The problem with trying to hookup at vanilla events is that most people aren’t there with swinging in mind. Even if they think they pick up on something you are putting out, they may be unwilling to take a chance on being wrong.
We've been to many bike rallies, large horse rides/shows, off-road motorcycle races, and other events with very active and mostly "party types" of people. Exactly once in the last 20 years did we connect with another swinger couple at a vanilla event. That once was too many years ago to even recall the details of how it came to light for all of us, but I am sure drinking & flirting were involved - LOL.
We’ve never randomly found lifestyle people outside of a lifestyle event. That isn’t to say they aren’t there, but the odds aren’t in favor of a meet.
We just recently started going to different motorcycle rallies and bike nights, and were curious if anyone else has had any luck finding other lifestyle couples at these type events? We had the upside down pineapple pinstriped on our bike, and many of our friends in the lifestyle also ride, but we travel to some events most of them dont attend and it would be nice to find other couples to hang out with.
