Finding Playmates
Clubs, parties, conventions or online, where are all the swingers
New here
Hi guys Ashley and will here we are new to the group but hope to meet some great fun new friends we can vibe with we are outgoing fun and have a very strong relationship we and a…
1replies526viewsHAWTHORNE ON 27
MNJFLA - while it may not hurt to post this in the forums, I'd think you'd get a lot more local visibility by posting Hot Dates. The only downside from posting in the forums I can…
by mayhem80replies401viewsUsing Hot Date feature or changing/searching destination Location - Which is better?
We're traveling to a Major City next week, and are looking for some adult playtime. Usually, we find playcouples by searching local to us, and making arrangements for an initial '…
by sjbluebirds20replies1,364viewsWhy
Why is so hard to find people that won't flake on you? We spent 1 week setting up a meet this morning with 3 guys. They were anxious to get the chance to fuck her. Now, this morni…
by Fwb3176821replies1,609views- 13replies2,257views
Dress for success
We attended an upscale meet and greet last evening. A few of the men were wearing baseball caps, some with printed T shirts, a few wore cowboy hats. It seems that they were not se…
by MNJFLA13replies1,118viewsSIGNS AND SYMBOLS
Nothing.. we dont use symbols, flamingos, pineapples.. we seek out people we enjoy on SLS, events, parties or at a vanilla bar and take them home.. That simple ! Its called for "u…
by RonKathy0replies679viewsAtlantic City
Any F or couples want to play n AC? Male has hallpass and can host at beautiful oceanfront condo.
by azmaturecpl2replies623viewsDFW playmates
Looking for personals, contacts, websites, and others interested in the swing, bi, gay, and kink arenas. Enjoy meeting over coffee with others into or new to the Lifestyles
by BiPilot71replies691viewsAny Couples From MA We New To This
Hi everyone just looking for some cool couples to be friends in and out of the bedroom. Me & my gf Kate are new to this. looking forward to chatting with you all.
by Metalfan19874replies681viewsUnexpected/funny ways to meet people
Every now and then, I find myself meeting and playing with someone in unexpected or funny ways. We went to a party this past Saturday and I had one of those funny and unexpected e…
by mayhem81replies1,152viewsAdd Lifestyle Definitions to Profile Preferences
It would be pretty cool if the Profile Preferences section had the option to select Lifestyle Definitions that Describe the Profile and Interests. Ours would look like.... We Are:…
2replies467viewsConvincing Friends to Swap
We have been talking about swapping with Close friends how do we start this ?
by lickerman358replies1,867viewsLooking for submissive wife
Looking for submissive wife that will be open to all sexual adventures
by Andynaugty3replies701viewsNorthwestern Wi
Looking for trail riding atv /utv riders in northwestern Wi. Single men or couples, into riding the trails and maybe more.
5replies863viewsContacting potential dates
Guys we have talked before.. stop blaming those on SLS it is just one avenue to swinging and a small one..get out to clubs, events and parties.. by this time one would think you w…
by RonKathy18replies2,018viewsBang for your buck
When it comes to parties, do other people besides me even consider the "bang for the buck" factor? The thing that made me think about this is a conversation I had online on anothe…
by mayhem815replies1,741viewsPenis size
I have a 5” penis with ok girth. Now my question is- should I feel weird about size on here? It seems all women want big?
by Call997replies2,043viewsFinding other couples at events?
We just recently started going to different motorcycle rallies and bike nights, and were curious if anyone else has had any luck finding other lifestyle couples at these type even…
3replies737viewsNo players on the playing field
So we are new to this and we've met a few cool people on here but for the most part there is nobody that wants to play there's a big filled out there with no players but us please…
39replies2,627viewsLIFETIME MEMBERSHIP
We are disheartened when we see "free members" only to discover they pare probably just " peepers. " We paid our full lifetime fee and have met many serious players. Even those we…
by MNJFLA6replies1,039views- 6replies1,548views
How do people balance free time
Ok. So we can’t be the only people that in a normal year get about 10 opportunities to get out. We are trying to strike a balance between hanging out with people we have played wi…
by ToddNicole7913replies1,229viewsTribbing match
looking to have a tribbing match you against my wife.... any ladies interested?
