Pussy or Ass

You know the old saying, front door, back door, same house. ????

I usually start out with a blow job, move to her pussy then in her ass. I use a condom for ass because sometimes I want to cum in her pussy. I will sometimes go back and forth between pussy and ass. 2 different feelings....enjoy either way.

The shrewd answer would be: Why not both? There's no need for a competition. But, in the spirit of conversation, I'll say that I absolutely love pussy, but ass really drives me wild. Of course, this is a conditional consideration, dependent on my mood, the situation, and the level of attraction I feel for the lady.

Full disclosure, I believe I was cursed in childhood with an anal fixation, before puberty. In grade school, I was already a perv sneaking peeks up the skirts of cute girl classmates. In high school, it was the torture of the designer jeans era. Then came the low-rise hip-hugger jeans that allowed for hot girls to flash their "whale-tail" thong underwear, and after that it was all about the "tramp stamp" lower back tattoos calling attention to that part of a girl's anatomy. Indeed, I masturbated most often to porn focusing on graphic anal sex.

My fixation was so strong, I actually chose to lose my virginity to anal sex with a female stranger, a much older white woman who flirted with me in a department store. Because of a complex combination of circumstances including my very strict religious upbringing, as well as a non-existent social life at the time, I held onto my virginity until the age of 32. In horny desperation, even though that older woman was not my type, and I would have preferred a woman more appropriate to my own age, I pursued that very kinky opportunity. Her name was Barbara, and she was a sweet old lady at 52, a bit daffy but with a kind heart. And apparently, she had a nasty side sexually despite her very wholesome appearance. I had left my number with her, and then forgotten the incident until she called out of the blue about a couple months later. She invited me over to her one-room cottage, and after breaking the ice by showing her my art portfolio, nervous newbie that I was, Barbara initiated things by groping me, and tracing her finger down my neck. I was mesmerized watching her assertively undo my pants, reaching in to possessively take hold of my engorged dick. Without a doubt, Barbara was a nasty old lady. Our extreme interracial age gap was exciting, adding so much to the rush of stripping naked and exploring kinky foreplay. Barbara was eager to take my virtue. But it surprised her to learn that I wanted, above all, to have her anally. I assured her I wasn't homosexual, but that anal sex with a female was a curious fascination going back to my boyhood. She thought for a few seconds, concerned that she hadn't had time to properly prepare. But I preferred the spontaneity of experiencing this sex act without her being ready for it, and I delighted in the fact that we were complete strangers. As Barbara got into position on the bed, my eyes drank in the sight of her wide white buttocks propped up in the air, waiting for me. It felt and looked so good as my stiff erection pushed past the initial resistance of her puckered sphincter, and then I reveled in the long slow plunge into her snug warmth. It was so blissfully nasty, shedding my virginity in Doggy style, a young black man slow-fucking some older white woman straight up her ass. I thought to myself: "At last! So, THIS is what it feels like! It's every bit as wonderful as I imagined!" Pussy just wasn't my immediate priority. For my first sexual penetration of a woman's body, I wanted it to be her ass, with my semen being ejaculated into the depths of her rectum. That's what I wanted, what I needed. Since that fateful day and that amazing revelation, I've enjoyed many spectacular anal adventures, with girlfriends, a few strippers, and a few married wives in the lifestyle. Being invited over to a couple's home specifically to fuck the classy wife up her ass in front of her approving husband has been one of the highlights of my lifestyle exploration. And I've even had the privilege of taking the anal virginity of a couple very lovely women along my journey.

I think most men have figured something out late about butt screwing. Because you like to fuck women in the ass that doesn't make you gay at all.

I figured it out in high school. My first interracial sexual experience was with a Jewish girl. We both understood the birds and the bees. We really liked each other a whole lot but back in the 90s but the thought of a black kid dating a Jewish white girl was not cool in this area. Even in the early 90s. Just wasnt acceptable then. We both had nice but strict parents. But we had an incredible attraction to each other & kept it all under wraps. We were both extremely afraid of pregnancy even with condoms & most times when we were with each other we had no condoms. So it was blow jobs, eating pussy and lots of anal sex to prevent pregnancy. That's the only way she'd have sex.

After some experimenting with lubes and watching Ron Jeremy & Tom Byron (LOL). Fucking her in the ass taught me patience and how to do it correctly. We both got to the point of enjoying it and looked forward to it without any scare of pregnancy. After that relationship I've always enjoyed anal sex with women if you can build that trust with them. I understand exactly what the original poster is saying and thinking. Many times after pounding a female's vagina. It's nothing like finishing things off by fucking her asshole, even if its just gently done. Some of my own personal "Peter North" type cum shots have come from anal sex because that ass is so tight.

So for me I equally enjoy fucking a woman's vagina and her ass. I'm a buttman towards women anyway so I enjoy both!

I've been lucky to have broken a few women's anal virginity. Huge turn on meeting anal or DP virgins.

Having had the good fortune to be introduced to anal by a man who knew what he was doing I can now say that I prefer it . A well lubricated cock in my ass makes me cum harder and longer than anything else.

I'm big on foreplay.....love it.....playing with her butt during foreplay will get her to loosen up more and more over time.....not saying it will happen then and could take several sessions of intense foreplay with a lot of tonguing, licking, .....Lube up good

@ New_Hotwife

I have a similar experience with a couple women.Both of them were afraid because they were hurt for guys the have no clue. The first one has a very nice butt and it took me months to convince her to let metro to loose it. Once I got her relaxed and with a little lube and massage she was ready. I will no lie, it hurts little bit as she told me, but she enjoyed it and was surprised if how much she liked it.
The second girl she always wanted but she didn't want to get hurt because the first time she was forced to do it and her ex boyfriend was rough. It needed the same preparation but with the help of some Margaritas with extra Tequila it was easier for her. I think it was like using some anesthesia. A nice butt is inviting and a blonde is extremely exciting.

