It's nice in the beginning, but then it turns into routine and most guys are old and ugly. So it's nice in the first months and then it becomes lame. There's also the misogynistic guys who look down on women who do it, but they see them anyway. The hypocrisy can't get higher than that.
Escort Fantasy
Great idea jaknsuz. We have fantasized about my wife being an escort but of course, the whole "money for company" idea sounds like she could run into a sting operation. We don't want her on the evening news!! But me paying her for every new (has to be NEW - she sees her steady playmates so often I couldn't afford to pay her just for playing with them) playmate is a great idea.
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I guess 100 to 500 depending on the girl and what part of the country and if you are a regular or one time thing....
That's hot WV. Maybe you should tell her she needs to raise some money for a trip to NOLA!
~Scamp
$50 a pop 25 years ago? I wonder what a donation to the college fund would be today?
@jaknsuz. LOL. I like the way you think. PM
Suz has said a few times, that she had always thought she would like to be an escort...but never had the nerve to try it. We do it with a little twist that is safe for her, and fun for both of us. She has been wanting to replace the windows in our sunroom at our beach place, and we have been holding off doing it until we save the money to buy the new windows. I told her I would donate $100 towards her window fund, for every new man she fucks for the rest of this summer and fall. She started 2 weeks ago, and is up to $800 so far! Goodbye hotrod fund....hello window fund! LOL
I want it but as a ageplay fantasy to
The reason I seriously considered it as a career choice, especially the second time, was the opportunity to be a companion. That is what I would have charged for. Sex would not have been a paid activity. Or at least that was how the woman who suggested it that second time set up her fee structure.
The first time was definitely pay for play and I only considered it because I was so poor I couldn't afford tuition. I ended up doing art modeling instead. Still working naked, but there was limited touching. ;-)
Wife here. If you can get to choose who to go out with and how far to go, then it's fun. I've done it a lot of times that way and I have no complaints.
Someonescoming, I certainly think that the man I met was really more interested in the companionship aspect when he first asked me, more than anything else. He too hated eating alone. He missed having a female friend to talk to and confide in. He certainly enjoyed the sex, but I know he would have continued seeing me without it. He had been a lonely man. I encouraged him to start dating again, it took a while but he finally did. I was happy for him when he found someone. When I had a job that required travel I found out myself what it's like to be away from home, and eating meals alone in restaurants, in places you're unfamiliar with. I now know why those hotel bars are often filled with businessmen, you get lonely.
I actually did this once. A man approached me and gave me his business card at a club. He was an attorney. He asked me to be his date at a function at his country club, it was an awards dinner. He said he would pay me for my time. He also said he wasn't propositioning me, no sex involved. Well, my husband and I checked him out and found out he was who he said he was. He seemed very nice, he was an older gentleman, and I agreed. I went with him to the dinner, and actually had very good time. A couple of weeks later he called me up and asked if I'd be his date at a wedding, same deal, I agreed. He was a widower. He was smart intelligent, I enjoyed his company, and the 2nd time I wound up going home with him we became intimate. (I had discussed this possibility with my husband). I made him a very happy man. He told me it was the first sex he had in 4 years. He turned out to be a gentle and pleasing lover. I continued to be his escort, for almost two years, until he met a lady closer to his own age. It was a pleasing relationship to me, if being an escort was always like that, I'd consider anytime.
Fantasy is great and can fully understand this one. Reality, I fear, may be a bit different.
Many years ago I had a neighbor who was an escort, a nice person, definitely sexy and pretty but after a few conversations I felt a bit sorry for her. She admitted that safety was an issue, but manageable. However she also admitted that sex had become something that emotionally meant nothing to her as far as intimacy, therefore having real relationships was tough. As relationships progress the guy would want intimacy while she was turned off as it was “just sex”. I felt she was emotionally broken by being an escort. I have often wondered how life worked out for her, and if other escorts felt the same way.
My guess is in the beginning their is an Adrenalin rush: new and different lovers who want different sex from vanilla to kinky, and being paid for it. Over time . . .
I want to be an Escort Girl....
It's not a fantasy, but I've twice considered it as a career. In both cases, it was suggested by women in the business.
Rape, multiple men, and escort fantasies are the most common for the hundreds of women who have told me about theirs.