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Blocking question
I am not sure if I blocked someone accidentally or they actually blocked me ? When I hit there profile pic in who viewed me it says I blocked them? If they blocked me does it give…
by jeangw29replies1,663viewsBeing called out
Curious if anyone has had any similar experience to what we have encountered and any advice. Apparently someone on here or another site has told one of our exes about our lifestyl…
by BeEaten4148replies687viewsDinner and drinks in Evansville?
The wife and I are heading out tonight for dinner drinks? Any unicorns or couples with a bi female interested in meeting up?
by Swirl5102replies424viewsTechnology for the sake of it
While over my daughter's yesterday for T-day, my son-in-law had to show me his multi color smart bulb. For those not familiar, it can be controlled by Echo Dot and probably other…
by mayhem815replies1,023viewsAnal virgin here. How would you prep yourself and your partner for first time anal? What to expect the first time?.
I have been very curious to try it but haven't found the right partner yet
by koolfriend141replies2,602viewsWhat to do see in New Orleans?
It looks like we may go to NOLA for an upcoming weekend with some friends. These are fun folks to eat, drink, and dance with for a weekend, plus a bit of sightseeing, but not swin…
19replies1,120viewsLegal Ramifications
If someone files a DMCA takedown notice with the correct agent, most sites will get the content off the site. And there are a mess of lawyers that will enjoy going after any site…
12replies1,322viewshappy thanksgiving 2018
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. Wishing you safe travels and beautiful memories. :)
21replies1,838viewsSingle (married playing single) guy, new and need of help please
Hi all, been on the site a few years with no success. Thought maybe it was because i was restricting myself with a free membership. So today i signed up for a three month membersh…
by jg46132replies586viewsThat time I was an asshole
What's the worst thing you ever did to someone that you'd care to admit to on an internet forum? When I was about 11 some kid really pissed me off. I don't remember what he did, b…
88replies3,124viewsFinding someone from private video chat
Anyone know if it's possible to find someone from a private video chat after getting disconnected? Like where you can see who you were chatting with? We're pretty new to the site…
by MandM2635replies486viewsCigar smokers post one of your favorites
My Father Ct Rocky Patel 1990 Are two of my favorites.
by WrsjNC784replies470viewshow couples meet single guys at bars
Hi all. We are a swinger couple. Our favourite moments are when we meet some single guy in a normal bar and he approaches us for a conversation and then things develop from there…
8replies913viewsWhat’s your must see?
I’m taking all of December off, throwing my tent and cast iron skillet in the jeep and headed west from Tennessee. No idea where I’m going. I’ll be camping in state and national p…
by Hunter446010replies842viewsHonesty about penis size
Good afternoon everyone. Posting for the first time, I've got some major questions that I'd like to ask to help me, the husband, decide if I want to pursue this further. I've been…
by CandT_CO8replies1,628views- 68replies5,256views
Adult Bookstores - Love, Like, Leave?
We absolutely love a good ABS/theater. Our only problem is being new to an area, we’d be very nervous playing. At our old home in Tampa, we new the mood of the local law enforceme…
by hotluvrs58replies3,889viewsmissed connection @ The Pine Club 10/27
Looking for the Youngstown group, and a couple from Lorain I met this past Saturday at The Pine Club. I got to play for the first time with a girl whose name starts with a J. It w…
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Non-drinkers, non-smokers . a turn-off?
I recently updated my profile to reflect the fact that I don't drink. (I didn't hide it before—I just never thought about it.) A couple actually told me that they prefer to meet w…
by Ekserb25replies612viewsSwinger Paid Events vs Meet and Greets
We travel around the USA and attend different swinger parties, swinger themed parties such as Halloween, New Years, Hotel Take Overs etc. In every one of our paid swinger parties…
by RonKathy8replies692viewsinstant messages .
What the hell is with single guys thinking that they're likely to get a positive response from IM's containing one it two words? Especially the ones that say "let's fuck!" By our…
by MNTNcouple4replies632viewsPartied this past weekend 10-20-2018
We had one couple and 4 guys join us. The couple didn't like the single guys a caused somewhat of a problem. My hubby and I were up front with the couple telling tem there were go…
by valleychic3replies476viewsHalloween Party
Has anyone attended the Halloween Party at Airport Video or the one at the Riverside Club? We are looking to attend and would like some recommendations. Is anyone planning on atte…
3replies487viewsHello everyone
Welcome to the fora. Feel free to jump right in with comments or better yet, read up on current threads then add your questions and comments. Have fun! ~S~.
