Unicorn here... most couples look for unicorns. I would say the majority I would advise you to start going to House parties and swinger clubs. I've been in the lifestyle over 30 plus years and only came across five true unicorns 100% single. Most unicorns are single but have men friends that will accompany when playing for their own safety. Good luck with that one :)
Don't flatter yourself thinking you're more special than all the other unicorn hunters.
You say, "our unicorn". What makes you think you can own another person? What makes you think she should only have sex with you?
Get in line. I (Andrew), usually meet a single woman once or twice a year at swinger clubs, purely through dumb luck. When that happens, it almost always turns into a dating situation for at least a few months. My wife is never involved in this. When we put effort into anything it's for full swap. We aren't unicorn hunters as a couple, and I don't even put much effort into it for myself. Go where they are, put yourself in the right situation, then it either happens or it doesn't. If you're a dedicated unicorn hunting couple, as in, that's your only swinging option, then prepare to be disappointed for a long time, few and far between.
Better to post this as a Hotdate.
You will definitely not find one on forums.. check profiles , limit search and try those .. it does work!
Long term couple looking for our unicorn for full play.
