Thanks for clarifying Wayne. Unfortunately, whatever the case, this button gets misused, either by accident or on purpose. It's normal use in our experience is kind of the equivilent of walking up to someone and saying, "Hey, show me your dick/pussy". Just having the button available kind of promotes that for least savory portion of SLS members. In other words, it's way more annoying than it is helpful.
Perhaps it works well for people just looking for NSA sex when it is sent to someone of the same ilk, but in our experience, that is a very small % of the overall SLS membership.