4replies513viewssyrause ny social club
has anyone attended ? what is it like ? did you meet nice people. thanks
0replies403viewsMale issues
Ok, MAIL issues! 90% of my inquiries to people sit forever unread. I’m very puzzled by this, any ideas as to why this is, many are paid members. Why pay for this and not even open…
by two4frolic6replies652viewsage limits on profiles
Like everything else in this lifestyle, it's about preference. She's fine with older men. Does she like all older men? No. Some couples are open to meeting older couples. Does it…
by pixie_lust6replies741viewsBush
Why does it seem like finding a woman with a nicely manicured bush if few and far between? Am I the only one here who prefers something there rather than bare? Not asking for over…
by Chassis740replies456viewsYOU Can be a SLUT !
“We don’t want you to think we’re sluts.” A confessional that a few different LS couples have uttered to us during our tenure. And it always stops me. Not at all because of their…
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What to Do When Someone Won't Listen to NO
I'll provide details if needed, but this is a general question. We have seen and talked to a couple from SLS at bars as well as recently at a hotel takeover by Friction Parties. T…
by Katnandrew12replies1,156viewsConsent
News of the vanilla world suggests that there little education and less understanding of consent. (CNN recently reported that only 8 states require education on the topic of conse…
3replies543viewsPeriod starts the day of a play party. What to do??
How do you handle, or how would you handle getting your period on the day of a play party? Especially one which is private and invite only? Do you cancel your attendance? Come and…
24replies1,557viewsGang Bang with Fixed Guys and Cream Pie Fantasy
Hey everyone, new here to forums, but maybe someone can point me in right direction. I would LOVE to have a gangbang/train scenario with several men who are fixed and clean with a…
by gingergal396replies1,056viewsAny Christian Swingers on here?
My wife and I are Christians. A fact we would never hide from any one... I realize this may be a strange place to talk about God, religion and theology but I have been studying th…
32replies2,142viewsFake Profiles and Feedback.
I know of a SM that occasionally posts in the forums who’s main (and possibly only) picture is of him in a suit. He has ALOT if certs and, though I’ve never met him, I know he’s l…
20replies2,029viewsSpelling and grammar, or, How I learned to love proofreading
I think a lot of people would equate poor spelling, punctuation, and grammar with a lower level of education. I disagree. I think the people with the worst writing skills are simp…
by Ekserb251replies2,480viewsForum cleanup
When and why? Obviously, I am not around here as much, but I saw some mention of a clean up in other threads, so I was wondering what happened.
by irishrose224replies558viewsbumper sticker
We were on our way to the New Hampshire Highland Games yesterday when we passed a vehicle that immediately caught our attention. In the upper left corner of their back windshield,…
by MNTNcouple2replies475viewsEver connect with couples spontaneously?
We always plan our dates with other couples and have never just met a couple who happened to be swingers. It's a fantasy to meet a couple this way but very risky unless we are cer…
by FunInMidwest9replies766viewsBiography/Tell All
I am seriously considering writing a book...A biography/tell all. Don't worry the names will change to protect the not so innocent. What do you think about this? I know I can writ…
by FullSwapCLT0replies388viewsMassage Exchange
Hey folks, just thought about exchanging massages and apparently there are a couple of websites offering that. The problem is their members are too few and mostly inactive. I bet…
by underarmor671replies471viewsAre you in the US buying ED drugs from Canada? If so which one?
I had been buying generic Viagra from Canada Drug center but they were shutdown by the US govt in July. Never had a problem and the drugs worked a swell if not better than the act…
by owcangrace1replies547viewsSLS App
Can this be brought back. A great easy way to peruse. Especially with geolocation.
0replies414viewsseeking doctor in tampa bay area
Does anyone know of a lifestyle-friendly doctor in the Tampa Bay Area? My GF and I are looking to have the same doctor for regular checkups. I would rather not just pick off the i…
by drmotorhead1replies438viewsOrlando in November
We are going to be in Orlando the first 2 weeks of November, Wondering what there is to do while in town. Thanks
by newcplfun6910replies1,200viewsPOLL: Oregon / Washington ???
We are picking where we want to live long term, and would like it to be in a state where there is a vibrant LS community. When I looked at the hot dates, I saw that most nearby we…
4replies426viewsHelp
Me and my wife just decided to reopen the relationship.. How do I actually meet and talk to more people on here? Or anywhere. We live on the MA/RI border and looked up a few clubs…
4replies552viewsHair
What's your preference. Most in SLS seem to like shaved or trimmed. Why is that so? Do you consider hair dirty, even when washed and combed? I like natural, full bush on a woman a…
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