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Couple seeking couple - come get away with us
We've been trying for months now to find a couple that would like to meet over dinner and maybe some drinks and have had no luck. We have our thoughts as to why and understand tha…
by Hungie0replies661viewsAny Southeastern Massachusetts Couples Seeking A Young Bisexual Guy?
I am a 29-year-old male near Southeastern Massachusetts and putting out a request or ad per se for any couple that wants or is seeking a bisexual guy. I am seeking more than a one…
1replies461viewsDoes anyone else find it hard to find local playmates?
We live in a small town and there are a few couples in the area that are on the sls site. But the problem that we have is that they want talk or try to even give you a chance. My…
by RedandPJ3059replies6,943viewsISO Female Babygirl/Sub w/potential LTR
I am a 57 year old DD free man, who is in search of an ongoing FWB and/or D/S situation. I am looking for it to potentially turn into a Long Term Relationship with the right lady.…
by RJSOUDEN1replies564viewsCovid Shots
Has anyone gotten them yet? Do you feel safe to play? How do you let others know you have them and are safe to play? Is anyone playing not that held off as a result of covid?
by MNJFLA3replies666viewsFinding a fuck buddy
I know it should be easy, being in the lifestyle, but it's not. My hot lady has 4 fuck buddies and wants me to have one or more...I like that idea also. But...being painfully shy…
by midagehippie20replies3,327viewsSwinger symbology
Hey fellow swingers. I've recently been pondering about identifying our kind while out in public. I realize that it can be quite lonely being the only couple thinking the way we d…
by GunzNBoltz31replies3,887viewsBullshitters .
Many of these swing sites have a ton of bullshitters due to the nature and privacy of the lifestyle. Just out of your experience can you share some of your bullshit stories of how…
by BruuceWayne62replies5,850views- 2replies920views
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Williamsburg Couples Weekend
We are looking to use some resort points and thought why not turn this into a fun, sexy adventure by adding two more couples to join us totalling 6 people (3 men, 3 women) to spen…
0replies730viewsLooking for a playmate or playmates during vacation.
My girl and I are travelling to Portland, ME the weekend of October 23rd. We were hoping to find a bi or bi-curious guy to join us for some fun one night. Couples are also welcome…
7replies951viewsAre any hot in shape couple in nj
We been on this site very disappointed we can not find any couple that are attractive were not taking one for the team lot couple have pic of the girl none of the men wife has to…
by jjmss69778replies1,165viewsHusband want watch wife .
My wife is open to this Would like to meet for drinks dancing playing around in the club and take it from there.
by Awittlefun3replies1,479viewsDesired age
It's the 4th section on every profile. If you don't fit in that age range, you have a low success rate of success. If it's over a decade, even a reaponse isn't warranted. A very l…
by magjoy7replies1,277viewsWoman to play
Why is it so hard to find a woman to join us. Generally I (f) try to get things going with her...should he take the lead?
6replies1,448viewsDoes anyone NOT shave their pubes bald?
Does anyone (couple or female) NOT shave their pubes bald? Seems every couple or female we meet does. We were once with a couple whom did and neither of us (wife or I) liked. We r…
by NOVA_FWB80replies8,574viewsI apparently attract crazy, uncommunicative weirdos
Had the following exchange with a SF who approached me this morning. Late 50s, one sentence in each part of her profile, a single public photo of her hair. That's it, just her hai…
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Why quality better than quantity when it comes to swinging?
Most people we have encountered in the LS have been for quality friendships versus quantity in sex. In Kansas at least we see this as a trend and that has made us love being in th…
0replies428viewsWhy quality better than quantity when it comes to swinging?
Most people we have encountered in the LS have been for quality friendships versus quantity in sex. In Kansas at least we see this as a trend and that has made us love being in th…
26replies2,112viewsNeeding Yankton playmate
It amazes me at how many just want to look and read profiles. I’m n the area for a few months...in need of a hard dick. No strings attached. I just want a fuck buddy. Why is that…
by Texasmedic572replies586views
