spouse. We do however occasionally engage in "recreational sex" with the spouse's full approval and almost always direct involvement.

I will agree with the statement that "adultery" is immoral, but that is not what I think of when two couples full swap (or a couple and a single have a gathering). When a couple willingly, knowingly, and very openly with their partner engage in "recreational sex", with no one cheating, or hiding, or hurting someone else by doing so, that is not cheating or adultery in our book.

You maybe perhaps get a thrill out of the "shaming factor" or as some sort of "taboo" thing, but that is why we don't play with "bulls". Our dynamic is agreeable and pleasant to all involved, not cuckold or similar.

Yes, language does evolve, not always for the better. "Adultery" is easier to say and remember than "Ethical Non-monogamy." Plus, it has that shaming power that makes it exciting, while the other phrase is too egghead-ish. As always, Your Mileage May Vary.

30 years still going strong it just adds that excitement and fun that we enjoy with the special people we share beds with! It works for us!

Words evolve. Maybe we swap adultery with ethical nonmonogamy jo

I started exploring the lifestyle out of kinky curiosity, but, although I was aroused, I intended to remain just an observer because I didn't wish to participate in all the adultery. My upbringing was religiously strict, and I retained the vestiges of that even as I wandered down this naughty path. Well, the atmosphere of sexual freedom emboldened me to flirt online. When a happily-married couple off of this site invited me over to their home, I couldn't resist. I saw how down-to-earth and likable these two people were, and how absolutely charming the wife was, so classy, funny, and bright. One thing led to another, and despite all the awkwardness of that being my first time, I learned what it was like to fuck a married wife in front of her supportive husband that very same afternoon. It was wonderful. Our chemistry was so good, they invited me back again, and again, and again. We shared an intimate friendship lasting more than 10 years! They showed me how this open adultery could be uniquely fulfilling. I saw that I was celebrating their marriage instead of disrespecting it. In sharing the wife so many times with her husband, I saw how beneficial it was in drawing them closer than they already were, as if I was a conduit through which their joyful energy grew even more abundant. They taught me how this kind of kinky sex could be healthy, natural, and despite its immorality, it could be completely acceptable.

Love MFM…sharing chat? Bill

Gets my wife really wet. Started watching 3threesome port and she gets off on it,

It is amazing and gets me so wet

Love discussing this with my wife. She gets so wet when I put on threesome or wife sharing porn during sex, abs squirts when I ask her when she’s going to try some new cock

Meant it as a compliment, using “getting down to business” as a metaphor for having fun but adding the word “district” to cover all the businesses you frequent was probably clever by one half.

You’re an attractive woman and any guy would lucky to share fun times with you. Wishing you the best.

Peppa,
Fortune favors the bold at your supermarket, DIY stores and “getting down to business” district.
Bet you get a lot of guys past the window shopping stage soon.

My husband don't mind me having fun, matter of fact he recommend it. Been strolling through the supermarkets and DIY stores and still yet to be picked up. Seems like men in my area are a bit shy. lol

Katrina...true story for you.

My best guy friend and his wife seduced us and brought us into full swap. We all had permission to play as we could due to both families having a bunch of kids needing to get to games, school, etc. My buddy and I would go out and have a drink, play pool, watch a band. One time over a beer, he asked, "what is "Frau doing right now?"

I said, "probably sleeping in her tiny negligee."

He asked, "What else?"

"She's probably bottomless under it."

He didn't skip a beat, and said, "Let's go find out."

"Ok, let's go wake her up."

We did and had our first MFM just with him. We made love to her, as that was what is was, for like 3 hours, which is one of the benefits of having tag-team partner. We took turns eating my wife, entering her, spit roasting, and her getting us hard after orgasms. It was truly one for the books.

We three grew to love the MFM between us and is still some of our favorite memories.

Its a step in the direction of sharing a hot wife, if she has such thoughts. Find most guys never get around to that with the wife or GF. A slow start like a movie and a comment WOW that seems like hot fun they are having. Plant the seed as you will!
New couples are fun too, but always need a plane to go from chat to naked. Had a wife say one time to her hubby, are we going this or going home? My answer was lets see your tits and bingo.

Yes.

We are fascinated by the couples who share and always love to hear how, why, when, and with who they got started. We find wife-sharers to be very interesting.

Does anyone else just love talking about different scenarios of wife sharing with other people? i love to show pics of my wife and hear how other men and woman would please her. i love to listen and talk about it. just gets me sooo hard haha