I love to fuck her ass as much as her pussy so both is my favorite

Really whatever turns her on or both. I find I couldnt say one delight over another...its all good!

There are couples that like to leave something that is "just for them". This is where you will sometimes see couples with a "no kissing" rule, which many couples can find unacceptable. IMHO, anal can be something that couples leave for just them if they feel a need to have something in reserve.

Anal is definitely a trust thing. Unless a woman is really into and comfortable with anal, it generally takes more prep and finese than regular sex. There are too many clueless guys that think you can just plow into an ass like you can a pussy, and that can ruin things for women and other men that could otherwise be enjoying anal sex.

If guys would simply take a lubed dildo or even just their finger and put it into their own ass they'd at least have a clue as to what may actually feel good regarding anal penetration.

I've always enjoyed anal with every woman I was given permission to enter. My current wife had never done anal her entire life due to being told it hurts, it's "dirty" and it will make her asshole bigger and she wanted none of that. I will not be in a long term relationship unless the woman is "no holes barred". After sufficiently toying, pleasing and teasing her ass for a few weeks, she tried it and to her surprise she loved it. She is angry that she let others scare her into not doing it her entire life. Many women feel the same way. So, when a woman allows me to ass fuck her, I feel it is a privilege and an honor and very exciting. When I am lucky enough to experience DP, I always volunteer for the rear. :)

I love doing both, but I don't pass on it if my the woman I'm with let me in her ass. I love the way it feels.

For me it's a situational thing, and like all else, it's dependent on chemistry. I've been a butt-man since puberty, growing up in NYC in the 1980s with a lot of sexy Puerto Rican girls wearing "painted-on" designer jeans. It was tough not to develop urges of the anal variety. Some women have very enticing derrieres, and some don't. This site is full of women flashing their asses as much as their tits, so it's clear that these women know which of their -- ASSets to flaunt, even if it's just to tease. Two former girlfriends of mine could orgasm from anal sex, to my utter delight. Nevertheless, the pussy still reigns supreme-- in the end.
Fucking her up the ass is another level of kink which, in some cases is done to signify dominance. If I'm interested in going in through the backdoor, it means I reeeeeeally like the woman (Anal sex can actually be even more intimate than conventional sex, I've found.), or it means I'm in the mood for something nastier than normal, but always consensual.

I've always been a butt guy and over the years have been quite fortunate to have met a handful of women who were truly into anal.....but I Love every inch and orifice on a woman and will gladly please any of them in any way she likes

iam into alot of ass play,need a tite hole,woman love that feeling of cum in there ass

We enjoy both. Now real preference. It all depends on the mode and vibes.

@Mayhem, loved the short answer

OP, try having your ass fucked and see if you like it.

Both are totally different experiences and the experiences are different between women.
For me, if the woman is into anal, if she loves the pain, if she loves me having to hold her down and force it, I love anal.
I don't enjoy it if she if she doesn't. I don't like feeling like I am raping her. I have never done anal to a woman that didn't agree to it. The woman that ask for anal are the best.
As with pussy, I have been with huge assholes and tight assholes. Huge ass you can get into a lot easier, but tight ass feels better. I really do not think you can compare the two.
I prefer both. But pussy is a lot easier to get.

The short answer for us is "pussy".

For us, anal play requires a few things to fall into place. Mood and ambience are some of the first things. Being at a swinger party and having played helps provide some of that.

Prep is another ingredient. Unless someone is very into and used to anal (the Mrs is not), a butt plug with lots of lube and a vibrator helps open things up a bit. Either that, or fingers with simultaneous clitoral stimulation. For whatever reason, flogging and/or spanking seems to grease the skids for the Mrs towards anal play too.

Lastly, our most fun and successful anal play times involved a certain amount of alcohol. There is a fairly fine line between too much and not enough. This can be hard to reproduce. For example, sometimes you can have 1 drink and really feel it. Other times, you can have 3 drinks and barely get a buzz.

For me personally, the physical aspects of anal are less enjoyable than oral or vaginal, but the mental imagery of anal is more erotic. The largest sex organ IMHO is the one between your ears, so anal orgasms tend to be more intense for me as well.

When all of the planets line up, anal orgasms have been some of the most intense orgasms either of us have experienced. but these are rare for us because of all of the things that have to fall into place. One can try to set all of these things up, but the risk in doing that is that things feel contrived rather than just happening naturally, and that of course takes some of the fun and excitement out of it.

We're both fine with anal being a rare occurrence for us. If it became more common, it would lose some of the appeal. I'm sure everyone has a favorite meal, but if they had it all the time, at some point it would no longer be your favorite meal.

My late wife and I tried anal early in our marriage a few times. We really were not impressed. I felt it was too tight and uncomfortable.

We enjoy both. But I (male) might be an outlier as I also enjoy rimming. Wife like dp (best with longer cocks) but needs a little foreplay to get there.
Anal assisted orgasms are so intense.

I tried it a few times with my late wife, but it didn’t impress me much. My new wife and I do not offer it to our extra male

@ OneHorny…. Cat and I laughed out loud; amen.

He wouldn't know it was there unless it was written on a cue card.