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FWB - I suspect part of it is that husbands take more pics of their wives, especially nudes, than vice-versa. I have to explicitly ask my wife to take pics of me, other than with the kids on vacations and such, and especially when I'm nude. She's just wired to think "mr. lovemonkey is nekkid, i need to take a pic" like I am with her.

And, relatedly, if we assume, I think correctly, that husbands set up and curate about 85%-90% profiles, then they might be biased against their own pics; they think all of their wife's pics are sexy, but don't care so much for their own so they feel they have fewer to post.

And of course as we know there are many couples who have some noticeable differential in their levels of physical attractiveness. In my unscientific experience this favors the females by a good margin, though definitely not in all cases. So, maybe they're just trying to put their best foot forward, and hubby's pics don't make the cut.

Exactly FWB and if they do not have male half photos move on.. ! Thats what we do and it works..

No for "us" and over 30 years swinging if we have some jerks couples and singles over all those years..we BLOCK their number and move on! Its that easy for us. Never ever had an issue after!

Does nobody else use a google phone number for LS purposes?

False name and location for registry and you always know the subject matter of calls.
You have the choice of having your phone ring or not .

Yes there are decent and fun men on her. We have been on SLS for over a decade and have enjoyed it for the most part.
We always extablish that communication is key - but we do not go outside SLS to communicate or share pictures. We never give out a phone number! Stay within the boudaries of the web site and you should have fun and weed out the fakes.

Yes there are decent and fun men on her. We have been on SLS for over a decade and have enjoyed it for the most part.
We always extablish that communication is key - but we do not go outside SLS to communicate or share pictures. We never give out a phone number! Stay within the boudaries of the web site and you should have fun and weed out the fakes.

There are lots of decent men on this and other sites. Move slowly and vet carefully.

I’m comfortable giving out my cell phone shortly after we’ve been chatting. My wife’s number?… not so much. Too many men, and women, don’t understand that she simply doesn’t like to flirt or have conversations via txt, and it really annoys her when they are persistent.

There’s no way we’d ever consider giving her number to someone that’s not local, or to someone whom we haven’t met several times.

@Mssuzieq

Yes, there are real decent men on here. Unfortunately, we are too far apart to even entertain the idea of getting together.

I never give my phone number out to anyone from a swinging website until I have met them in person. When someone asks for mine, it is a red flag for me. I have used kik and Google chat to communicate with people prior to meeting.

I’ve used Kik and have given out my cell (local only). It all depends on the vibe you’re receiving. I will say that my gut instinct rarely fails me. So if you’re feeling hesitant, there’s a reason.

I would second what you have already been told. Also, be careful about giving out your phone number because it can be used for nefarious means. Use a chat app if you are going to go outside of the site to chat. Try to get them to verify they are who they say they are with a proof of life picture or video chat. Don't wait to long before asking them to verify their identity. Just be patient and expect stupid people to do stupid things. Good luck.

Well get use to it as the majority of SM on here are either fakes, pic collectors, or want to chat so they can get off. Also, a lot of married guys stepping out on their wife. Don't give up there are still some good guys also.

Okay, I know I’m new here so please bear with me. I was all set to meet someone, but when I gave him my phone number he started bugging me to talk and text. I find this extremely annoying. I’m extremely independent. I want to have some sexual fun, not cater to a man’s insecurities. I let him know how I felt and cancelled our meet. I then blocked him on my phone and on SLS. Then I had another man, who lives half way across the country want me to give him my phone number. I refused. I asked him for his number. He said he didn’t want to give it to me because he didn’t want me to call him when he didn’t expect it. WTF! He disappeared. I’m am quickly getting discouraged with this shit. Are there any real decent men on here?