"only send emails to profiles that state an interest in SMs"
This is probably the reason 95% of SM emails go unread on most profiles. We get about 5-10 emails a week from single guys, and they are universally deleted unless it's from someone we know. Most of them state that they read and loved our profile, even though if they had they wouldn't be emailing.
Not saying that this is the case here...
Thanks all for taking the time to give me some valuable feedback! I had no idea after decades on here that an email can be read without flagging that it has been. That explains the mystery of 90% "Unread" to folks with memberships. It baffled me that one would pay for a membership and not read notes sent.
I know I have nearly every card stacked against me - age, married male, playing alone w/o wife, a long way from most and a profile that needs help!
You guys have been great thanks again!
-j
And stop using “Hi there” as your opening line. Personalize it or we will think you haven’t bother to read our profile and are just spamming anyone and everyone.
~S~
BT hit most of the main points. And we concur.
We will also add that married singles are likely to get a lesser response simply based on the possibility of being a cheater. You address that in your profile but many, us included, don't want to have to deal with the potential drama that may ensue.
Not judging in any way. Just pointing out a potential roadblock.
Good luck
Because they can read your emails without opening them...or they've cut to the chase, looked at your profile, have no interest in you, and deleted your email.
So, do yourself a favor; Make sure that your profile is well-developed, clear, polite, and with proper grammar. Then, make sure you have good quality, non-bathroom/non-selfie photos, and then, stop emailing people, or at the most, only send emails to profiles that state an interest in SMs, and only those where you fit into their age range and any other descriptors they have in their profile, whether its race, cock size, or physical shape. Do not email people like you're a Value-Pak SM.
Develop your profile like you would a marketing piece. People who are interested will find you. This stuff takes time. If you're of the mindset that this kind of thing is always like an instant hot water dispenser, you'll be forever frustrated.
There's an area on the main Forums page, I think the header is Achieving Single Male Success, where you can create a new thread and ask for input on your profile. Be thick skinned. You'll get the good, bad, and Ugly...from the good, bad, and ugly, but these folks are dead-on.
Good luck and have fun,
BT
-Of course, all of this is just one man's opinion. As they say, opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one and some are more expressive than others.
Ok, MAIL issues! 90% of my inquiries to people sit forever unread. I’m very puzzled by this, any ideas as to why this is, many are paid members. Why pay for this and not even open letters?? My subject is typically only “Hi there” does not sound too creepy to me and I have good testimonials. Thoughts and suggestions please!!
Is this a SLS bug? Thanks for any input
